Reconsidering Goals

I know a place so PM me if you are interested and I will give you an address. I dont think I am allowed to post a “toy” store address in the Main Member forum.

789

Alrdybig,

I’ve just spend an hour looking for it and found nothing. Did I dream this? Honestly, I think I saw the toy at an Amazing! video store. The toy looks a lot like a real doughnut in size and shape. In technical terms, it’s a toroid having an inner diameter of about 1.5” and an outer diameter of about 3 or 4”. It slides over the end of the penis and down to the base, limiting the maximum depth of penetration. I think it was available in silicone.

Ok. I went to the site that 789 was gracious enough to PM me. And then I called them at the number given on the site. Then I called thier store down in Florida, and the guy told me that he gets the gist of what Im talking about, but that there is nothing like a donut that “limits the maximum depth of penetration”. SO he basically told me they don’t have it. Most he could refer me to was a “donut” for penis pumps, and I told him that wasnt what I was talking about. Does anyone have any friggin clue where these things are?

Alrdybig,

Sorry you can’t find this thing. Maybe you could make one with one of those “make your own dildo” kits. Make a doughnut mold, pour in the liquid silicone, wait for it to cure, and voila—instant doughnut.

Or get some high density closed cell foam and make your own.

I think a lot of us have ridiculous goals. When I see guys that start with an 8 inch cock and want to get up to 10 inches, I just laugh. Its stupid. I imagine an 8x6” penis, which seems to be the threshold of an acceptable penis size here (ie. I *suppose* its not *too* small), would be more than enough to satisfy 95% of women. In fact, its probably a bit too much. I have re-written my goals to 7x5.5”.

I agree awwwshucks. After spending so much time here at Thunder’s reading and learning I begin to feel “small” until my wife and I have sex again. My 7.5BPEL and 5.7EG more than opens her up and we have 5 kids!! I really think that an honest 8x6 is a lot but being sooooo close, I just have to get it!! ;>).

I mean to be this close and not even try is a real shame…….

Well, with my limited experience and experimentation, and based on female input, I think that 6” girth is the optimum figure. I’m currently at 7” NBP x 5.5” midshaft, and I actually bought a 8” x 6” dildo to compare. Actually, the dildo had balls and was only 7.5” “insertable” length. Still, the difference in girth is the ticket IMO. I could barely get this all the way into my wife, and I have very close to the same usable length- about 7.5” BP, 7” NBP, so I can get at least a little over 7” of dick into her. Yet, when she’s wet I slide all the way in no problem usually - occasionally I can touch bottom at certain times of the month or in certain positions. But with the 6” girth, getting the last 1” or so of the dildo in is a stretch everytime.

The key is, women’s pussies expand proportionate to both length and girth - just as the penis is more like a baloon than a tube. In other words, a dick that is say 8” x 5” may bottom out but won’t fill up most women. You really won’t need that much length if you have the girth IMO. 5.5” girth may be just right, or too much for a few women, but I think 6” is the magic number for most - with that and 7” length you’ll be big to all but the size queens or “cow pussies”, yet not too huge to cause pain or not be able to get it all in. I’m definitely concentrating on girth at this point, any extra length will be icing on the cake.

wesb

Definetly agree that 6 is minimum ideal girth, I doubt any women would complain this as too big if you use it right. So much difference between 5.5 and 6 imo, its the seemingly small increases over the average that make the most difference especially when it comes to girth which affects volume alot.

Any length over 7 just means you can do fancy positions and you have some to waste if you like :chuckle: but really like the idea of 6” girth :D

I can agree on the girth. I was mainly referring to the combination of 8 inches length, which is pretty damn long, and very large girth on top of that.