Looking for some advice

Need advice from experienced members.

PE history goes back about 3 years. First stretching then a little pumping but switched to hanging. That was a while ago, couple years maybe.
Hung for a while and between that and the stretching made some good length gains.

Started pumping regularly maybe 5-6 months ago.

I was always going into the tube flaccid. Got a good stretch and good expansion, though nothing permanent.
Recently been reading here and I guess you’re supposed to go in erect.

My issue is I have some ED, so sometimes tough to get hard. I do have, and take trimix when im going to pound the wife, so for the past few days ive been taking a half shot to get me hard and then pump.

I was packing the tube when I went in soft and im still packing the tube but its about 3/4” shorter than before, I guess because it cant elongate as much as when its flaccid.

My question is, do you think it will start to stretch out so I can make some length gains? Also want to gain girth, but want to keep the length going.
Any advice welcome.
Thanks

What are your current stats? Also, if you have a positive sex life with your wife, her desires are of consideration. What might they be?

Current 7.5 x 5.25 ish.
Its not up to her but she seems to like it bigger, especially after pumping I have been up to 6” girth for a little while but mostly around 5.5 to 5.75.

So, basically trying to get my bpel to meet and then exceed my bpfsl.
As I’m packing the tube now while the length start creeping up?

Looking to hear what normally happens.

No one can help?