Originally Posted by AngryVein
Dude, are you serious?
Uh. Yes. To be more clear, I’m not saying you should stay with just anybody regardless of whether they satisfy you or not. I am saying that, once you make a commitment to someone and the two of you invest your time and energy into each other, you shouldn’t leave only because the sex isn’t perfect.
Maybe you decide not to date someone because she has 5 kids and a lax pussy. That’s your prerogative and your right. But, what if those 5 kids are your 5 kids and that lax pussy is lax because the woman who is your wife has had YOUR 5 kids. I think that’s a different situation. In that case, abandoning your woman/wife because the friction isn’t as intense as it once was is just plain selfish and foolish.
I’m not saying you don’t have the right to choose your mate based on whatever criteria are important to you. What I’m saying is that people should not be disposed of simply because they no longer gratify you to the greatest extent possible.