Size Definitely Matters

I’ve read and re-read threads here that seem to endlessly debate whether penis size is really all that important. It is. Since i have grown from 6” to 7” in length and 4” to 5” in girth my wife is all over my wang. We have been together for 9 years and she has NEVER volunteered a comment about my unit. However, in the last month or so she has been saying stuff like “I love your cock” and “It feels so good” and “I want to suck it” when she NEVER said any of this stuff before. The other day, out of the middle of nowhere I get a text message from her on my cell: “i luv ur cock”. This has been a real eye-opener for me. I would love to have a 8.5” x 6.5” unit to see what kind of fun that might unlock. I am working on it!!!!!!!

For all of the guys that are struggling with the concept as to whether size matters or not; it does. Stop the war in your head. Take a moment and just agree that it does. Take another moment and be pissed that you have a johnson that isn’t as big as you want it to be, but only a moment. Next, set a goal and attack!! The newbie routine alone will give you some very nice immediate gains if you do it and do it correctly. You will have much more self-confidence, your partner will be better pleased, and the increased pleasure is mind boggling. You can do it! It works! It is worth it!!!!

Yup, very good post. To think that size would have no bearing in a women’s enjoyment of sex is absurd, although all the supposed experts in the fields have done well to ram this down our throats. Imagine a dick the size of a baby carrot; a girl wouldn’t even be able to tell if it were in and on the other end of the spectrum imagine a dick the size of your arm; you would inflict more pain than pleasure. While I do firmly believe that the vast majority of penis sizes could all please the vast majority of women and their pussies, some women prefer average penises, some large ones, and some huge ones. However, I don’t know any who prefer them small with all other aspects being equal in a relationship.

Isnt it possible that she just now realized how important your penis and its size is for you?

That would be nothing negative btw. It would be a sign of love and nothing else.

I agree with the above posts. Having a bigger size just physically feels better to women. Knowing that she feels good is a huge confidence boost, which is what size is really all about. There is nothing more ego boosting than a girl genuinely praising your cock and your skills in bed. It’s a cycle I suppose. I get more confident therefore I push the envelope more which leads to better situation which leads to more confidence.

Obviously there is something as too much size and too little size for a woman. The good part is that the limits vary between women.

And text messages about wanting your cock…awesome

It’s always hard to accurately generalize a personal experience. It’s possible, for instance, that the current circumstances have more to do with something that is going on with your wife - hormones, psychology, circumstances of her life, size of her vagina (has she had kids?) - than what is going on with your penis.

That said, you’ve gone from below average girth to average girth or slightly more, and the reports from women suggest that girth is what most makes a difference to them, so it’s not surprising that your wife may be enjoying your penis more. Once again, that may not generalize to whether guys who are average in girth, will get positive benefit with their future female partners if they add 1” in girth.

Good Luck,

FF

If you look at what women have posted here and elsewhere, technique generally is clearly more important than size, though their enjoyment is a complicated mix and size is a factor. But they seem pretty clear, for instance, that a large penis doesn’t make up for bad technique, and sometimes make a generalized complaint that guys with larger penises may tend to be complacent about technique and so be less satisfactory lovers overall.

There is also good evidence that in the complicated mix there is reason for caution about size, as at the upper ranges gets to be a problem for some women. 7 x 5.5 is about 90th percentile in both dimensions, large but not extraordinarily. The supposedly “ideal” 8 x 6 that’s been touted, turns out to far enough from the norm to cause some discomfort for a significant percentage of female partners, and is even too big for a few with really small vaginas, though some people do just fine with it.

FF

Very good posts frenulumfellow - although I can’t help: I would like it very much if my gf told me clearly that she prefers my dick as it is now (bigger). But I bet she never will (except when she really enjoys; never during a serious conversation) since she is opposed to pe altogether so she just cannot admit that there are beneficial effects I guess.

Awesome post 46and2. Good luck with your goals and report the results when you get there!

ttt - thanks.

It’s too bad your GF has a negative attitude towards PE. From everything I’ve experienced and read, women vary a lot, and it’s possible your GF has not experienced any benefits from your PE. It could be that as you’ve grown gradually she has missed noticing an improvement in her experience from your PE, but it’s also possible that she has just slowly expanded to accomodate you without any overall change in her sensation. But as long as you haven’t gotten big enough that she experiences more discomfort - one possible variation I think is often overlooked here - or that you increase your risk of causing discomfort to possible future partners, then if you’re satisfied with PE that is really what matters.

Isn’t it too bad we can’t have better communication with our partners about PE?

Good Luck to all those in this thread working on PE,

FF

Your wife could also enjoy the increased confidence that her comments manifest in you. I think that there are more factors than just your bigger size here. As we all know, with women nothing is ever that simple.

So true. So true. However, lately she has been attacking me for nookie. And… and… she has been walking up to me and whispering stuff in my ear like “I love your cock.” These are all very new developments. She has known for years that I am very self-conscious of the size of my johnson and has never gone out of her way to slip me a compliment like she is doing now. Girth guys. Girth! Even though I am now just average it is making a big difference.

That’s too bad really. Nothing like a serious conversation where one isn’t having sex and she says, “your new size is really nice”.

Although I’m not even close to the goal I set for myself and my wife agreed to help me reach (need 1/2” both ways to get there), she has noticed the improvements and commented on how much better it feels than before.

She did warn me though not to become one of those “big dicked bastards” that don’t care about pleasing a woman and taking the time and effort to do it right.