I have kept a tube on my desk for about a year now. It is a rolled up piece of card stock, blue, and its dimensions are 7 X 5.5. That is my personal goal, because I believe that it will best suit both my needs and hers.
I would REALLY like to exceed that, but fear my sexlife would suffer more then it now does.
Even though I have been askedwhat it is by many, it is fortunate to have had a chemical education, and the standard response is that it is the dimension of the test tube that I used to activate my first successful titration. That is usually accompanied by a reverent silence - as if I had won the Nobel prize for it ,,, followed by an even more reverent AHHHHH.
GOD I LOVE SCIENCE! If you cannot baffle them with brilliance, bedazzle them with bullshit!
I digress - I use that to visualize my personal goal - from my 5.5 X 4.5 now - and I am actively working toward it.
However, if - big IF - I do grow, and it becomes too uncomfortable for my wife - or she flatly states that it is TOO BIG for her and causes her pain or discomfort, I will stop my progress.
I trust that she will be able to accomodate to any change I have, as it will no doubt be VERRRRRRYYYYYYY gradual (if history is to be believed - lol). Therefore, given my rate of growth, I will probably have been dead for at least a year before I ever get to the point of actual discomfort for her.
One can WISH, though - and I do believe in miracles …
SHALOM
wan2Bbig/Alex
"Treason doth never prosper; what's the reason? For if treason prosper, none dare call it treason." - Harrington
“I SWEAR BY MY LIFE, AND MY LOVE OF IT, I WILL NEVER LIVE FOR THE SAKE OF ANOTHER, NOR ASK ANOTHER TO LIVE FOR MINE.” Ayn Rand, (Atlas Shrugged)