Took 6-8 Months Off PE Completely, Some Thoughts

I took a good 6-8 months off of PE completely. Believe it or not I even stopped visiting Thunder’s Place. I broke up with a serious girlfriend and just dated around a lot. I actually stopped bacause my first experience with a girl, after my serious ex-girlfriend, I couldn’t even get an erection. I was PE’ing to an extreme and really destroying my sex drive and erection ability completely. Bear in mind I am in my early 20’s.

Anyway, I think I am somewhat ready to get back into it. But somethings that I have gained being away from PE are extreme confidence about my unit. I am 7.5” BP and 5.25” EG midshaft and somehow almost every girl that has experienced my size has made remarks about how large or thick it is. This of course makes me feel great like maybe I do not need PE. But hey, why not have a bigger dick, right?

I am trying to come up with a very very basic routine just to get myself back into the swing of things. And I need your guys advice. Maybe some light hanging, since I do have a Bib hanger. I have started talking to my ex-girlfriend again and for whatever reason she seems to make the least amount of deal about my size. I am not sure if she’s used to it, or what the reason is. But out of every girl I have been with on our time apart and now just recently her seeing it again, it seems like she’s not all that impressed. I am confident enough that I couldn’t care less about what she has done or who she has been with during our time apart, but sometimes I wish she would say a bit more, or make a bigger deal out of my unit. Am I strange?

Wannebe,

Yes, I guess we’re all strange here to want those affirmations. I am a good deal larger than you, and my lady NEVER comments on my size. Whenever I bring up size in our conversations, she just smiles benignly, kind of like the Mona Lisa. I really don’t think it’s that big a deal, excuse the expression, for most women.

Horsehung

WannaBeHung

Start of with some jelqing and just work up. It was good that your saw that your big it seems you old girlfriend doesn’t want you to know that and become to confident and cocky and than she couldn’t pussy whip you. And know your not strange just because you hang out at thunders with a bunch of guys who sit around pulling our dicks, I mean whats so strange about that. It’s also not strange to want to be appreciated as long as it doesn’t seem that you need her to appreciate it.

Hi WannaBeHung! Welcome back!

I was hoping you could report if any PE discoloration has lighten with your time off (If you had any)? Also I would be interested if you could report if you get a “spurt of gains” due to deconditioning so long. Some think thats the way to go, what do you think?

Correct me if I am wrong, but you have only taken off PE for about 2-3 months, according to your log.

Good to hear you are starting again.

I’m on my fourth day of PE and my penis is more flexible. Last night I made my penis hard after my PE work out and was amazed that I was able to stand it much more high.
I had not been able to get it high on it’s own, Before I had to use my hand to lift it up that high.
I think my work out is working and able to get more blood inside than before.
As for hanging I just started today, And I am taking it slow, so you should too.

Thanks for all of the support guys. And my logs do not lie, maybe it has only been 2-3 months. Funny because it feels like FOREVER, for whatever reason. Maybe because I was doing some sort of PE always in the past. Who knows. I have to agree that guys do obsess over their size more than most women do. Oh well. Kind of a frustrating battle.

I am going to start off with some jelqing, though, which I have never ever really done regularly. What % erection should I be at? And do you guys recommend wet or dry jelqing? Thanks! :)

WBH,

You’re right, you do have a good-sized unit; the decision to opt for more, or not, is entirely your own.

Another curious point - 5.25” EG midshaft is a good girth. Most guys would never realize it here - with everyone wanting 6-7” girth. My pre-PE size was 6 1/2 BPEL x 5 1/4 (midshaft) and I used to get comments on my girth as well (not my length, LOL).

Anyway, your present stats include an inch more length - so you should in no way feel self-conscious about your size. I actually came to PE because of mild E.D., but I began making gains - really wanting length. Ironically, I gained a lot of girth, putting me in the 6+ club. I realize that I have, statistically, a very thick cock (something my wife often complains about if she’s not really really wet). But the truth is, most guys are < 5” EG (some, considerably less).

I still want more length, of course, but I’m far more at-peace with my cock than I ever was before - thanks to PE, and thanks to Thunder’s.

Welcome back, nice to hear things are going well and healthy! Don’t be afraid to re-read the basic stuff on PE at ANY time…always makes a good refresher. FAQ ain’t just for newbies, sometimes we understand things differently after we haven’t read them for a while and get more out of what was read.

Nice to hear about the new gal, the lack of penis discussion might be a very good thing for your relationship. Far be it for me to guess about folks I don’t really know on the Internet, but perhaps the reason your previous (Brit?) made such a big deal of your size was because you always brought it up? IIRC, you were quite prone to those long discussions and inquisitions of the phallic nature with your SO’s. It’s odd, but sometimes when we obsess over something, we actually cause another to begin to obsess over the same thing, in this case it is our cocks.

I say if they’re not complaining…GOOD! Compliments are nice, but quietly improving oneself without excessive acknowledgement has alot going for it as well.

Good luck and take it light this time:) .

This is one of the most informative posts I have ever read here at Thunder’s. I COMPLETELY agree that average girth is less than 5”, because I am only 5.25” and I have always gotten comments on my girth. I am going to start with some light hanging. And take it from there.

do you guys really think AVERAGE girth is under 5”??? That seems a bit low to me.

Hey Wanna,

Uncut here.

I read your story, I’m sorry, first of all, that it didn’t work out with that chick. But you’re at an age where chicks come and go, until it hits you in the head, that’s when you know she’s worth your time.

As far as easying into a workout regimen again, do it slowly, like Dino suggested, some jelqs, hot water stretching and so forth. Built up to a more intense routine.

Good to have you back, Bro.

P.S.: Women can be intimidating, but keep one thing in mind: No matter how good they look, there’s always a person behind that face, that is as vulnerable as you. So, don’t trip ;)

I am glad I am not going crazy. I remember reading some of your posts maybe 2 or 3 months ago, then you say 8 months, and I am thinking I was in some sort of time warp!

WannaBeHung,

I can relate to your losing track of time as I do also. That was a lot of time to lose though, and I think it may have been because of your changing your lifestyle and being back on the dating circuit. You mentioned the ladies are noticing your size. If one can go by the girth and length charts here at Thunder’s, they show you are above average in length and that you are on the high side of average in midshaft girth. So overall you are above average and your dates knew it.

Hey welcome back! I took a break myself, however, I am back because a girl re-ignited my PE obsessive compulsive disorder.