Q&A from Duncan1s wife

I would like to set in and take any questions about the PE road that my husband and I have been enjoying for the past 3 years, or any other questions that you would like to ask a woman about PE or anything in general. Only boundaries I have are don’t ask if we can meet up and have a threesome or something.. Lets kick this off!

Cool thread, thanks JBird. I’ll jump in.

Was there a time in the beginning when Duncan was experimenting with PE and you didn’t know about it? If so, thinking back now, did you notice anything different?

What benefits has Duncan’s PE brought to the relationship, if any?

Hi LittleEngine, thanks for the questions! Right from the beginning of his PE journey he was open about doing it - at first I told him that he didn’t need to do it because he was perfect the way he was, but he told me that it would boost his confidence and he wanted to see what PE could do for him. I was supportive from that point on. I’d say that his confidence has increased dramatically with the process and I know he’s more confident in bed. We have 3 kiddos and have been married for 15 years and I think our sex life now is better than when we were first married and before we had kids! I’ve been able to notice his size and length increase so it’s been super fun for me as well as him- almost like getting a totally different penis! I had a vaginal reconstructive surgery to fix my perineum after our 3rd child was about 2 years old, and that also added to the enjoyment.

Thanks for being so candid. Duncan is lucky to have such a supportive wife.

Lol, married 15 years, two kids and wife said the same thing when I started PE. Like you guys, kids have never gotten in the way of sex, we make the time and fuck just as much now, if not more. PE has also brought some humor to our relationship too, there is a comedy to a guy tugging on, and vacuuming his penis every day.

Us horny old married couples are evidence that saying I do is just the beginning!

Your guys enjoy the weekend, we were able unload our kids tonight:-)

My wife has always told me my size is “fine”. But I started PE 3 & a half years ago, because I wanted/want be bigger. So far I’ve gained.75” in BPEL and .375” in MEG. I also wear a cock ring during sex, that brings my MEG up to .5”-.625” gain in MEG since I started. Which I would think she could definitely tell a difference.She has not once mentioned it feels bigger. Do you think she can feel a difference and just doesn’t tell me?

Also about 6 months ago, she walked in on me while I was pumping in the bathroom. I unfortunately do my PEing stealthy, because I’m almost positive she would think I’m crazy and wasting my time. When she realized what I was doing she just shook her head, said Lordy and walked out the door. She has never said a word about it. What do you think she was thinking?

Thanks for joining us here at Thunders! It will be nice to have a female perspective here.

Hello!

How much has he gained and what is his stats.

Do you like his cock better now or you can’t really feel a differenc? Have you dated guys that’s been really big and if you did, how was that for you.

Lol - “old married couples” Made me laugh out loud - we make fun of each other all the time for our inability to do some things we used to! But not done yet having good times! My husband and I also share some good laughs about his PE and having to maneuver around schedules with kiddos and such! Hope you and your wife enjoy your date night!!

Hi JBird,

Do you pump? Do you do anything to help enhance your libido? Any sex goals? Thanks in advance ☺️

Hi Lookinforgirth! Thanks for the questions! As far as wondering if she can feel a difference - I would encourage you to ask her. She may find it weird, but between my husband and I we ask each other and share any and everything and feel like it helps with communicating each other’s needs. I also enjoy being apart of his PE journey and feel since it’s made our sex life better, us talking about it makes it seem less taboo. I would gather to think if your wife hasn’t mentioned the bathroom pumping deal, maybe she’s waiting for you to bring it up? You of course do whatever you’re comfortable doing, however, I would strongly encourage you to talk to her about it and share your goals and why you’re doing PE. You never know, she may start posting on here just like me ;)

Hi Patrik! My husband is Duncan1 on here- you’re welcome to take a look at his profile! I think he started at 6 something and now he’s almost 8”
I have definitely felt the change in his size! When we have sex now, I have to position so that he can’t go all the way, as it’s too uncomfortable when he “bottoms out”
I would say it’s not that I like his size better now, as I thought he was great before, but it’s made sex more enjoyable for us since we do other stuff and I would say since I enjoy giving him head, it makes it more of a challenge to finish him that way which makes giving him oral more fun? If that makes sense lol
As for my previous experiences- my husband is by far larger than anyone I had been with prior. When I was dating in high school I was with the same guy for 4 years and I didn’t know about the different penis sizes really- and even after high school, the few guys I briefly dated didn’t have large penises, but I didn’t really know about the size range until Duncan told me about the average penis size and the scale that exists. I just honestly didn’t give it too much thought lol

Hi BigFinisher, my hubby did buy me a clit suction deal and I occasionally use it prior to our sexcapades to increase blood flow to that area - it definitely helps me become more primed and makes it easier to climax. I work out and that helps me feel sexier and increases my libido! My sex goals with my hubby are to be having sex well into our 90’s (over 50 years from now lol) or as long as possible. With having young kids right now, it’s very important to me to keep our sex life high on the priority list to make our marriage strong and fun!

Thanks JBird85,

I love your sexlife goal. ❤️ I asked the wife about pumping and Mrs. Finisher was game. So for Valentine’s Day she has a clip and vulva cup. Can’t wait to send her to heaven and back. Good luck on your goals! Take care of you Big Man on Valentine’s he tortured himself for years to bring you ultimate pleasure😁😉

BigFinisher, that’s awesome your wife is on board!! It helps having everyone on the same page for sexual endeavors! I bet she’s gonna enjoy your gifts - my hubby also got me a hitachi magic wand from ebay and it’s by far my favorite toy - it helped my orgasms immensely, to the point I masterbate almost daily now!! If I would have found one in my younger years I might not have ever dated-lol!! I will be sure to make his Valentine’s one to remember ;) You and Mrs Finisher enjoy your time with pleasuring each other!