The power of a big dick

I know that an average dick can please most women, but I also know that most women can manage a well above average dick.

Forgot to mention — for me, it’s all like the game “Who dominates who”. If I’m bigger than average, I naturally dominate most of the men, at least physiologically.

As for the marriage topic: yep, a big dick can’t get you married on a decent woman, but there’s a thing — if you’ll happen to find one, with small or average dick you’ll probably be insecured in terms of adultery on her side. She’s not likely to get addicted to sex with a new small or average penis (the guy must be real sex-pro for this), but chances are opposite with a bigger dick as just inserting it itself makes some pleasurable feelings assuming she’s expirienced and, probably, gave birth.

“I love you, darling, but it feels so good.. I just can’t help it.” (and it’s not my imagination, but actually a pretty ordinary excuse). Gradually she accepts her (and, most importantly, you, as she were dominated by you at first) dominated by that man and, well, your marriage is f##ked. He’s more male than you are, end of story.

This is some serious paranoia, but, unfortunately, it’s not baseless.

In Nigeria there were cases of women cheating on their husbands with guys who where much smaller because the husband had porn sized cock. Also women opting to go without sex because they are still sore and things.

However most of us know at least the larger cock and cock outside of average will stimulate their imagination and fantasy more.

Apologize but this crap can only come from a man. You cheapen women by assuming they will sleep around based on penis size. Domination by penis only counts in porn. True domination comes personality, great built body, career, and finance. There may be a lot of insecure men but I’d guess the % that allow penis size to control their life is small. You also belittled women by suggesting they can learn to accept a man with a small penis, this totally discount her ability to truely love this man. Why is it you believe a big dick is the center of your world?

And before you ask, I am working on a bigger dick. I am already built better than 90% of the guys my age, I have a successful career, I make really good cash and party with swingers. A big dick just rounds out who I am.

I see your point clearly. I didn’t postulate anything, I just described a slightly exaggerated example when a bigger dick might play a role — mature women are lot likely to question themselves how is it to feel a bigger dick if their husband happened to be smaller than average, particulary in girth. Again, I didn’t take any polls and I accept this might be not exactly true for the majority of women, but how the f#ck this question of life and death about whether the size matters appeared then? It’s hard to believe that it is just a figment of imagination of insecure men with average or smaller than average dicks.
Actually, I would like to ask you this sort of thing: given your career, body, sexual life, do you feel insecure about the size of your dick? I hardly believe you do this just for the image. Because, as I see it, guys with average and smaller dicks do PE only because the insecurity about the size, nothing else. Motivation of the others with the bigger shlongs (above the average) is somewhat a riddle for me.

These last few exchanges bring up an interesting point.

Just why do some of us PE?

Yes, I could be bigger-and no doubt will be, but I am already pretty large and have absolutely no insecurities about my desirability or penis size.

You know why I PE (and have lengthy sessions of “self pleasuring”?)

I do it because I enjoy it!, because It gives me some addictive kind of a high- and that guys, is it in a nutshell.

I mean WTF would anyone want to dominate anyone else, debase or hurt them, or treat them in a way other than they would wish to be treated themselves…!

Just why do some of us PE?

I started 6x5” nbp and I have never been insecure about my size. I just never knew I could make it bigger. I work on my dick like I work on my body, and I’m not insecure about my body either.

I think that becomes part of the problem is doing PE because you are insecure. Not saying you shouldn’t but I think being insecure means never being comfortable with what you have. I always strive to be better at everything in life, but I am also able to accept where I’m at and what I have. As for dick size, I’ve never had a single complaint with over 50+ women, so I never thought to be insecure. But a bigger dick would be nicer. Easier to do some positions, I could her spots betters, things like that. But I’m not worried about my size.

I think it’s important to accept who and what we are. This is you. If you want to be better, sure, put the work in and improve yourself. But feeling insecure is not healthy because you are comparing yourself to other people based on what you were born with. Accept yourself, don’t worry about anyone else. The only person that should care about the size of your dick is you and the woman you are boning.

I just like the “wow you’re big comments” makes me feel dominant and alpha lol.

Firstly I don’t want to take away anything from those who are PE’ing their way to a larger one (including myself) - but in response to Summersets post - I think you assume way too much in speaking for women in that manner.

They deserve generally much more credit than what you give them & it may well be your insecurities that give you the viewpoint in your post.

Most women choose the person first - dick size may be a factor of pleasure somewhere in there, but honestly from my experience in knowing women, they’d prefer a man they can feel loved by over a bigger dick. Unfortunately I know some guys who are divorced etc and their ex wives partners are smaller than them (they began having affairs with guys they knew - who incidentally had smaller penises).

Also, (generally speaking) women may/can find that bigger is not always better - a tighter woman can find a larger one uncomfortable! - Don’t mean to open a can of worms there but it’s more than just about size! And larger or smaller, we should be super experts in all aspects of pleasure to women. Just putting a large penis ‘in’ won’t satisfy for very long if you don’t know how to use it.

In saying that it’s up to us men individually to choose how large we aspire to - just do it for reasons based on reality not unsubstantiated erroneous fantasy or insecurities.

Having a bigger dick is different to being a big dick!

And finally, no I don’t have what I or women would consider a small dick. I know that it works well and more than does the job. I do PE for myself and to bring just that little bit more girth to the table. But I know if it was a case of a bigger dick or a nicer person my partner would choose the latter every time - as I believe so would most women.
If someone’s 10” x 8” and wants to get bigger, then go for it bro, but don’t think it’s the be all and end all of life or of women’s desires.

Good comments, Jeff111 and the guys above. Maybe it’s an excess of porn and dating sites with those craving sluts which leads me to this sick way of thinking.

Hi Summerset,
Yes - I think you’re correct - porn effects all our thinking, pretty much in a negative way all round. I’m not real sure of any positive benefits of porn. For me I don’t like the way it can change my thinking and other negative effects it has on me.

As for dating sites, I haven’t been on them, but from information obtained through the media, although there are legitimate profiles, it would seem as though the majority are males with a lot of made up females from the owners or guys pretending to be girls.

Nothing wrong with PE but develop yourself as a person too and go out and talk to women, treating them like real people of value - you might be surprised what happens.

I’m probably lecturing you too much there but you seem to listen to others views. So hats off to you for your humility, teachability and in being prepared to consider others opinions.

I’ve had success on dating sites, but it seems true that any “craving slut” is generally a bot trying to phish you or a man trying to get cyber sex. Also, I’ve heard a lot from my female friends of getting sent unsolicited dick pics pretty often from dating apps - they’ll even comment on how big or nice the dick is. But they always block them.

I have had doubts, second guessed myself, and want to be better just like most people but as far as insecure, nope. Why let myself be insecure over something 99.9 % of people will never see, even less will see erect and even less will get to touch. Of all the things I do/use in a week my dick having sex only takes up about 1.2% of my time and that is getting laid about 4 times a week on average +/-. Hell we spend more time eating breakfast or cutting grass but who is insecure about that.

Well, my “insecurity” started a long time ago. I had overheard my parents’ quarrel, when suddenly my mom threw to dad some comments about his size (though he’s average, assuming I’ve inherited this part of him) and some ED problems. I think this is some sort of women’s ultima ratio in certain cituations, when they’re out of arguments, well, you know, when one starts talking shit about physical characteristics of the other. I don’t know whether my dad is sensitive about that kind of thing, but, hell, if that were me, my ego would have been seriously damaged.

Let me ask you a question. If your mother wasn’t respecting dad and his c0ck, and also had given him size complaints before, do you think his erection would be all powerful and confident? Over time due to that mental abuse he would lose the ability to erect.