Yeah, girls can be that way sometimes. I know a girl that spread a similar story about a friend of mine. Honestly, I don’t know if it is true or not (him being small), because I think that a girl will use it as a revenge sort of tactic upon breakup, especially if the guy initiated the breakup. Also, she will say it to dissuade friends of hers from hooking up with the ex-boyfriend.
I agree, it’s cold, but then again, I guess I have been guilty of a similar thing. I recall that I told some of my friends that my ex couldn’t give a blowjob worth anything, because she let her teeth do a bit too much of the work. Now, this is a truthful statement, however, I would joke around that she would draw blood from me because she was so bad (I was exaggerating for comedic effect). Well, over time it managed to get back to her, and she wasn’t so thrilled. I realize now that it was a stupid mistake and that you should just keep some things to yourself.
Sometimes something appears as the best course of action, whereas in actuality it is probably the worst.
So to summarize, yes, it’s mean for a girl to say negative things about a guy’s size, but then again, it’s not cool to say negative things about a girl either if it has potential for emotional harm or to hurt social aspects of the person’s life.
Laters.