The proper orgasm?

I was just wondering what you guys do when you have an orgasm. I’m not sure if I have ever had one. Do you squeeze your BC when you start to feel it coming and try to hold it back. Or do you keep it relaxed until you cum and do reverse kegels to squirt it out.

Just let it happen here.

I have done a few times squeezing the PC/BC muscle gently to induce the orgasm without strokes and it really makes the difference. I’m one of those guys that shoots across the room but I don’t really practice doing this so I don’t know whether it means I have a developed muscle or just I’m naturally a ‘shooter’

What are you talking about? I don’t even remember I was in like 1st grade when I started masturbating and having orgasms. I just didn’t cum back then and it was amazing. I don’t know what you mean .. Using reverse kegels to squirt it out? What?

Have you ever ejaculated before? It’s not like you say I’m going to cum now, it just happens. What are reverse kegels?

Cumming has nothing to do with orgasms either. You can have one without the other.

When I say reverse kegels I mean using the same muscle that you use when you push a piss out, like trying to piss harder. With me, right before I cum my BC clinches up and I try to hold it as long as I can and then relax the muscle when I can hold it any more. But my shot is barely anything thing at all, like it oozes out. should I be working my bc more? or am I doing it wrong. It just doesn’t feel that great.

It just doesn’t feel that great? Try slamming your dick in the window, it might feel better.

Hmmm… this is weird. Orgasms don’t feel great?

I think either you aren’t having an orgasm (only ejaculating), or there is something unusual about your wiring.

For most people, orgasm is the most pleasurable feeling you can have. Has it ever felt good, siouxfallssd? Has it ever felt like you were spasming and out of control for a few moments, with pleasurable waves of electricity running through your body? Or is it always humdrum for you?

[Cool, this is my 1000th post.]

As for your original question, I don’t “do” anything. I get caught up in the moment and just enjoy it. I think it would detract from things if I treated it like some sort of exersize… (Ok, maybe once in awhile if I am with a partner and she wants to see me explode, I’ll go for the Peter North Special and try to push my splooge out even more. I think that is through flexing my BC muscle…)

Is this guy for real? If he is , I am so , so , so, so sorry you can’t get off.

Whether you dribble or shoot a mile has nothing to do with the intensity of your orgasm. You may just not be a shooter.

I read somewhere in this forum that reverse kegels can increase the intensity of the orgasm. I have found this to be true. Reverse kegel right when on the edge of cumming and then the orgasm proceeds more intensely, for me. But it doesn’t help me with shooting farther. It may help however, with releasing more semen.

I think the best way to have an intense orgasm is to build up to it slowly. Almost cum and then back off, etc. Do this for as long as you can and then let it rip.

Okay I read this when it was first posted yesterday and refrained from responding with the usual obnoxious comment and sarcasm. Believe me it took a great amount of will power to refrain.

So the first question I have to ask;
Are you on any antidepressant drugs?
Any history of bipolarism or other psychiatric disorders?
How’s the family medical history in other respects?

Are you a virgin?
I’m trying to think back that far and if I remember correctly,
slapping the monkey around was a little mundane at best.
But when I got that first piece, whoooooooooaaaaa! that’s when it got exciting to blow a nut.
Been chasing THAT feeling ever since.

“I was just wondering what you guys do when you have an orgasm.”

Sometimes I fart.

Congrats commander. Back to work. ;)

Are you saying you don’t whack off anymore?? It has been so long you hardly remember? That is ridiculous.

Or… are you saying way back then, being young and inexperienced, you hadn’t perfected your whack technique to the high art it is now? Now that I can believe.

PS: Thanks Thunder. :)
I am right on your tail, just 21,000 to go!

Well, I guess I must just be ejaculating then. I have two experiences in my life where I think I had an orgasm. Once was getting some head and blowing my load quite fierce. Afterwards my bc started to clinch uncontrolably and then I did feel those waves of euphoria. The second was during sex, and when I blew my load it almost felt like a piss, but it was great. Maybe I am doing something wrong. However, I am on Zyban right now to help me quit smoking, and it is a anti-depressent that really dries me out. Let me ask u guys a question that no one answered in my last post, right before you cum do you squeeze your BC to keep you from cuming and then release?

Ha!
It really ruins the mood doesn’t it!

I think he was referring to masturbating before he got his first piece of ass, as a virgin. That is what was hard to remember, and it wasn’t very good.

I smell a rat. This has to be bullshit.

Sacred answered this (just let it happen). Commanderblop answered this( don’t do anything). I answered this(sometimes reverse kegel). Is this a joke? And by the way, it is YOU not U.