RWG's WOW moment!

Congrats RWG.

I’ll give you the same advice you’d probably give me, “just tell your wife to let you cum in her ass, since it hurts to do it in her pussy” :D

Here’s a cut and paste of my dry jelq technique-

1- Pretend like your holding an invisible sandwich with both hands, getting ready to take a bite. Notice how your fingers and thumbs are facing each other, one forming a C and the other a reverse C.

2- Keep this position, but rotate your hands so your thumbs are now on top.

3- Using just your thumbs and first two fingers (pointer and middle), grab your dick from both sides mid-shaft like it’s a mini sandwich, and squeeze.

4- Now, slide your skin under your fingers down your shaft as far as you can go. You may have to adjust your initial finger positioning to allow you to get fully to the base, or even do the lower part then the upper until your skin becomes more resiliant, a few days or so. (I can now dry jelq my entire erect 8” shaft in one move). Make sure that the intial spot on your skin where your fingers made contact stay under your fingers for the entire stroke.

5- When you’ve slid as far down as possible, squeeze your fingers together, then slowly slide them as far towards your head as possible. Repeat.

I did this for the first month or so, then went with a water based sex lube. I went back to dry jelqing, as I feel it allows me to get a better workout on the erectile tissues and doesn’t put as much pressure on the veins. Good Luck.

While my fingertips may touch, it is not like a traditional circle ok grip jelq. Also, I rarely jelqed with one hand squeezing the base while the other jelqed. When I did this (with lube), to get enough pressure to feel like I was doing any good made my veins hurt and swell.

I feel dry jelqing like I do allows me to put the pressure where it’s needed, deep in the erectile tissues. I concentrate on making sure I can feel the blood expanding my tissues and moving forward to my head, which swells toward the end of each stroke. When it does, I know the blood is moving. Hope this helped.

Congrats RWG!!!

I think I had the same thing happen to me, and like jelqtoid said, there was still cum inside my penis. Like it shot back up. Trip. Well take it easy.

RWG, how slow are your gains comming? For the last couple of months I seem to have been gaining 1/8 in length every two weeks. Is that slow or no? Well take care.

Peace and stuff.

Congrats RWG.

I’ll give you the same advice you’d probably give me, “just tell your wife to let you cum in her ass, since it hurts to do it in her pussy”

Beliver,

1/8th every two weeks is damn fast… Keep it up…

RB,

thanks for posting that… Dry jelq is the main stay of my routine now…

YO! B&W … thanks for the affirmation. My wifey is a bit petite(<5’), and even tho she has moved from the MAJOR BABE size 5 with the MAGNIFICANT ASS when we married (and I have gotten a big pudgier, anna - not a slur on the love of my life), she is still so hot to me that I can get a chunk of wood thinking about her wrapped around me (in fact - my pants are a bit tight right now … hehehe).

She has never said that she wants more of me (size-wise that is), and I don’t intend to move toward “massive.”

Part of this is definitely for her pleasure - which is #1 goal in my book - but, mostly for me as I approach my mid-century mark. I have decided that I am not going to have the body, spirit, sex-drive or physical issues of a 50-year old when I get there … and my 40-something wifey will, I hope, reap the benefits of me taking care of myself for her for a long time to “cum.”

shalom, amigos
wan2Bbig/Alex

RWG

I have no doubt that with your length you have been there all along.

The cervix does assume different positions whether in cowgirl, missionary or doggie. the law of gravity is not suspended in sex. I think that doggie does shorten available length, but on the other hand makes the cds more exposed and also tends to tighten her hamstring muscles making whatever girth is there more effective. At one point my wife wanted to not go doggie any more becase of pressure, she has adjusted and we are back to using it again.

RWG,

Are you 8.5 x 7.5??? If so, you probably have the “biggest” cock (by far) on these boards….that translates to about 38.05 cubic inches - and weighs in at about 1.32 lbs…..that’s just crazy man.

Wadzilla,

For length thats bone pressed on my best hard-on and girth is 7.5 @ midshaft, slightly over 8” at the very base post workout… I think that there are several others past me here… Since I’ve been here I’ve watched guys that started smaller then me, pass me up. Odd thing is that the truth of the matter is that despite starting out over average in size I still am sort of ashamed of my dick, ie. it’s not big enough… I know that this is fucked up and no doubt deserves some salvos from some of the other members.. My guess is that it is just the mental leftovers from my wifes affair…

Previous to the affair I hardly EVER even thought of my dick… I go through that and start PE to kill my premature ejaculation problem to find I started out where most people want to end up at and only feel better for a few minutes.. I’ve even entertained thoughts that most people on this board are not telling the truth about their size LIKE THEY ARE WAY BIGGER then they say & I’m the fry pup of the litter.. God sometimes I’m so fucked up… There has to be other guys here who have been hurt so bad by their wife or girlfriend who know what I mean… I was so secure in who I was as in every part of my body I never gave anything a second thought… My wife cheats on me and I came close to killing myself and start thinking all kinds of crazy shit where my looks, penis comes into play…

Because I’ve always been an ass man and always after my wifes ass it was hard for me to know part of her affair dealt with that issue with another guy… I didn’t even really believe her at first when she said that the reason she did that with him was because SHE COULD and with me she couldn’t… If I ever hit my 9” NBPEL x whatever comes with it I doubt that I would still feel any better because of that… What I’m really working on now is once again feeling secure with the woman I love, like I can trust her….

One of the wise guys shoudl start a new section called ATTITUDE ENLARGMENT or EXERCISES… I would post more then anyone else.. Seriously Wadzilla, I appreciate your comments and I may be one of the big guys on this forum… It’s just that my security level is micro size…

RWG

RWG,

You need to read a book by David Deida called “the way of the superior man”. I’m willing to bet it will change alot of your perspectives. You should pick it up because you could have a ten foot dick and you won’t be fulfilled because penis size is obviously not your problem. That is evident in your writing and because of the facts because you probably have one of the largest dicks on the planet man. 8 inches of girth at the base..come on man you are beyond HUGE. You should really pick up that book.

RWG,

You may not have the thickest or longest dick here on this board, but it is really big…but you are one of the biggest guys for sure. You took her back when she did you wrong and are trying to love her. That takes a really big mature guy, not a shallow insecure guy. One who has a lot to offer any lady. She is lucky to have you and you should grow in confidence knowing she chose to come back to you. Good luck in the realtionship and in good sex.

bigone, at 8-8.5, he’s clearly not the longest, but at 7.5-8”, he has to be the thickest. Figure his length by that freaky girth and you come up with a cock that weighs about 1 1/3 lbs - that’s freakish.

But you’re dead-on about him being a “big man” by taking her back - when many men definitely would not have.

I had a similar experience. My wife, who is a nurse, ended up falling in love with a patient. He has M.S. & is hopelessly impotent, so she could not cheat with him - but she certainly would have, and that hurt like hell. She admitted to me that she loved him and, worse yet, she told him. Other women she works with also knew. I was mortified by it all, very humiliated. Now I know why I had such wild fucks at that time….she was thinking of him. :(

I know I was an arrogant, shitty husband, & treated her lousy (I’m not implying that you were anything like that, I’m just relating how I was) - so that played a huge part in my forgiving her. But it’s very tough, even though she couldn’t go all the way with him (she sure wanted to).

I admire your strength and, trust me, you have a freak dick - at 38.05 ci, I bet it’s bigger than 95 guys out of 100 - if not more.

Thanks guys, thinking about it, me taking her back does show backbone. Of course loving her as much as I did/do didn’t help matters out as far as throwing away the relationship either… I guess Gandolf said it best when he mentioned that I don’t know how good I have it..

Goingdeeper,
I’m going to check into that book… Thanks for the tip…

On a side note to everyone I went to the grocery store this afternoon and couldn’t believe the hot ass that was everywhere… It was damn near on every aisle! 18 year olds on up to wemon in their late 40’s… Not that usual that I see so much in the store like today….

Yo, Wad - dig it, bro I know whereof you speak.

I am in “competition” with every dick my wifey has ever had (even tho she does not say so out loud), and even more so the dicks she “visits” on the chats.

She was a bit of a mattressback before we got together - and I am still trying to puzzle that one out after 13 years … maybe I really do give her great orgasms … hmmmmmmm - and she was with at least one guy over 8” long and pretty thick (seems he & I were at the same men’s retreat about 2years after she & I got married, and he recognized her picture … he apologized to ME for “using” her - lol). She swears that I am the only guy she has ever been with to bring her to the BIG “O” each time we make it - but she cums so easily, I still ain’t sure.

Anyway, Wad, I know what youare going thru. I am gaining (or trying to) more for me now, than for her - but, I am sure that she will appreciate the fact that I fill her better, and that I am working to keep myself sexually fit at the same time. I am still hovering around the 5.5NBPlength/4.5girth range, but I know that she notices that I can last a lot longer now, even without a condom. Believe me that my BEST “bareback” time used to be less than a minute - now I can go nearly 5! I just hope that as I grow, I won’t lose that skill as well.

I empathize with you, and it is hard to maintain “trust” after being hurt. She has had at least two on-line “affairs (non-physical) thru the chats, and is a MAJOR FLIRT when she is in the rooms. Even if she has not had “strange” dick since we have been together, her past haunts me - and some of her present actions are spurring me on to gain.

Hang in there, bro. When I get to your dimensions, I hope that she will stop looking, and start appreciating what she has. I have put a roof over her head and given her the security she has long wanted. Not that I am sone kinda dam hero or anything, but I treat her like a queen, and I am left outside much of the time.

Guess we all have our hurts, bro. Just keep working on the “improvements,” and remember - like a Pastor friend told me once, “we are the ones they are sleeping with, not the other guys.”

Check ya later -

SHALOM,
wan2Bbig/Alex

Hey Guy,

I read this thread earlier and didn’t respond, but wanted to. I came back -here goes. Male insecurity about a love with your woman can go deep. Trust is the basis of a deep relationship with your girlfriend/wife. Emotional unfaithfulness on the part of either can ruin a relationship. Emotional unfaithfulness often leads to sex , an affair and often divorce. Especially for a woman if she cliques with a man emotionally and then has sex. A guy can have sex with a woman over attraction and no emotional attachment occurs. The wife may or may not ever find out about him.

Most guys will eventually meet someone who was the wife’s earlier lover/lovers. Early in a marriage this is hard, especially if you are the insecure or jealous type. To balance it out on coping with the fears, remember you had earlier lovers. Some good relationships some not so good. Unfortunately we lived in my hometown and I got lots of shit over my prior women. She met several and one in particular she was always bothered by. She had ended up marrying a friend of mine. Nothing was going on with me even emotionally anymore let alone sexually, but she couldn’t be around them without giving me bigtime shit over this woman. The shoe got put on the other foot when eventually we went to her hometown and I saw this guy (a very handsome guy) looking at us staring through the window of a coffee shop. I told her there was a guy starring at us. She turned red and left the table. We went back to her mom’s house and had a big fight over this guy. She and he were lovers for years. The more I heard about this guy the worse I felt. Finally after fighting and being miserable for a couple of days, she told me the reason she left him was he was physically abusive and used to hit her and control her. I felt terrible over it and also realized I was unfair to judge her with my track record.

Anyway, I encourage you to take to heart your pastor’s words about being the man in her life now. Be good to each other and enjoy each other. She didn’t just marry your dick she chose you..all of you. Remember you are top gun now.