We are all faking ourselve's

anon,
I’m not exactly sure what to make of your post.

1) Are you being a hypocrite for being here, doing PE, then denigrating the rest of us?
2) Or, now that you are 7”+, are you claiming that a bigger dick doesn’t matter?
3) Or are you overreacting because you had invested so much emotional energy in gaining, and now that you’ve developed good size, you’re not as happy as you thought you’d be?

Like I said, I don’t quite get it.

In the past, I’d experienced #3, slightly - but I got over it.

While I’d agree that dick size - or muscles or good looks or thick hair or more money - is not *everything*, I find your repudiation of self-improvement to be very odd (as have others here).

Like Dino, I’ve worked out a lot in the past, Like Panos, I’ve studied foreign languages. I just think its an exhilirating experience to “become more“…more than I was last year, last month…even yesterday. Without this drive, the world would not have developed at all.

To buy into that warm, fuzzy shit about everything being “okay,” leads to complacency…which eventually becomes “surrender.” Damn that. I want to keep growing (no pun intended) for as long as I can.

To want to become “more/better/happier” does not imply that you hate yourself now.

Just try to keep a balance, a perspective. If you “place all of your eggs in one basket,” so to speak, you’re setting yourself up for major unhappiness.

I’m just going to say this. It’s obvious that you have other issues that doesn’t involve getting a bigger dick so maybe you need to work those out.

If this is all fake, how come I have gained over 2.1/2 inches in length

Just partially, Pe isn’t my real battle, just a part of it. And I love it that pe exists because it has changed my live. I still don’t accept myself fully. In many aspects I do now, but in a lot not yet until this moment. It’s a process and writing about it stimulate’s the emotions, feelings what the mind sometime’s already knows. They need to line up.

Those are the people I am referring to.

Thanks man, but I will have inner turmoil as long as I live. That is what drive’s me. If it come’s out of the right intentions I will accept that. As long as there is a balance between inner turmoil and peace I am happy.

About self improvement;

If you are passionate and excited (and already have a lot of self validation) about improving yourself you can get a rush and create momentum/flow out of it and that’s great. That’s what it does to me most of the time. That is when you got the right mental picture in front of you of the goals you want to attain. In that place you will internally live out your dreams and feel them during the day, even if they haven’t manifested in the material world yet. No matter what circumstance’s say or what people say, think or how they act. In that state you can have empathy to other people who try to get you down and laugh silently in a loving way to them and hoping for them to change for the better. In that state you can bring good things out of people who are personally not ok towards you and get a kick out of that, because you can stand above their negative behaviour. Then you will love the walk in going were you want to be. That’s part of my experience of self improvement.

But, when you are not passionate and excited you can still want to improve yourself. But then it come’s out of restfullness, or lack of self validation (anger, or fear), or for some people hate, or bitterness can be a great temporary motivator. Then you have shifted over a line and act out of a perspective that sadly enough a lot of people do. Than you will be someone who is not satisfied at the base at all and has no peace and is working his ass off without enjoyment and real lasting satisfying results. Out of the fear the ego come’s up and we start treating each other like shit with all fucked up consequence’s for the environment.

So I think people should accept theirselve’s in the base, to be begin with. Fully. (one of my goals) Than everything they improve will be a great bonus.

By the way; I am going to do this personal coaching course from which I have downloaded an internet book. The book itself also says that you first should exept yyour weak points. Then you can start to work on improving yourself out of self validation. Lack of self acceptance should not be the driving force, which is the case with a lot of people. My driving force has shifted, but sometime I tend to fall back at the other one.

Hope this give’s some clearance. In the first post I probably did not point myself out the right way to bring over what I mean.

I don’t know I don’t think my dick is small. I make my girl cum over and over and over again. I still want an 8 inch cock. Not for her not for girls, but for me.

Some of use will realize what they want, but for some reason or another they will not take the steps to achieve it. Then there is guys like me guys that see a way to make themselves better and they fucking go for it.

Why accept something less if you don’t have to? Grow some balls be a man and bust your ass to get what you want.

Work hard and play harder.

Or, as a summary of the above.

Grow some balls, be a man and accept everything right know.

Then bust your ass with inner peace and fighting spirit (they don’t have to contradict) to get what you want.

:)

This guy’s been watching Fight Club one too many times.

What’s next - Project Mayhem?

Yes bobs3304, project Mayhem is next ;)

Rule #1: Do not talk about Project Mayhem. If you do we’ll put Jalapeno juice in your jelq lube.