Skin Tear Problem

I have a problem I was hoping someone here has already gone through or can inform me about.

A while back I was having sex with my girlfriend (at the time) and I guess it got too rough. I ended up developing a tear right below the head of my penis, at the top of the shaft. It is extremely small in width, almost like a wrinkle, but is about two inches in length. A small amount of blood seeps from it and it basically is just uncomfortable for a while.

I put some Neosporin on it and took some time off from sex, masturbation, basically anything that would mess with that area. It seemed to heal up pretty well. Then later on it happened again while I was receiving oral sex. So, I did the only thing I could think of, which was put some Neosporin on it again and take an even longer amount of time of.

Well, it has been several months since the problem first occurred. I have not been dating for quite some time. I went a long time without doing anything to that area. Well, now even if I masturbate, I have to be real careful. If I’m with a girl, I have to ask them to be real gentle. And I can’t even think about jelqing, or doing any of these other exercises because I’m afraid of reopening that tear.

Is there anything I can do that will allow me to go back to using my penis like I used to? I could be extremely gentle with it for the rest of my life, or do nothing with it for a year I suppose. But I’m wondering if there are any products out there I can use or techniques I can do to strengthen that skin area?

Any help would be appreciated. I know this is not directly related to PE, but I would like to start many of these exercises and feel that I cannot with the current problems I have. Thanks!

the only thing i can think of is a product i saw used to remove scars, it was fairly expensive and was essentially a series of plasters to be applied to affected area and some sort of chemical accelerated any healing process. never tried it, just something i saw.

SJA

Can you give me any idea as to the name of the product, where you saw it, or anything else to go on?

what about something like a crazy glue. I “heard” it is used for when people sever or slice rreal deep around a nerve on some shit. Either that or some stitches. I just throwing the idea out there and am no meansd a medical knowlegable person.

Any other ideas?

This should be healed by now unless you are doing something to keep it open. Since it is not other things come to mind:

poor healing ability due to some illness as yet unknown to you, such as diabetes, etc. bottom line is you need to get this thing checked out by a Dr in person.

I figure there has to be some over-the-counter skin products that help with stuff like this. I just don’t know anything about them. I’ve been doing research on it and asking the users here was part of that.

I’m still very open to suggestions and other help if anyone has any. I was hoping I could avoid the whole flaunting my penis to the Dermatologist thing.

sam, i cant remember the name unfortunately, i saw it in “boots” chemist near where i live, i live in england so i dont know whether you will have a “boots”, it was near the plasters and stuff. just go into a pharmacy/chemist and ask if they have anything to help heal scars, or look around where the plasters are and read some of the products, next time i get a chance il try to find the name.

SJA

Ah, that’s a great idea! I will go ask the pharmacist if they have anything that heals scars. I appreciate your help. I’m gonna head out and do that right now.

I agree with luvdadus (who is a doctor, BTW). You may have an underlying illness or vitamin/mineral/other deficiency. With the rest periods you have taken, it should have healed up fine and no longer be an issue. You should see a doctor.

Have you noticed delayed healing of other minor injuries? How is your diet?

I got some ointment called Mederma. It softens the skin around scars, removing any visible lines. I’m going to give that a try for several weeks. If I don’t see any improvements, I’m gonna head to a dermatologist.

By the way, I titled this thread Skin Tear Problem. Then I looked online do a search on “skin tears”. I realize I do not have a skin tear by any means, they are much worse. What I have is basically a scratch that won’t go away. Sorry for the confusion… bad wording.

Thanks for all the advice.

hope this heals you up nice, itd be a shame to build up a big dick then have to always tell girls to be gentle. good luck.

SJA