Best times to use the extender

I have been using the extender after sex, but I have no theory why. My flaccid stretch length is greater than my erect length, so I assume stretching while erect (or losing erection) helps more than just stretching flaccid? Anyway, what would be the best times to use an extender.

Also, I have been thinking of modifying my extender base so that the bottom is very snug, this way, instead of stretching from my pubic bone, it stretches from the base of the penis to the top, the tunica (yes?).

I am still learning to jelq, for some reason the videos didn’t work for me so I had to view the pics. It doesn’t seem complex but my whole shaft the next day was dry and red (irritated skin). Is this common?

Thanks!

What kind of lube you used to jelq?

Try downloading the videos if you want to see them.

When I tried to download, I got an error. I tried from a tablet though.

I jelqed in the bathtub and in the shower, using hot water and soap. That’s probably my problem. Married with kids and even though my wife knows, I prefer to keep it in the bathroom. Should I use lube or lotion? I originally posted in this in the newbie forum and made this post before I saw the huge post about jelqing. I still have to figure out how to do it correctly.

Yep that’s the problem, never use soap for jelqing. Water based lubricants, olive oil, cocoa butter are all good choices.

You shouldn’t stretch your penis while erect. The best time to use an extender is any time it stays in place and can stretch your penis without slippling or causing pain, so after sex is about ideal. There are just two things that really count when using an extender: time you wear the device and how far your penis is stretched.

Have to add: if you are a total newbie, I’d suggest you forget the extender for three months. Manual exercises could be all you ever need to reach your goals.

I am a total newbie with growth, but I have tried for years to straighten my curve. My biggest goal would be to get my curve right. The numbers I added as a plus.

Anyway, thanks for the input I will leave the devices alone and work on my manual exercises. I’ve been denying jelqing for years :(