That's it- no more PE for me.

Was your wife snooping around your Internet history files or something?

I’m throwing my hat in with Modesto’s point. You’ve acted badly in the past, and she probably doesn’t want you to have a larger thing to hurt her with. At least with the dildo she is in control.

You could also summon some cohones and flat out ask her why she is OK with the dildo and yet not with you having a larger penis. Ask her if she is concerned you’ll hurt her because (and use this words), “I was an insensitive asshole when we were younger…”

I’m sure you’ll get some type of honest response there.

Well we talked about it on our hike today((Homer)aaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhh- Rocky Mountains), and she said she doesn’t want it any bigger because we have a good fit, and doesn’t want anything to change. I can bottom out in her so she’s probably right.

She also reminded me that during last weeks hike while watching me throw a wiz, she had said “Wow, look at the size of that package!” I actually had around 50% blood content- pulling my shorts down in the mountains makes a bit excited:}- so I was fooling her a bit, but her reaction was key. She liked the site of it. This is also a girl who told me about a boyfriend who she almost asked the dreaded question, “is it in yet?” When I asked if he was really tiny she said no, just not big enough. I don’t know.

As far as her finding out about Thunders, I don’t try too hard to hide things from my wife. Life is better that way.

Well, then it sounds like you got a good situation, amigo.

It sounds like a power play on her part. The question is do you want your dick bigger because what you want when it comes to your dick is the most important thing. You my friend are the keeper of the dick and while you may freely share with her it’s still 100% yours and you make all decisions regarding it. Be true to yourself and your own needs they are just as important as hers. And you better start cleaning out your history and cookies on the computer when you done. Oh yeah she will adjust to your size way faster than you can grow.

I AM the keeper of the dick; I just keep it in her some of the time.

Thanks Dino, I’m still chuckling.

I also think its a power move. That exact quote from her sounds like something a mother would say to a child. Like she owns a part of you. Its your body. There’s nothing not marriage, not anything that can make your body less than 100% yours. If you really want to, do it.

Interesting points. However, lets say hypothetically your lover was growing increasingly uncomfortable with your size, and sex became less and less pleasurable. Then one would want to stop their growth surely. I mean, thing is, a lot of people are posting assuming that she is indeed just trying to prevent you from becoming more attractive to other women. However, if she truly believes that you are at the ideal size, then I don’t see why one wouldn’t stop. My two cents.

Maybe.. Just maybe.. She is happy and doesn’t want a large dick ? If it fits right keep it that way. If your committed to her that is.

You guys WOULD make since BUT, did you not see the part where he said she gets a lot of pleasure from th 9 inch dildo taking the whole thing?

Yes, it was the 9-inch dildo comment, if accurate, that led many of us to assume that she must be afraid either that he’s planning on terrorizing her with his new monster cock (i.e., wielding it for evil rather than good ;) ), or that he is trying to prepare to impress someone in an affair or something. On the latter front, I know that if I had a girlfriend whose appearance was perfectly fine in my opinion, but she insisted on a “complete makeover,” I might feel a little insecure and wonder about her motivations.

O.k. I’m not in a steady relationship so I won’t comment in regards to Maldonaldo. Just want to say that Allineedislong might want to fix his status quotes, we all want it longer but 7’90” BPEL and EG 6’50”, wow!

’ = Feet and ” = inches. Now I get back to reading, reading , reading before I start.

I’ve been thinking about this over the last couple days.
The fundamental issue is going to be one of
* lying vs trust (Husband thinking of saying Okay honey, I’m not doing it— while I really am)
and
* being put into a position of lying instead of being accepted and encouraged. (You want to do something that’s fairly innocuous and the wife is pulling a power play on you that sounds unfair to me— it’s your body).

Messy!

BLEH!

No offense to the wife, but you’re talking about dealing with things women say versus what they mean. With a guy, we can be social retards. But at least there is a much HIGHER likelihood that we are saying what we actually mean.

This is, to some extent, an age-old issue. Does she mean what she says? Or does she even know what she thinks?

“BLEH” is right.

“Ok, you want the truth, the whole truth … I’m sure I was drinking when I said it so who really knows what my motive was - we have been talking about this a lot lately. To be perfectly honest, if my husband wants to do something I would never stop him. However, I know he does not need to - not at all. Yes, he can beat the hell out of me when we are fucking and I love it and yet other times he kills me.

I believe that you guys are WAY too obsessed with the size … there is so much more to think about. Think about positions, think about how you are treating your lady, think about different speeds and rhythms to add to the moment …and, as much as I hate to admit it, think about toys and other things to enhance the moment. Also - think about keeping the moment going for hours …

And by the way - I don’t have to snoop - he tells me everything because we have a very open relationship.”

Mrs. Donaldo