Thinking small (psychological barriers?)

Don’t you love it - awed by some other guy’s meat in the locker room, then get home and look in the mirror and say, oh, gee, I’m that big (or bigger). Wonder what HE was thinking?

Well, I can not compare to those recounts. But, I can say that I have grown from below average to average and feel GREAT about it. I just got a BJ from a new girl, the first one since starting PE 6 mos ago. Used to be I would worry about my dick size with a new girl but this time I just stood there proud. It really is a new psycology. Years ago HBO had a show about cameras in NYC taxi cabs and they showed various conversations and more. In one, two girls were talking and one said “I won’t date a man with a small dick because they have small dick insecurities”. Until then I hadn’t considered that but as I thought about it I realized how correct she was. I have had a love hate relationship with my dick since puberty. Now that it is at least average I feel SO much better. Give me another inch and I will be literally and emotionally “cocky”.

Heah NotEnough! I think I saw that taxi documentary. Was the question asked to a woman with brown hair sitting on the right handside as you look back from the front and with a man on the left? She was asked whether she would mind if a guy had a small penis and she quite quickly answered something like “it’s not the size that matters, it’s the way he acts insecurly”. Is this the same one that your’e talking about?

I get the same stares that Phat9 gets in the restrooms. I pull it out and it is always fat and long. It is like a psychological thing I know other men are going to look at it. It never used to be that way. It barely used to barely poke out. Now it hangs down and looks like a cock is supposed to look. I get that feeling of it laying against my leg a lot and the feeling is very warm like what is that. It is hard to get used to a new size. I am 63 years old and this is a new experience for me. But thank heaven I am getting to experience it.

Ditto - this is a whole new experience for me -but I love it!

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Tom_Hubbard this happens to you because you constantly need a challenge. People get born with this need and it is the generator of various conditions e.g. ambition.

In the past people faced real threats and menaces that intrigued the others(rest) of their worry insticts (eg survival) so the circle of human balance on this was closed(perfect).

Nowadays we are overprotected in regards to our nature but we still need the challenge. Thats why thes psychological questions-matters are born.

To complete what I wanted to say:

So if you worry about PE you can get yourself think “small” thus you are going to have (you actually create) a challenge e.g. getting big or facing your thoughts.

But stressing yourself like this I believe has no actual help for you cause in the end the questions are of your fantasy and not reality’s practice.

I hope I make myself understood of what I want to say.

<So if you worry about PE you can get yourself think “small” thus you are going to have (you actually create) a challenge e.g. getting big or facing your thoughts. >

Huh? Seems to me Tom does a good job of facing his thoughts. Where are you going with this, anyway?

Hey Largo,

A question for you. Do you do any PE exercises ?

>Huh? Seems to me Tom does a good job of facing his thoughts. Where are you going with this, anyway?

Actually if you try to analize with arguments this way of thinking and the fact(/reply to the question) of analizing it (where are you going with this?) you will lead to the dead-end: did the egg make the chicken or the chicken made the egg.
Thats why I said better not go to things like this with a theoretic way but only go practical.
So I suggest moreover we not try to bother and analize this any more.

To ThunderSS:

I am trying.

I only do manual excercises but I also have some equpiment.

I think they are the more productive if it was for a standard least amount of time dedicated to PE.

What kind of equipment? Could you not use it while you are online, like now?

I have a manual professional type pump and a hanger “mekka” I made my self but it bothers me too much while I use it to be free.

So even if I was not on-line and had nothing to do I still doupt I could use some hardware. I don’t know but I don’t find myself comfortable with hardware.

What is a hanger “mekka”, I have never heard that term before. Some people are not comfortable with hardware.