Yes, I’m there too. I try to pump whenever I know I’m going to have sex, and I use my cock ring to keep the pump on (another vicious circle). It sure feels great though.
The sex is amazing after a good pump.
And I am concerned about getting addicted.
However, a few times I didn’t pump, and didn’t even have my ring on, because I wasn’t planning to have sex, and surprisingly, I still had a great time! In fact, probably the best sex I had lately, and the most intense orgasm I gave my partner, was when I was without my ring and with no pump.
So.. why? I think there’s at least a couple of reasons: First, you can compensate on the somehow smaller size by deeper penetrations and other stuff. Second, I find that when I am pumped and with the ring on I get very focused on my size and how every inch feels, which is great, but when I’m without them I can be much more fluent and wild and I guess sometimes it’s better that just size.
I had something similar with the girl I went out with when I first started PEing. We used to have great sex, then I started PE and I had real good gains in the first couple of months. Surprisingly, the added volume did not necessarily improve our sex life. Yes, it did feel better with more girth, but again, I got to concentrate too much on the friction and somehow neglect other areas. One day she told me that she felt I was much wilder and inside the experience when we first started dating, and that now something has changed. That made me realize that a bigger dick is great for sex but it’s not the only thing, and it can even become an obstacle if you get too focused on it.
Come away, O human child! To the waters and the wild With a faery, hand in hand, For the world's more full of weeping Than you can understand.
