PE vs Penuma

Hey, so.. I have a small dick. I have been always aware of it and when everyone was telling me it’s just perception from porn I decided to measure. I was 6 inch in length and only 4.1 in girth.. That girth is killing me. All my sexual encounters felt.meh.first I thought I just didn’t like sex but then when talking to my friends I realized I just couldn’t feel the pressure, that feeling when you stretch her out.. Everytime I had a foreplay she was already so loose that I felt like entering a Washington Capital Hallway..

I found PE an started doing jelqing and stretching, although I was really skeptical.. And to my surprise I managed to get from 6 inch in length to 6.7 inch in length and when I’m fully erect I feel confident with my length.. However I wasn’t able to gain where I need it the most. Temporal gains of maybe 0.2 inches which doesn’t even make me average.. I am just desperate. I believe you can gain girth too, but I am not sure whether I am willing to dedicate 5 years or more of my life to get the girth I want. Especially because I found out about penuma. The thing is.. With my skinny dick and bad experience I would like to be 5.5 inch in girth. That makes you big, ideal when it comes to penis. And gaining 1.4 inch with PEing is practically impossible, it would have to be a miracle or I’d have to dedicate 10 years of my life to it. I haven’t had sex for 2 years because I am so ashamed of my dick.. I can’t wait 10 more..

Penuma can give you 1.5 inch in girth, even more but I am scared of having something placed in my dick, especially after reading about penuma on reddit and patients’ stories when it went wrong. Dickie is the last thing you want to have problems with and so.. I can’t decide.. I know one thing.. I don’t want to stay 19 percentile when it comes to girth, it makes me feel like shit, it makes me afraid of intimacy with women, it makes me constantly think about how every guy she had was bigger than me.. But I am not sure whether it is worth risking penuma, or whether I should just dedicate more time and effort to PEing.

You’re in tough spot, I get that. We’re all here for allot of the same reasons, founded or not.

What’s worse?
Spending another 5 years for the girth you want, or spending the rest of your life wishing?

Accepting yourself and being an animal in bed, in the meantime, with or without your dick is separate issue.

You have no reason not to have sex. Finding a good woman and sharing the experience together is way more fulfilling than being selfish and hurting her because you have a monster cock. Two-way sex is much better, regardless of how you’re armed. Doing it “with her” will mean way more “to her” than extra girth will.

If you do PE and you get bigger, that’s fucking awesome! I’ll be happy for you. Everybody here will be too. A real woman, that you connect with, will appreciate you regardless.

The thing is.. I wouldn’t do that to any woman.. That would actually make me feel more selfish, if I made someone fall in love with me and then let her live with my skinny dick. And all those insecurities only make me cum faster than I used to when I wasn’t aware of how much below average I am (0.5 inch is a lot). Maybe I need a therapy, who knows.. But I want my girlfriend to be happy and never felt like women I have been with have been happy with me.. It never felt like sausage thrown into a basement but at the same time it always felt meh.. When I don’t have a strong erection I could barely feel it and I doubt I had a size queen as most of them were virgin when we started dating (just had “luck” for virgins)

Very well put 114!!!

Well said, my son.

Schmendrick, do you have a lot to lose continuing with PE to see what results you may have, beyond investing some time? People seem to use various methods; jelqs, pumping, clamping, even hanging or extending seems to have an effect on girth for some. Maybe one will work well for you, maybe it won’t. In the meantime, there’s plenty more to enjoy about sex beyond stretching a woman inside out, so you shouldn’t deny yourself other aspects of sex. If a woman’s into you she’ll enjoy it.

Clamping and pumping, while advanced techniques that have their pitfalls are a much better alternative than putting things in your cock. While you can get bruise or diminish your EQ with these exercises, these are temporary side effects. Many members will attest to their effectiveness.

Go down to the sex shop and pick up a good cock ring. The right ring will give you an immediate girth and confidence boost.

If your just looking for girth, maybe try out a cheap pump. While you will have to order the proper size to work on length, a cheap sex shop pump will get you started and give you an idea of the potential. Make sure you get a gauge.

Pumping and clamping can be fun, recovering from a surgery, or living with the life long effects of a botched one is not…

I have tried pumping for a couple of months and it is fun, I like it but no temporary gains.. And when it comes to clamping.. My dick either gets cold pretty fast or my veins just pop up like hell.. I never get the expansion like I get with horse squeezes or pumping.. Only veins.it’s frustrating.

You have to trust the process. Yeah temp gains during the exercises are great, but its permanent gains you’re looking for. To be honest i think you should really just try a pump/clamp routine for 3-6 months and see what it gets you. You have to remember that the tunica is very tough and it won’t break down over night to allow permanent gains.

I was close to your starting girth when i started. Yes it took me 10 years to get to where I’m at now but at least half of that was not actively doing pe. Most of my girth actually came from the last couple years.

Surgery is not the course you want to take man. A below average dick is much better than one that doesn’t work.

Also with the right girl your size really won’t matter that much. They really don’t care as much as you think they do. Its more about the overall experience for them. Focus less on the act of intercourse and get good at forplay and the entire act as a whole. To be honest growing your dick while with a partner is also a lot of fun. Just my 2 cents.

Also to add to my last post. I like to clamp under an ir light. Seems to help keep things warm and allow better expansion. Same with pumping. Heat helps. Just don’t use too much.

Do you know any doctors that have experience with that procedure?

Is it made out of metal? Plastic?

I feel for you man. I will second what others have said: a guy with a large girth, but erectile dysfunction, is going to be way more unhappy than a guy with a thin, but working, penis.

Definitely give pumping another try. Two months isn’t very long to see results.