What lends more to the appearance of size

If I happen to catch some educational program on TV that mentions average penis size, I’ll often hear it referred to as 5” - 7”. I really don’t care for that range as I consider it to be entirely too large. That would be the equivalent of saying that the average weight of a grown woman is between 110 and 170 pounds. Average size is 5.5 - 6.0”. If you’ve got greater than 6.0”, you deserve the credit of being above average.

What do you guys think? Does length or girth lend more to the idea of, at least, appearing large. If it’s a combination of the two, which lends more?

Ofcourse a combination of both but mostly girth.

Very true. But, you must remember, in modern culture there can be no ” winners” and no “losers”. All must be equal so that everyone gets a good self esteem. Hence the no student left behind program. Thus, with the largest number of people over average being in the 7” range, and the largest number of people under average being in the 5” range, they choose an “average” range that guarantees the greatest number of people will feel neither better nor worse than their neighbor. No kudos if you are better than average, but also no bad feelings if you are less. It is a part of our modern ” seek mediocrity” philosophy.

Of course, the culture that seeks mediocrity soon finds it.

Yes, but if you have tons of girth and a small length, I think, you end up simply magnifying the appearance of being short. All things in equal measure. No one looks big if they have a really skinny penis, no matter how long, and no one looks big with a really short penis, no matter how big around.

Clearly it is entirely too large in the context of the actual average, which centers, not begins, on 5 inches. It would be like saying that the average salary in America is 50K-400K. You don’t just shoot up to the top few percentile and call it average.

Overall volume is what gives you the appearance of size. An inch of girth will make you look bigger than an inch of length, but proportionality is important. Long and skinny or short and thick look big, but almost funny.

When they say 5-7 inches, usually they are trying to say that’s the normal range. As in, more than 90% fall between 5 and 7 inches.

Well said Northmianitop. I believe in relation too however you can alter the coital position easier to accommodate slightly shorter and still have deep penetration.

Devilknight….6: Your post no. 4: Great cultural perception! How right you are.

Girth. Length with out girth does not look big. But just girth does not usually look that big. It is kind of both. You can see 6 or 7 inch guys that are cut but have huge girth, and you watch the girl blow them, and it looks like the girl is handling a much bigger dick than say a 7 and a half inch thin wang.

I gained 3/4” in NBPEL and got no comments either way even with a woman who had me at my before and after length. After gaining my length I gained about 3/4” of girth and the big dick comments started comming and have not stopped.

For most of us, girth is going to be the deciding factor in whether the word “huge” ever comes out of a girls mouth. This word is reserved for what a woman feels, not just what she sees. Even at 7.75” NBPEL, a girl will likely not call you huge if you are under 5” girth. She will just say that you are long.

With a 3/4” length gain, she will visually notice that you hang longer when walking around naked, but likely not even mention it or notice a real difference during sex. That’s why length gains are mostly about us feeling better about ourselves compared to other men, not really about going deeper for her satisfaction.

With a 3/4” gain in girth, she will feel the entire difference or most of it as a stretch of her vaginal walls which provides a larger circumference of nerve ending being stimulated along the first couple of inches inside her walls.

With that said, I’m more concerned with getting to 7.5” even though I am well under 5” girth because I am not happy with my length. I’m putting my happiness first and once I’ve exhausted those limits, I will worry about her.

Baywatch, would you mind sharing your pre PE stats?

5.75” NBPEL x about 5” MSEG.

I used the FastSize extender for a very long time and got up to about 6” NBPEL. Then I gained nothing for a long time. I gained about another 3/4” NBPEL hanging after having had lengthening surgery with Dr. Gary Alter. I’ve not gained any more length in over 3+ years I think.

All my girth came from FFT surgery with Dr. Stephen Giunta. That surgery has been a smashing success, has changed my life, and if anything I’ve gained even more girth through jelquing and pumping over the past 2-3 years post surgery. It does not take much at all, even a weekend of Viagra, to get up to 6” MSEG. For my stats, however, I claim a cold cock 5.75” MSEG although its been a while since I took a cold cock measurement.

I’d really like another 1/4” NBPEL. I’m considering using an extender again although I recall my extender wearing days as brutal and painful.

Tiny balls.