Swelling IT before sex

How many of you all do this?? Swell your unit some before having sex with a woman. When I do this, I find that it doesnt get as hard as I want him to be. My girl told me that she would like for him to be a little bigger than i am unpumped. I have had sex with her both ways, pumped and unpumped.

I have absolutely no knowledge of pumping and could probably afford to go read that forum. In the meantime, I thought to ask if you thought of wearing a cock ring after you pumped to see if that helps him get harder, but then I wondered what affects that would have pumping and then wearing a cock ring.

Maybe the answer is balloning or BTB Jelqing aka Between the Balls Jelqing. Do a search for these last two terms and this could be what your looking for my friend.

Are there any issues with using a cockring after pumping? That was a serious question. No matter how stupid it may seem. :)

Twat,

Is it “between” or “behind”?

Anna,

Pumping and wearing a cock ring afterwards is the classic way! I am not into pumping either, but this is common knowledge :chuckle: (only teasing)… but still it’s true! Keeps the trapped fluids in the dick for a longer time. As for ED purposes the cock ring is essential to trap the blood forced into the limp dick, you might be right with your suggestion.

Still I’d say: Either kkevinj is overdoing the pumping, so his dick is stressed out and wants to relax for a while instead of being fucked, or (and this I think is the better assumption) kkevinj isn’t really comfortable with him being told to pump it up before sex. For me the psychic kick doing PE before sex (e.g. strong jelqing late afternoon in the office for “happy hour sex” when meeting at home) is that this is my secret, her wondering and saying “Phew, it’s even bigger today, what are you doing?” ;) If she would tell me to do it, I’d leave it and wouldn’t even go for sex at all :confused:

Thank. I wandered downstairs to the pumpers forum and got some information down there. Still nice to get other input. :)

For some reason, this thread makes me want to do a pumping session before I have sex with my wife next time. Haven’t done that in a while.

I threw my pump away long ago. I meant the pump like working out in the gym. The pump I get from dry jelqing. Sorry for the confusion.

I mentioned the pump because I have gotten up to 6.5” girth in a 40 minute session before. I haven’t gained nearly that much from a jelq or squeeze session.

For those that have pumped wit a pump (or gotten a good jelq swell) before having sex - what was the reaction? Did she come easier, more, etc.? Seem to like the sex more or less? Give us some details…

MDC, you are right, using a pump will TEMPERARILY swell him up more, much more. I threw mine away because I was not gaining enough with it. 3 yrs of on and off use only made me grow 1/2 in length and 1/4 inch in girth. I have tacked on another .7 inches in about six months, and I went from 4 5/8 girth to 5 1/8 girth in a few months since I found thunder’s.

kevin,

I think a pump can be very helpful for a girth routine if you alternate exercises with pumping. I gained 1/4” in about a month doing that last year. I stopped because I wanted more length first but I did retain at least 1/8” girth after it leveled off.

hi kkevinj,

The jelc sessions before sex has made me lose my erection during sex a couple of times. I think you should do some flaccid stretches before sex, that helped me and I now have no problem, actually the flaccid stretchers gives me better erections than normal. Personally i done really believe in jelcs, but I think that stretches with a twist to one or another side is better, jelc is no good if you only get fluid, that means your not stretching the inner penis but only the skin.

I have also used a cock-ring, and my girlfriend absolutely can feel it even thought she does not know i use the ring, ha ha.

Thanks, I quess I am over doing the jelqing and it just wants to rest like XXL said. What good is it fatter if he will not get all the way up. Him being harder will please her much more. I was going about it wrong a quess. It is not like 5 1/8 girth is small anyway. But man, 5 1/2 sure looks better :D