Question for the ladies in the Forum...

Ok, another question for Sally, Taz, Sunshine and all of the other girls out there… Here it is.

I’m currently getting it once per week… Now that my premature ejaculation problem is cured I obviously take *lots* longer to cum.. Previously, I would cum so fast I left my wife *always* wanting more then I could give. Now it seems to be on the other side in a slight negative way… I can go for an easy 20 to 30 minutes now and my wife is begging me to cum at approx the 12 - 15 minute mark. This is a very long way from the 5 second and under club I USED to belong to! My problem now is that she says she is sore for several days after and does not want to have sex…

Can any of you confirm that if after some serious pounding that you *can* be sore for several days and not want sex? Call me paranoid but after what I went through I guess I’m a little gun shy… I’ve just accepted that I’m too big for anal with my wife and while others may scoff at me for not understanding this earlier, it took more then a little input from the members of this site (especially Luvdadus) to grind it into my head that my wife wasn’t feeding me a line…

Thanks, girls.

RWG

Ok in order:

Yes I have been with a guy (1st husband) who was just little over 4” erect. We don’t want to even talk flaccid here. That is why he was my 1st husband.

Now, yes, we can get sore from lovemaking. Someone asked what to big of girth is, well for me it is anything over 7.5 to 8” around. That would be akin to giving birth again and we ain’t going there.

While the vagina is very elastic, it does eventually stop spreading and starts splitting. Very painful. And once again, it is dependent on the woman, how much give is there. Face it, some will give more than others.

Okay regularwhiteguy, I will confirm that we ladies can be sore for MANY days. And as you say “some serious pounding” …that would hurt for several days. If I am sore at all down there I won’t want sex until it is TOTALLY gone. I guess if you are sore and while you are sore you have sex again it will just get worse and it will hurt more. Your wife isn’t feeding you a line, I promise. If she hurts down there then she probably won’t want sex until a few days pass….

okay as for the other question from wan2Bbig..
I haven’t ever slept with anyone but Jamie. Jamie is perfect like he is. If I had anyone smaller than it would be fine too. I wouldn’t just pass it off as a learning experience. I think if I had sex with another guy than it would of been a serious relationship and I couldn’t just say it was a learning experience. That’s my imput!

Thanks you guys for the questions! Keep them coming!Love you guys!

:boogie:

RWG

My advice is try to blow your load soon after your wife. If not they get to dry up and can get sore. Seems to me she is telling you 30 min is way too long. Perhaps 10 min will allow her to cum and not get sore afterward. Maybe more pussy coming your way.

RWG, you could always kiss her boo boo and make it better… :)

Are you still doing the acupuncture thing, or did past sessions completely cure you?

LOL! I try to kiss that thing every day (except on the monthly thing) & that other area I love as well:) Yep, still cured…

Luv, I’ll do that… Sort of odd now that I no longer cum at lightning speed I just want to kill my wife sexually… I’ll mellow out…

Ladies…

Do you think after the kids have come into play, that a woman wouldn`t be excited about having sex, wether the guy is huge and a hunk?
Do you think there is a time when a woman thinks, when she has had children, lets get it over with. You could be hung like a horse, nice looking, great personality, but that`s not important.
Whereas with a woman who has had no children, it would be the talk around the office, that I was screwed by this amazing guy, with a huge dick…….

Always late to the dance…

I like girth. Yet, I am learning there is a thing as too thick. Too long can be dealt with but too thick can be an issue.

I have been saying 7x5 or 7x6 was ideal to me. And I think I will keep that in my mind.

Yes, too much too fast and too dry can cause some problems. I had sex once with a well endowed man and I was sore for a few days after. I think it was mainly because I was not lubed enough and the friction started to hurt/burn. And even before the lube diminished, I was a little sore during because of how much he was ramming it in and out. I think that attributed to me drying up and causing more pain.

Anna, was this the Renuzit air freshener can man? Are you saying the larger size caused you to dry up, versus become more lubed by being more turned on?

Certain pain, and I am good with pain, can dry the wettest well. The visual affects of a nice plump, length rod can be nice. But that is like the saying, your eyes are bigger than your stomach. The thickness caused me to dry up. I was aroused and self lubed, but the more he thrust himself inward the more it began to hurt. I can rise to the occasion but in due time. Some guys with big dicks are so turned on by their own dick and their fascination of what they are going to do with it, that they forget the vagina is attached to a real feeling person. But then I was in my late teens, maybe even 20 when this occurred.

I’ve actually heard alot of girls say that.

Btw.. are those 7x5 7x6 measurements BP or NBP? lol =)

I suspect I mean NBP

Your latest question is a good one.

For me, having children made no difference in how I looked at sex. I was still eager to get it on, still am .

Damn hehe.. gotta stay on and get some more length then ;) .

NBP that usually traslates to 7.5 x5.5 (or6) bone pressed.

Maybe I should quit altogether and just loose weight.

(I’m at 7.875x5.5 bp and 6.5x5.5 nbp)