Let's weed out the idiot, newbies!

We all love newbies. We hate idiot newbies. Don’t be an idiot, newbie! This thread is actually to protect the idiots and maybe make them good newbies before they even start.

Name some things we need to say to weed out the ones that will hurt themselves.

- Ask yourself, if you invest 2 years of your time and you gain nothing but strong EQ or up to 1/16 of an inch would you do it? If you answer NO, PE is not for you. You can have an objective to reach 1/2+ inches but when you push that hard with that mentality, you will hurt yourself.

- You must be on Thundersplace reading threads for at least 100 hrs before you start a newbie routine and or post anything.

- Will you do more than just PE? If you answer NO, PE is not for you. You must have other objectives, working out for some level of fitness, education, money, hobby etc. You are going down a path of discipline. PE has to be done in parallel with another project that is not a short-term project.

- You never question the time it takes to do something if you are thinking about it half-ass or if you will reach X objective by doing the minimum because of time. You would never tell a bodybuilder you have X objective but you only have time to do a little, they would look at you like a dumb ass, that is how newbies asking those questions are treated here. The same as any discipline. Going all in does not mean forcing yourself to any extreme. That also does not mean we don’t want you to start extremely slow, it just means you can’t do this occasionally or with time on your mind because that is not a part of PE.

- This is not an extreme sport, this is a marathon at a walking pace. Never a run or sprint but occasionally a power walk can be useful for *some, maybe even that is not for you.

- You must trust the process

- Always trust the vets when they say don’t do X more than X, they have burned themselves already and are telling you to not touch the flame on the fire. LISTEN.

A few to start:

The three pieces of advice I think are best for new PE’rs:

1. While it’s great to want to increase the size or potency of your erections, please don’t think it will solve any sense of self-deficiency. Yes, it can be a confidence boost to have a larger penis, but it is a small benefit compared to all the other self-improvement opportunities and plain self-acceptance that are more important to a happy life and becoming attractive to others. Besides, if you are the kind of person who goes from self-hating to self-loving just because of a bit of penis size increase, it might not be the kind of self-appreciation that ages well.

2. Try to take the intensity of your enthusiasm and eagerness to gain and shape it into a long-view and long-term commitment. Most guys won’t have rapid gains, but almost everyone has slow and steady gains once they are educated and a little experienced. So instead of trying to sprint there because some guy on the internet gained 2 inches in 6 months (so it is possible!!!) just settle into PE as a lifestyle, like eating right or exercising. Sure, you can have short term goals, like trying to get in shape for that beach vacation, but the best approach is one where the journey doesn’t have an end and you find ways to enjoy the path along the way.

3. Don’t wait to have the perfect sized penis to get out there and live your life. Just get out there!

Little harsh with the idiot statement. There are very few people now in this world this world that understand discipline and perseverance. We are a culture of I want it now and mostly everthing is attainable now. Ever since humanity knowledge is gained. As we age with this knowledge we have a privilege to pass it down and that is wisdom! 😁 But I totally agree with both you guys! Trust the veterans, do your research, be your own n+1 experiment. Just do the work it pays dividends.

+ 1 Td as always, you say things better than I could ever

+ 1 Big, I know it’s a bit harsh the idiot statement, it’s just tough to balance being nice and making someone listen. I love what you say, "understand discipline and perseverance" I’m kinda tired of a newbie saying, I know I should not have but I did it anyways, those stories have to leave this forum.