Would This Give You a Complex?

I am wondernig if this would affect you guys the way it has me.

My girlfriend and best friend has been with 2 other guys. Both shorter than me, and one had a shaft thinner than me. Well, the first guy, she said was a tiny bit thinner, yet had a large head. Larger than his shaft. I am around 5.25” girth, so I am thinking maybe he was 5” shaft girth and 5.5” head girth.

Basically, this has affected my confidence a good bit and really made me want to grow my head like crazy. It currently measures 5” around with a cock ring and 4.5” without.

What do you guys think?

Meanwhile, your girlfriend’s exes are desperately trying to figure out how they’re ever going to get to be as tall as you.

Size issues freak everyone out - and a big part of thunder’s is about coming to terms with that.

Best approach always seems to be not to avoid asking the dreaded question of “how big were your old boyfriends?” But we’re obsessed. We’re also gamblers rolling the dice for in the hopes of getting a major ego boost. (You’re the biggest, you’re the best, etc.) The answer she gives always matters to us far more than it does to her.

We’ve all got the potential to get bigger. We’ve even got the potential to get too big. You can almost build the penis of your choosing - but there’s no guarantee it’ll be exactly right for your girlfriend. So in the end it’s about coming to the acceptance that you’ve got the right penis for you. (Even though we wouldn’t mind maybe another 1/4” here or a little curve there.)

PS: We’d all love to score with someone who looks like your avatar - but I wouldn’t dream of asking her about the size or number of partners she’s had. Wouldn’t ask about their jobs, incomes, or cars either. Got to keep ‘em focused on you.

Yeah I know what youre saying man, good post. Basically it was an ego boost for the most part, except for the thing about that one guys head. I have never had a large head but it was still kinda like, damn, ya know? I just want to make my head as big as if not bigger than her ex’s. But then again it could be a lot worse, huh? Strange how the head alone can make you feel bad, haha.

Also, maybe there´s no such thing as “better” for her concerning that, just “different”.

A big head probably feels great going in, many girls say they love the penetration part, when you first put it in. But then with increasing girth along the shaft and head being smallest part you have the benefit of becoming bigger and bigger the more you put in, I´ve heard girls who prefer that too.

Asking questions like that is bound to leave you obsessing, no matter how much positive feedback you get. Yet we ask. Not to clever, are we :p

Haha, some good comments man, really think you have a good opinion on all this. Yeah I am not sure what she actually prefers. Shes made comments before about how a bigger head is a good thing, but who knows. Yeah I think that the initial penetration with a large head really is noticeable to a girl. Especially since she was a virgin, a large head would feel massive. Yeah but who knows Rocco, Ill keep squeezing hoping for a larger shaft and head.

Check this thread out to see where this kind of obsessing will get you.

Yeah, I’ve only asked 2 women I ever dated about previous cocks they’ve had….guess I never wanted to hear about any monsters. I mean, what would say after your sweetheart told you, “Oh my ex was like 10 inches long and so fat.”

What do you say then? I don’t know, nor did I ever want to know.

It only came up casually with 2 gals - one of whom became my wife.

The first gal was telling me how much sex had hurt her. I just casually said “Why, was he big?” She said yeah, he was really thick. When I showed her my erection I said, “Thicker than me?” And she gasped “Oh yeah,” like the thought of his coffee can still shook her up.

And with my future wife, the first time we were together she commented on the size of my huge balls. I said something like, “Yeah, to go with the rest of the package.” She said, “Yeah, you are the thickest I’ve seen.” Then I asked, in a joking off-hand way, “And the longest?” She said, “No, Ron was about an inch longer - but it was really thin.” And the other guy she’d been with was shorter and thinner.

But I’ve never in my life ever came out and asked point-blank about dick sizes. I think it’s bad idea for both of you. It can make you look pathetic (“Awwww, he’s worried about his li’l peepee!”) and it can leave you with a bad taste in your mouth if she gushes about a superhung ex and how great the sex was with him….like it would then matter if she said, “But I like you a lot more.”

Yeah, big deal, LOL.

Don’t ask, IMO.

Great post wadzilla, I would have to agree.

Wad,

>But I’ve never in my life ever came out and asked point-blank about dick sizes. I think it’s bad idea for both of you. It can make you look pathetic <

Right on. Once she knows it bothers you, she immediately gets control over you. If she wants to hurt you, out come the dick jokes, if she *really* wants to hurt you, out come the dick jokes when all your friends are there too.

If you never mention it, and act like it’s not an issue for you, she wont do that because she knows it wont affect you. OK, she’ll spout off about how crap you are in bed, how your fat, balding, whatever, but that’s beside the point!

SS4

Sheesh, what kind of women do these things? I´ve met, and made, some pretty bitter women but never had anything like this ever happen. If it ever did that would put me in eject mode quicker than anything.

This whole situation is a microcosm for other, bigger issues that will come up with this girl.

I never ask a girl about sizes of ex (thankfully for me I’m not that curious). My theory is the fact that the babe has had an ex means she’s no longer satisfied with him. Ofcourse that could be wrong if the guy dumped her! But unless I detect disappointment I don’t pursue (shooting yourself in the foot ;-))

BTW my shaft is 5.75 base, 5.5 mid but without cock ring (don’t have one) my head is only 4” around & 1.5” long (at 100% erection, otherwise it’s 1.25). So I gotta work on myhead for sure, and you can take it a little easy I guess!