Hanging out after work

I hung for a total of 169 hours over the course of 172 days. Life got in the way and I stopped once again. During this last time I was able to gain back anything I had previously lost, as well as an additional 1/8” in length. I’ve decided to focus on girth only at this point. I purchased a leluv pump set up in December ‘21 and experimented with it on and off. Earlier this month I grabbed some cable clamps and have since been more regimented. My routine for now looks like this:

2 days on 1 day off

15 min pump
3x10 clamp
15 min pump
12 min jelq at 80%

I have experienced max expansion girth of 5.25”, while the average clamped expansion girth is 4.9-5”. I’m coming into this anxiously which has made EQ problematic at times. I know PE is a long game and I’m working through the anxiety so I can be able to take my time and be patient with the process. Realistically, if I cemented girth at 5”, it would be a gain of .5”, and I know clamped and pumped expansion would push me beyond that. Sexually, something like a quick session and a cock ring would suffice to maintain temporary expanded girth. To hit and cement at 5.5” mseg would be a gain of 1” which seems to be very rare so I’m setting my expectations lower and trying not to measure so frequently and rush the process.

I’d just like to feel better about myself and this seems to be a way to make positive change. In the past, any girl I was with who wanted to hurt me knew to say I had a small dick. I’d heard it from maybe 5 sexual partners/ girlfriends as the first thing they’d say when an argument escalated enough. I’ve also had my last ex be a complete size queen and proud of it. Its been kind of damaging to be made to feel like I physically can’t please a woman as much as someone with more girth. She made it clear that she could cum from penetration alone with a thicker dick. She also has the biggest (most elastic, accommodating?) vagina of any woman I’d been with. I remember getting a huge toy at the sex shop with her back in the day- she said she’d been with just as big. Sure enough when we went in the shower to use it, she took the whole thing with ease. Obviously this is all unhealthy and I’m working through it with a therapist as well as going to the gym to get in better overall shape.

I’ve been using a set routine since 4/4/22 and will continue to push ahead.

4/30: off

5/1: 10 min rice sock warm up, then straight into 3x10 clamping. Tried to keep it to one clamp but used a second one halfway through the last set. Took a 5 hour break, then came home, warmed up again and pumped for 2 sets of 15, followed by 12 min jelq. Expansion looked really good, felt like I got more out of each exercise with the long break in between.

Anxiety is lessening for now as well. Off days are nice for recovery, the first day back I always have strong EQ, the second day I’m more fatigued. Didn’t whip the tape out today, I’m trying to wait until 6/1.

Was a great week for EQ! I stopped using two clamps at a time, switched to just one. I reduced the pumping sets and now I clamp first, then pump, then jelq to finish the session. EQ was through the roof all week with my dick being put under less stress. I took the last two days off, then today I clamped 4x10 in the morning and pumped 3x20 in the evening, followed by 12 min jelqs. It’s the biggest I’ve ever seen my penis. I resisted the urge to grab the tape as it tends to create more anxiety and I think PE is best done with a calm mind. Weight loss has been going steady too, I’ve made it to the gym every weekday the last two weeks, and have dropped around 15lb. Hoping to stay on this positive track.

I don’t know where to post this but I feel it’s been my single most significant experience involving PE. This week I was able to live on both sides of the penis size issue, with the same woman, without her knowing what was going on. It’s been a lot to process, but all positive. Here’s what happened and my thoughts on everything.

My erect girth is 4.5”, or at least it was before I started doing girth work. With 2 cock rings on, on an average day my girth hovers between 4.75 and 5” now. I’ve been doing girth work since April of this year. After a full pumping session with viagra (3x20 min at 7hg) I am now 95% packing my 1.75” tube. With two cock rings or a clamp on after my session, I’ve hit 5.5” mseg. There is obviously some edema in that state, but nothing crazy that the average woman would think twice about if she encountered it.

I’ve finally got back into good shape and dating with some success. Recently I met a girl I hit it off with and we had sex. I hadn’t done any PE that day and hadn’t brought along any cock rings, so I was working with my normal dick. The sex was great. We hung out for another week and had sex marathons every night, 2-4 hours long. Never for a single moment did she not seem satisfied with the size of my dick or what I was doing with it. But the idea of pumping before sex wouldn’t leave my mind.

I had to be stealthy about it so she wouldn’t sense anything was up. I got in 2x20 min sessions before our date, figuring I’d only need another 20ish right before sex to reach max size. After we got back from dinner I told her I needed to make a phone call, I left to my car, took a 25mg generic viagra and pumped for 25 minutes until I packed the tube. I put on my 2 cock rings and went inside where she was waiting for me. It was the biggest I’ve ever seen my dick, but without measuring it I’d say 5.3-5.5” mseg x 7.5” BPEL. When she looked down to blow me she was visibly confused. I asked her if it looked bigger and she said “omg yes what is going on?”. I tried to make up some simple excuse to keep things moving. I told her to see how deep she could throat it. She made it half way down my shaft and couldn’t go any further, she looked up at me seemingly very confused and surprised. For once in my life, my dick didn’t seem so insignificant while getting swallowed whole with ease. I was so turned on at this point and it made me even harder.

It’s important to note that her reaction wasn’t over the top horniness, or lustful, or anything different than usual. She wasn’t taken by the size of my dick in a way that put her into some animalistic trance. The only difference was the confusion. Slowly she became more immersed in what we were doing and I went to put a condom on. It was extremely tight and definitely took away some girth but nothing major. She got on top of me and slid down on it slowly. She quivered a bit the deeper it went. I could tell she needed to get used to the new size. We had sex and she didn’t cum from penetration. She didn’t do anything different than usual. Her initial moans were a little more primal but that was it.

Afterwards she wouldn’t stop asking what I had done- on account of how confused she was by the visual difference and the fact that I was gone for 25 min right before we fucked. I eventually told her I’d used a pump, and she laughed and said “I hope you know, you have always felt like more than enough. You don’t need to do that, I love the sex we have.” And I knew she was telling the truth- the sexual experiences were not night and day, despite the differences in my size. I did let go of a lot of performance anxiety when she couldn’t deepthroat even half my dick, and I did fuck her more confidently but It was the same vibe. I don’t think things would have changed if my girth was 6”.

There are a lot of variables to unpack here, the clumsiness of what I did, how transparent it was that something was done to enhance the size of my dick (she noticed the size difference immediately), the fact that I wasn’t used to having sex at that size. But I can confidently say that with this woman (8 years younger than me, very hot/ sexually experienced), the size of my penis didn’t matter. She has never cum from penetration alone, only clitoral stimulation- as has been the case for 90% of women I’ve talked to, both close friends and fwbs/ gfs. I imagine she has taken dicks bigger than mine was even while pumped.

Here’s what was important to me- How would the same woman react to my cock at two very different sizes? I actually got a lot of peace of mind out of this experience.

After the conversation we fucked for another few hours, and a solid hour when we woke up. My dick had long since deflated back down to its normal size and our chemistry couldn’t have been better. She didn’t care about the pump- I owned that and wasn’t embarrassed. She even said she always thought my dick was big/ nice and perfect for her at breakfast the next day. I’ve dated so many broken whores who tell me I have a small dick as soon as we have a serious argument. The sexual experiences with this new chick have almost been therapeutic. For some women, size is not relevant to the sexual experience. I’m not going to stop pumping/ clamping, for the same reason I’m not going to stop going to the gym. There is an intense personal satisfaction that comes with making progress in any area of your life. PE is one of those areas that has helped make me feel a lot better about myself.

I finally had a chance to feel what sex was like from the point of view of having a big dick, and with this woman in particular, it was no different. I hope that for anyone going about PE anxiously, this may help to calm your thoughts. It is possible to find young hot experienced women who will fuck you and your average dick for hours on end. I’d say that PE in tandem with the results from the gym have definitely given me confidence in pursuing woman I otherwise wouldn’t have 3 months ago. Seeing a sex therapist has been huge too, I’m looking forward to unpacking this with her next week haha.

that’s pretty cool

I’m not sure what my permanent gains are so far, but tonight after my 3x20 pumping session, I had my cock rings on and clamped an ok grip at the base of my penis, kegeled and measured just shy of 6” mseg. Without the ok grip I was at 5.5”. It felt relatively insane to see my dick at that size. My routine was pretty heavy for 6 weeks or so- pump, clamp, jelq. Then when it became too time consuming I switched to 3x20 pumping and that seems to be the sweet spot for now. I do this 4-5 days a week. I’m going to incorporate clamping back into the routine next month. I struggled to get consistent expansion or maintain a solid erection with extended set clamping. I think there is more of a learning curve there that I need to address with more reps.