Any Bib Experts in the San Francisco Bay Area?

Hi all,

Help! I have tried using the Bib hanger for the past 6 months or more, and am ready to throw it through the window!

I cannot for the life of me get the right combination of wrapping or hanger placement on the shaft. I have tried pulling the shaft skin back, forward, every which way. It still hurts and the hanger slides forward over the glans. (I am cut, but have lots of skin left and appear to be uncut.) There are just so many variables that I cannot determine what I am doing wrong.

I can sometimes hang for as long as 25 minutes, but lately it’s more like 8 or 10 minutes before I have to release the hanger. I am now discolored (darkened) on a large area on the underside behind the frenulum.

I have posted a few messages on here asking for help, but the written answers have not helped me understand what my problem is.

Is there anyone knowledgeable about Bib placement/technique on the forum in the bay area who would be willing to meet with me personally for 30 minutes or so to show me what the problem is? I simply need a “do this,” “don’t so that” sort of tutorial.

By the way, I am not looking for anything more than an in-person Bib tutorial.

Please PM if you can help,

Regards,
groan

groan,

>Help! I have tried using the Bib hanger for the past 6 months or more, and am ready to throw it through the window! ……I have posted a few messages on here asking for help, but the written answers have not helped me understand what my problem is.<

Let me get this straight: You tried using the hanger for six months, suffering greatly, then posted one thread asking questions on 4/02, and a reply on 4/04, and you think you have put forth some effort? First, why the hell did you wait six months to seek help? Then, you post a thread a week ago. Did you try making any adjustments from the offered help? I admit, I missed your reply to those posts, but I have since replied again.

>I cannot for the life of me get the right combination of wrapping or hanger placement on the shaft. I have tried pulling the shaft skin back, forward, every which way. It still hurts and the hanger slides forward over the glans. (I am cut, but have lots of skin left and appear to be uncut.) There are just so many variables that I cannot determine what I am doing wrong.<

There are many other things we can look at to see what you are doing wrong, but overall, from reading your posts, you have not done enough reading. First, you need to go back and read the product guide on my website again. There are several things you mention that leads me to believe you do not have six months worth of hanging knowledge.

>I can sometimes hang for as long as 25 minutes, but lately it’s more like 8 or 10 minutes before I have to release the hanger. I am now discolored (darkened) on a large area on the underside behind the frenulum.<

Case in point: A set should never last for more than 20 minutes max. Discoloration is a by-product of hanging, at least to a certain extent. Arnica gel, and wrapping to remove discoloration will help remove it. Usually, when there is severe discoloration, it is because the bottom gap of the hanger is not wide enough.

If you really want to get this right, you need to describe exactly what you are doing, with all the measurements, and we can get it straight. You can also send pictures for critique.

Bigger

groan,

I meant to add the following:

I went back and read your original single thread you posted which follows:

>>Hi all,
I have finally developed a technique (after several months of trial and error) for hanging (Bib hanger) that seems to work and is comfortable, and have been hanging for the past few weeks (startred at 12.5 lbs once a day and am now at three-30 minute sessions at 15 lbs).

I may have gained about 1/16 inch in length, but the increase in foreskin is amazing. I am circumsized, but luckily have lots of skin, but now when I am semi-erect, the foreskin does not retract and I could easily pass for uncut! Woo hoo!

I tried foreskin restoration a few years ago (stretching) and got some success, but nothing like this. I’m quite pleased.

My questions:
Am I hanging properly (to get this skin change) or do I need to change my techinque?
Does skin growth as I have described mean length gains will follow?
Does it matter where on the shaft (back towards the groin, middle, behind the head, etc.) I attach my Bib hanger to get length instead of skin gains?
Am I doing everything/anything right?
Am I am thread killer?<<

This post seems to indicate a general happiness with hanging, and does not get into any problems. BG and I answered the questions, but I did miss your reply. Then, a week later, you are ready to throw the hanger out the window? What’s the deal?

Bigger

Im in the Redwood City Menlo Park area man, anyways this is how I do it (im uncut) I can see your frustrations.

This is what you do:L

Take your penis stretched out. Pull the foreskin up about a quarter up the head. Now
pinch the head to get the blood out.

Now with the rest of your palm squeeze the shaft to get the blood out so that the blood from the shaft doesnt flow into the head. Start your wrap… Place the bib. Its important to get enough foreskin but not too much to where it will stretch it. Do you have aol instant messenger maybe I can help you through there. My sn is omarv6983 im me if you need help.

Well, Maybe I was not clear enough.

I have had the Bib hanger for several months. I did not say I have been hanging every day for six months. I have had success from time to time in getting it “attached” so it does not hurt or slip off. I try to recreate that same application and fail about 80% of the time. When I think I have it attached the same way as before, it doesn’t feel anyting like it did when it felt ok, and either slips down squeezing the glans with so much intensity that I have to remove it.

For the first few weeks I had the hanger I did not use it every day. The frustration was too great in not being able to get it right.

It is true that I got a lot of skin stretch and I like that part. I even thought I had gained about 1/16” in length, but that seems to have disappeared and I am back where I was.

I have read several posts about wrapping and how to do it. I have looked at the photos others have posted about how to wrap. I have read a lot on here about how to hang, but it amy succeed one or two times out of 10.

As I said before, I thought if someone was knowledgeable about this and could witness what I am doing, perhaps they could spot what I am doing wrong (or right).

Bib: I was asking for local help…not a lecture on how much you think I have read.

I do not claim to have six months of hanging experience. I have had six months of hanging frustration.

groan

groan,

>I do not claim to have six months of hanging experience. I have had six months of hanging frustration.<

Then that begs the question, why did you not mention one thing in those six months, ask one question, make one beef? Why did you suffer for six months. That was my point.

Bigger

I think that’s called a thread killer.

No,the thread is not dead,state your problems ,give detailed information(hanger settings,wrapping,etc.), post some pics if possible. Hell, we are all here to share, help and take. All Bib is asking you is why suffer so long?. Let’s get it straightened out, hanging is not penis torture. I doubt if you will have many takers for a “one on one”, but this forum is not much different if clear explanations and details are given. I’ve been hanging going on a year and I don’t get it right every time, the hanger is not custom built for you, there are thousands of ways to adjust it to your penis though.

Alice
By the way, the hanger is not supposed to go over your glans, try adjusting your wrap a little under the circ scar,put the hanger 1/4 inch behing the front of the wrap, tighten the hanger,pull down on hanger,tighten a little more, this should allow for some skin to roll up and allow the hanger to stop on the bunched skin. If you need anymore help,let us know.

Without more info, it’s hard to make any suggestions. Strange that things work some times but not others. Might want to double check to make sure your adjustment nuts are completely tight on the bottom of the Bib. When I first adjusted my toe-in/toe-out settings, I didn’t get mine snugged up properly. I’m not in your area, but I have a webcam and maybe could help that way if you’d like.

If you wanted help you should have asked. Since you didn’t, don’t complain. We don’t read minds.

I have no idea why you would suffer for 6 months and still know as little as you apparently do except for being lazy. The information is here for searching. Help is here for anyone who asks.

Let’s start anew. Here are some things I’ve learned to do that help me hang comfortably.

Tell us what you’re doing. Which hanger are you using, what wrap, how are you placing it, etc.? The more details the better.

Groan,

I feel for you mate, I do, but the guys are right. You should have asked for help earlier.

Look at it this way. You have paid good money for for a professionally built hanger. If it didn’t work as suggested, you should have gone looking for answers.

If you bought a new car and it wouldn’t start, would you wait 6 months before you went looking for answers? I think not.

Seems to me Bigger is frustrated, not because you need help, but because you waited so long to try and get it.

Please don’t take offence at what anyone here is saying. I’m sure everyone who has replied to this thread is genuinely interested in helping you…me included.

I’m sure that the combined hanging experience of the guys exceeds many years, so listen closely, learn and get hung.