Loss of EQ, Hard Flaccid, Soreness

Which meds?

I got some Sidenefil(viagra) and some tadalafil(cialis). The price really wasn’t too bad considering how much I got. From what I read, everyone really likes the cialis.

I wish to take it to promote night and morning wood along with using it for sex.

Don’t you fear becoming dependant upon it ?

My biggest fear though is that they will not work, or will only work for a short period and then not continue working.

As of now there is no way I can get an acceptable erection for sex, even though I have a female basically begging for sex from me. The only thing I want to do lose my virginity at this point by any means. I have been like this for 1.5 years now, I hate to say this, but I doubt this will be able to heal itself.

Have either of you seen a urologist or gotten second or third opinions? Honestly, I would never have a problem that long without seeing the best specialists in the world - I wouldn’t accept anything less. There has to be something wrong, obviously, and you need to find out what it is and if there are any known things you can do. This idea of playing around and self medicating after having an issue this long is unnecessary. Get some help.

I would love too, but I am 19 with no insurance and I live in the United States.

Unfortunatly a Uroligist is out of the question, and as far as I’ve seen everyone of us with this condition that has seen a uro has had no help.

There is something wrong that needs attention. I’m concerned that you aren’t finding help after waiting this long. You’re only 19 years old… Rack up some medical bills and figure it all out later. Get help from the state, etc. Whatever you need to do to get this addressed I really think is best. If you’re resourceful enough, you can get help.

And I seriously hope you’re not continuing PE after this injury.

I think you’re right. I start thinking about it and hopefully will find a way to take action.

Solid advice.

The firm flaccid started again last night… I wonder how it will heal this time and if I will always have to live in fear of getting it.

I have not done ANY PE since the injury, just sex. The past few days I have been feeling a groin tinge on the left side of my penis and scrotal area. This is where I have a visible vein injury from the initial injury. It has lessened in appearance but is still there. I inspected this tinge thoroughly last night, checking underneath my scrotum and the perineal area. Doing this aggravated the injury somehow, which is quite strange because sex was not enough to aggravate it. This makes me think something with the pudendal nerve is unhappy; however, the symptoms that go along with damage to the pudendal nerve are far worse than what I’ve experienced. I can urinate and defecate without any pain and ejaculating after the initial injury had absolutely no pain associated with it. If it is indeed unhappy, it doesn’t appear that it’s a severe case in comparison to other reports.

Ultimately, I have a firm flaccid that is not as firm or as severe as before when I had the initial injury. Also, there is no soreness or anything else like last time. It’s just that I have this semi-firm feeling flaccid penis and no ability to get erect (well, I can get 50%, but that doesn’t count). I’m pretty sure things will go in a similar fashion as before where it heals up enough for activity. However, I am not going to abstain from getting a professional opinion. If there is anything that I can reasonably do to address this and minimize the future occurrence, I am willing to look into it.

I will keep all posted. If any of you have any helpful advice or have had similar issues, please chime in and let me know.

BTW, my flaccid size has returned to normal and is not larger than the pre-injury size anymore. This changed about a week ago. I didn’t care much, however, as I was just happy to have functionality back.

I have made an appointment to be at the urologist tomorrow to get a professional opinion. Hopefully this thing can be relieved with just a little bit of time and rest.

For now I am using the rice sock constantly like I did before.

My firm flaccid has let go already even after not applying heat for over an hour now. This is a much faster recovery to this point than last time.

Erection has not been tested.

Keep us posted please.

Update: I haven’t had any penis issues since shortly after the last post. Sex is completely normal and I can do anything I want without any limitation - it is as if an injury never occurred. I have stayed away from P.E. and most likely will forever. I had some indescribable testicles issues for months and months that finally stopped being an issue about two months ago. I think that was dues to a slow healing back injury, however.

Update: Still haven’t done any PE and have no injuries. I’m happy with that.