To all guys who hang and have a partner..

How can you do your session if your girlfriend/wife lives together with you ?

I mean , how to hide it from her (and I want to hide it !) ?

Do you stay 1 hour in the bathroom and say that you have been asleep there for that time ??!

Joe,

I have a live-in girlfriend too. It is a real pain in the ass to hide what you are doing! The best way is to use things that are not obvious. Mostly use the jelq and manual stretching methods (which is what I do). An extra 20 minutes to 1/2 hour in the bathroom in the morning while getting ready for work is not too obvious. A good, hard 1 minute manual stretch before pissing every time you have to piss is of great benefit as well. I do hang a little heavier weight twice a week now when I know she is at work and when I am home and have privacy. I use a home-made hanger (Tom Hubbard’s design) and it is easy to hide with all my junk and tools and shit. If she found it, she would have no clue what it is. If she asked, I would say it was some kind of clamp I made years ago to hold something together while it was being glued. Hahahahha creative back-up story huh? Also, if you are using an “obvious” hanger, keep it in your car. She can’t find it in the bathroom then! I wish I could hang more often, but I do what I can as privacy allows, thats why I rely more heavily on the jelq and manual stretching. You might have to hang less often, and jelq and manual stretch more as well because of privacy issues. You can still get good results doing it like that though! I gained almost 1/2 inch in BPEL and a little less than 1/2 inch in EG in about a month and a half. Flaccid gains were really good as well. Good luck, and I hope you are able to figure out a good program that fits your privacy problems.

Take care,

Beretta

Hi !
I told my friend ( I am gay ) from the beginning , what I am doing , because i spend a lot of time for PE and it would be too complicate to hide it !
So I am out of this problem !!

:jumpers:

Lots of greetings Wantmore

Joe 2

I am in a similar situation except I’m married and have two kids. What I’ve found that’s worked for me is doing PE in the mornings while I shower or when I am getting ready for work. I go to work pretty early in the am so no one is awake in my house. I also take advantage of any free time I get. If my wife goes shopping or leaves the house for 1/2 hour or more. Boom! I strap on the hanger and hang away. It may sound a bit unorganized or lacking in routine but it’s the best I can manage. So far it has worked well. I’ve gained a little over and 1.25” ELBP in 8 months.

I did however talk to my wife once about PE when I first started and to say the least she freaked out. She thought it couldn’t be done and that it was some sick form of “whacking off”. So I decided to advoid the grief and do my PE in stealth. My gains have already made noticabe differences in our sex lives. I don’t think she honestly realizes what’s going on just yet. But once I hit my goal of a 2” gain, I’ll bring up the PE topic with her again and the proof that it can be done! For me this is huge motivation, when some one tells me that it can’t be done I’m one to try to prove them wrong.

Good luck :)

Hey Beretta92
My wife and son found my hanger one day. I told them that a freind of mine was trying to invent a new clamping system for plumbing pipes and he wanted me to look at it. They bought it with no questions asked! LOL! If they only knew.

I didn’t try hiding PE from my wife. The resaon is I unfortunately have Peyronies, which causes a bend in the penis and usually causes it to shrink. My wife knew my dick was getting smaller and actually encouraged me to “work out”. I lost about an inch of erect length but gained it back in about a year with jelqing and stretching. I have began hanging with the Bib hanger now to try for more length, but I just close the door and tell her I’m hanging. She has been very supportive even though she says size doesn’t matter as long as my tongue keeps working!

I would rarely get to hang if I was still trying to hide it from my wife. She’ll fetch me something to drink and re-zap the rice bag too!

I do wear a robe though just so she can’t stare at it.

I have told my g/f about it too she doesn’t live with me but we are looking at getting married during a years time. She said that she is happy with what i’ve already got but she also realizes that our (us guys) member is a big part of our (a mans) life :) so she doesn’t mind me doing it. Even though i’ve never done it with her there yet. My only problem is I really need to have my head checked not penis I mean mental head. Because we can be driving down the road she’ll start rubbing my balls & member and then i’ll start getting excited i mean full erect (then again there are times when that didn’t do anything) then we get ready for some action and my member becomes a lazy ass &/or I lose the thoughts of getting it on that I can’t do anything. It becomes so frustrating I just wish my dick was computer controlled and I could push a button for full errection. Oh well just me sobbing about having a case of the i know my dick can get hard I just have a problem getting it to stay that way sometimes. ;( Any ideas of what I can do??

Thanks guys

I assume you are referring to PE ;)

Trust me, you are not alone. This is a much more common occurence than people are led to believe. And it happens to teenagers, guys in their 20’s, 30’s,40’s ….etc. Although it has not happened to me, I know of people who have overcome the problem going to the doc. Sometimes viagra was the solution, other times they were referred to a specialist etc. The first step is to realise that it is normal and seek help, because it can really fuck you up over time. My wife went out with a guy for 4 years before meeting me, and he had the same problem. Got as hard as rock and just when he went to penetrate went as soft as jelly.

My wife really loved him, but she said that, with time, he became more physcologically affected, and she left him - guess she missed sex. He is a nice bloke, but to this day he hasn’t had another g/f. His loss, my gain. Although, I sometimes wonder if he would take her back…..;)

This might be due to your PE.

There are several threads regarding PE and its effect on sexual activity. If memory serves, jelquing in particular can inhibit erections on a temporary basis.

If this is what’s affecting you, it will subside once the jelquing is stopped. I’m no expert though, just my 0.02.

well i know that can’t be the problem because i spend all most all of my time talking to her online or with her or hanging out with friend i really havn’t got to do any jelqs at all :( but I know the techniq and have done it for about a week before I meet my g/f. And the part that bothered me when i did it was that i usually had to watch porn to get arroused which is just hideous because i was a very bad porn addict hell i lived for porn. So i disconnected myself from it and self pleasure and that did help when i was with my girlfriend. But about a week ago my eyes ventured onto some porn (i was alone of course) and when henry needs his fun well this time i gave it to him and maybe me doing that had something to do with it. I really don’t know just yet. Needless to say i’m gona try to do stuff with my g/f where we both keep our clothes on and then wait about a week or two and then try it again. All things that is. That way i should be able to snap to attention and keep my attention span but if not damn it then thats it i’m going doctor and getting the ole boy looked at. Too bad I can’t find one of those people to put me under hypnosis (however thats spelled) and make them say stuff like every time your with your girlfriend you will become errect and hard 100% 24/7 until away from her. and if that worked the next time i saw my g/f i would simply yes OH YEAH BABY YEAH!!!! Dreams are so easy to have… ;( Thanks for the help what kind of doc do you all recommend that i go see ?? a ureologist or a phsyco xpert person???

Thanks

I have to agree with GOODWOOD. I have found that I look forward to when I have the house to myself. I bust out the hanger and hanger for 20 mins. It might not be a strict routine, but I have noticed my increases over the past couple months.