The MultiOrgasmic Man???

Ive recently read the book The Multi-Orgasmic Man, and still cant figure out the jist of what they’re saying….maybe i should re-read it..

Anybody actually have any luck in achieving these methods?? It seems amazing that ejac and orgasm are separate and woudl like to experience this…I already have good staying power and if I could longer…wow!

So come out people…lets talk about this

I’m also trying to work to this goal. I think it has to do with having a very strong PC muscle. The way I take it is when you near that point where you are feel the movement with in you to explode you start to squeeze the PC muscle, soft at first and then harder as the feeling gets stronger till you just have and orgasm and some of your fluids that are made in the prostrate to come out. You will not let the sperm out thus your brain will think you have not had an orgasm, but in reality you had one. Now this is the way I take it so I maybe wrong and would like to hear from others on how to archive this.

I think the best way to practice is when you masturbate, that way you can perfect it so you don’t look really silly in front of your gal! I have come close to it and I can shut off the orgasm all together, but I just can’t find the right pressure to squeeze at to let the orgasm happen but retain your sperm.

Modemmer.

Basically, you hold back your orgasm and experience a “mini-orgasm” that allows for some sensation and for you to keep going and experience more and more and more. For the most part, it’s basically stopping just short enough to not orgasm and yet to gain some satisfaction from the act. The techniques are not new and will work if you give them a lot of practice, but it’s not all as easy as it seems.

For one thing, you really have to be into the slow, BarryWhiteStyleSex to get use out of them. If you are going away like a bunny rabbit, it’s pretty hard to concentrate on all the various muscles that need to be concentrated on. Because of this, you partner kind of has to know what you’re doing or they’ll become somewhat frustrated. I’d might recommend this book to couples, but not so much for single men who have multiple partners.

Occasionally I do the stuff I read in his stuff long ago (that author dates back to the late 60s I believe), but generally I just do things normally, collapse in a great heap and sit there and smile all goofy-like for a few minutes. You don’t get THAT complete exhaustion and wipeout feel from this type of orgasm. It’s simply somewhat unsatisfying compared to the real doozies. Then again, that’s just my opinion. I like that complete exhaustion that sets in after a good bit of nookie.

Finally, and most importantly IMO, I’ve yet to find a woman that appreciates any more than 45-60 minutes of nonstop sexual intercourse. After a while, they run out of steam just like we do.

In essence, this technique trade a longer-duration but lower- intensity sexual coupling for the standard shorter-duration higher-intensity sexual act. There comes with it a great deal of Qi energy hoohaa, which I’m sure has some merit, but IMO not nearly enough to base a religion on.

I’ve done both and I prefer good old fashioned boinking! That’s
just my opinion though…

I had a description on my site (one of them) for a while. Every once and a while I do a full-body orgasm without ejaculation - in fact, without any penis arousal whatsoever. It’s cool. It’s definitely different. Though my description is for a man, I’ll bet a woman can figure it out and do the same thing.

You’re probably thinking, “this guy is nuts” if you haven’t decided that already. But if you want to play with it, think Kundalini - drawing energy up through your chakras. The sercret is basically to collect energy in your first chakra (balls) and then slooowly tighten the anus until the energy starts pulsating up your spine. Here’s my imperfect description of my technique:

Lie on your back with you back slightly arched and legs spread fairly wide.

Each time you breathe out, feel energy pumping down into your groin and make the smallest, “dirtiest” pelvic thrust you can. Imagine your partner is sitting on you, delirious for you to REALLY slide in and out and explode but you’re teasing her along, driving her closer to the edge with the tiniest rhythmic pressure in just the right spot, right where your penis goes under your pelvic bone…you’re holding her hips so she can’t move, and with each breath out you’re sending a jolt of energy into her. As you look into her eyes, you can see her facial expression melting and feel her letting go….

Now start pulling upward with your very lowest abdominal muscles, sliding your balls up and down. Arching your back even more, ‘belly dance’ with your abdominal muscles, pulling that energy up into your ribcage (if it’s not too kinky for you, imagine you have a vagina and you’re really getting it). This time suck the energy up with each in breath.

Now push the GO button: as slowly and smoothly as you can possibly can, tighten your anus. You’ll reach a point where it ‘flutters’, and then…

…well, you tell me….

It might not work the first time. You’ve got be slow, and receptive. When you get good, you can give yourself little jolts anytime, anywhere. “Just hold on a second, officer, while I finish this orgasm…”

Works for me, Ill go for hours and hours and have a bunch of no ejaculation orgasims before I shoot my load. Like anything else it just takes some practice, and, of corse, it’s all in the timing….lol

So does having a stong PC have anything to do with it?

Yes - the non-ejaculate orgasms are made by using the PC muscle at the right time whilst continuously “drawing” energy up through the body (more or less by imagining its movement).

BBS;

It does work, but it takes a lot of work. :-)

You have to slowly (important) work on your PC muscle until you get it strong enough to hold off ejaculate. This may take months.

Result is one or several “dry orgasms” (they feel just like the wet ones) followed by a wet one when you are ready… theoretically. The timing is almost never exact, in my experience. Too many variables - partner does that special something and you are off in spite of yourself?

And, the reality is that you will sometimes actually ejaculate when you think you have not, but retrograde - which means it goes backwards and into the bladder. No physical crisis. Feels just as good.

This is a very complicated process. Requires more concentration and cooperation than we are often willing (or able!) to give to sex - hey, life intervenes - and I don’t even try it often anymore. But I do keep the PC primed.

I for one never found the dry orgasms quite as nice as the traditional orgams. They were nice, to be sure, but not quite up to par.

after reading this post, i had 3 orgasms,

it came out on the 3rd one, or i wouldve kept going.

key is to bring yourself oh so close to orgasm, where it rolls over on its own, but stop the hand and tighten pc muscle…….

felt real good……..

i dont myself doing this with a girl, as it will take a lot of energy, effort and self discipline.