The power of a big dick develops gradually for me, because I am still looking down and see what I conceive as normal.
But…
In my early twenties, I had a relation with a Brazilian exotic dancer - quite similar to my Avatar :-)
She once told me “You know it goes in so deep one has to be careful, but when he knows how to use it then it’s like wow!”
As there were some linguistic barriers (my Portuguese is nonexistent and her French and Italian was rather hard to understand) and as I was insecure and certainly not a skilled lover I thought she meant other men.
Only years later I realize she meant me.
Some years later, I was together with a Italian girl of huge dimensions. She was pretty open to sexual experiments and I felt more secure already as lover. One day, in the middle of a nice sloppy blowjob, she stops, looks in my eyes and says: “I just have to try to get that cock up my ass, I never tried such a big one”. Since that moment, anal was on the daily menu card. My not overwhelming girth probably helped her in that decision.
And last but not least Madame (my actual wife): after a steamy session in bed, I guess I could throw another cock of my dimensions in and she would just smile politely. She is a kind of a big woman, especially on the inside. And I have to admit I love the fact I am able to fill her up, at least in the beginning. And that I can, after dutiful preparation, slam in however I am feeling to do. Towards the end I often use some additional fingers too. She is a girth queen, and girth is what I am looking for. But CDS orgasm are very appreciated on her side too. So I work on both.
So, there will be no objectivity in the power of a big dick :-)
But subjective power is satisfactory for me
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