Why hung guys sometimes feel they are small

I was thinking about this the other day. Some other opinions would be welcome.

When you look at an inch on a ruler then make that size with your fingers. It looks pretty small. If you said, is it worth spending months and months making this extra size, I would think it’s not worth it. But then if you showed me 2 pictures, and the 2nd picture had a penis with 1 inch longer then the first, I would say the second pic looks better and it’s worth it. :confused:

And then I started thinking about how even 8 inches isn’t that big. Or even 9. There is 12 inches in a foot. Even a foot isn’t that big. Not the best comparison but when I go fishing and catch a fish, if it’s 10 inches I don’t think it’s a “huge” fish. 10 inches usually means big enough to eat and legal to keep rather then huge (depending on the type of fish). I wear a size 12 shoe, and when I look at my foot I don’t think it’s “huge”. Maybe this explains why some guys can be monsterously huge statistically, but still feel small. Maybe all penises are small, when compared to other objects and other parts of the body. Or maybe it’s just because I am on the taller side, or have watched too much porn from a young age. ;)

Why is this. Forgetting about how it looks or feels for the women, why is having something huge between your legs so much better then something smaller (assuming it’s not tiny). I know everyone doesn’t feel this way, but I think alot do.

Your getting into a complex topic, but I think you may be on to something. Another thing to keep in mind, the bigger you are, the smaller a normal or above average dick will look. I think the biggest factor though, is porn. When you see a guy who is huge and has a small frame, it gives you the impression the guy is a walking cock, makes you kind of depressed.

8 use to look huge to me. Now it looks not so huge, you get use to it.

You’ve made a very good observation. I stand at 5’8” and I’m currently at 8” x 5.6” now BPEL mind you. Starting at 7.5” x 5” I really don’t feel ‘big’ and I’m not claiming I’m big either, I’m just comparing it to average. However on top of all this, I’ve been watching porn for quite some time now and also compare myself to them big dawgs. It does make me feel insignificant and quite depressed.

If you know you are statistically in the top 1%, and your woman (or women) cross their eyes repeatedly during sex, you shouldn’t FEEL small. Just saying.

I don’t feel small per se, but I do want to be bigger….the biggest I can possibly be.I’m 6ft 1” and Black so it’s expected for me to have a 12” dick so I’m trying,subconsciously, to live up the the stereotype :)

I’m 7.625 bpel & 6.125” meg and while I recognize my girth is large & my sexual partners over the years have been extremely satisfied with our sex lives I still desire that ‘Shane Diesel’ monster cock that commands ‘shock and awe’ when unleashed.

So I don’t feel small as such,infact I know I’m not, but I want more and won’t rest until I have it.

btw guys- porn will really warp your views on most things about you,your penis and life so don’t watch too much of it.

I don’t feel small, but I don’t always feel big either. Like someone said, you get used to your size.

However, I definitely feel big enough length wise, but girth wise I don’t feel big at all.

Wow, I think we all tend to want more. 5.6 meg is very thick, and as you said, 8” VERY long. I think this PE stuff ends up being like bodybuilding. (eg: I have 18” guns, but my buddy has 18 &1/2” guns, now he IS big ) ( But wait, his buddy has 19” arms, now HE is ACTUALLY big, etc etc. )

We men are competitive, and it keeps the strong genes moving forward in my opinion. Deep inside, I think we all know that being willing to do anything to please your woman sexually will get you farther with women than being a guy who ” two pumps and dumps” but slings a 8 x 6.5 unit.

Yes, I think so too. Lengthwise I am more than happy now, I honestly don’t want any more length. I actually HOPE I don’t get any more length, because what I have now is more than enough in my opinion. I would like 6” girth though, but I suppose I have a luxury problem with my 5.6ish girth. We do get blinded by our own bodies.

I find that I get more objective as I get older, so I don’t consider it a problem any more, but when I was younger and did a lot more heavy weight lifting I couldn’t understand why my friends told me I was very muscular because I compared myself with the “really” big guys. Since I currently have a workout routine that has a bigger emphasis on health (but of course on looking smokin’ hot as well :) ) I don’t feel the same pressure I felt when I was younger. I am really sad about the ideals that permeate our society so deeply nowadays that kids have to grow up with that I didn’t have to grow up with, and I am only 24. It seems like a lot has changed since I was a kid, and fast…

I can’t explain why but I’d like to have a footer or more! LOL I guess one of the reasons is the self esteem enhancement from girl’s comments and expressions. But if you look at this issue from outside, pick up a ruler and look at the first 8 inches. A phallus that size is huge!!! Now try to imagine a girl looking at that ruler and having to convince herself to let that thing go all the way inside her. No wonder girls are scared when they see an 8 inch cock!

1) Yes you do. I’m at 5.5 +- girth, and I want 6+, .. not my wife, me :0

2) Once you nail down a “keeper”, you’ll become more objective when you, maybe, get a pot belly and she still loves you