dangrzne25,
I agree with the way you say that a woman does get used to a bigger lover - for the most part. Our sizes are almost identical (btw, great gains in such a short period of time).
Another thing is that while a man’s physical stature is not a true barometer of his genital size, neither is it for a woman. My ex, who is 39 and with whom I last had sex a few months ago, needed K-Y to really enjoy sex - and she certainly enjoyed it more after the gains I made. But that petite little teenager that I screwed a few times several months ago, could more easily handle my size - and she was a lot smaller than my wife, half her age, and had never had children. Nor did she have a rep of being a whore. Furthermore, she told me in a juvenile email that she had never been with a guy my size (so, it’s not like she was “used to being with horses”). She was just a petite little gal with a large vagina.
At the time I was nailing her, I was 7.72 x 6+ midshaft (6.5 base). And while we’d have to start off slowly each time, she would gradually work into a wild groove, slamming herself so violently against me that her pelvic bones were hurting me. And if you think about it, she was swallowing that 6.5 base girth with pleasure. I don’t doubt that she could’ve taken another inch of length, and probably at least 7” girth. That’s kinda scary.
The moral of the story is that we should strive for the penis that we are comfortable with - and not some mythical size that would “scare” women, because that’s self defeating on so many levels. First, such a size is simply beyond the reach of 99% of guys on earth; second, what if it became almost impossible for you find sex?