I developed this problem several years ago and it was caused by prostatitis.
In short prostatitis is no fun. This was long before I heard of PE. At the time I was riding my bike a lot (prostate pressure) and not getting much attention from my wife, nor was I taking care of myself by other means.
My prostate became inflamed and then actually infected, which led to swelling and pain. I experienced a total loss of EQ, nighttime erections, sex drive, spontaneous erections, etc. I felt like I’d been gelded. My penis seemed like a lifeless noodle.
I felt like I had to pee constantly. When I tried I rarely could. Seminal usually fluid leaked out when I attempted to pee. I could never tell when I was done peeing. I constantly dribbled in my pants.
Unfortunately, the prostate has almost no blood supply. So after the doc confirmed that my prostate, tubes, and vas were infected, by shoving his fingers in my butthole, He put me on the kind of hardcore antibiotics that vaporize your gut bacteria, give you horrible flatulence and liquid stool, make you gain weight, and your life a miserable hell. I ended up taking them for almost 3 months. (6 2-week cycles).
After realizing the first course of antibiotics had done nothing to improve things, I began reading about prostatitis online and started slipping into despair. Many people had experienced exactly what I did, and never recovered, even a little. It seemed that a common result was permanent dysfunction.
I searched further and deeper for any glimmer of hope and found some people who had improved, or cured their symptoms by prostate massage. In a nutshell this involved masturbation + milking the prostate, Since I couldn’t get an erection at first. I just started with the milking, which involved twisting yourself into a pretzel and hooking your fingers into your buttlhole to apply pressured strokes to the prostate. At the time, this redefined the word “pain” for me. But after my first attempt I was able to pee out huge globs of seminal fluid and the swelling, pressure, and pain were cut in half. By the second week, I was able to get erection, so the prescription involved masturbating close to the edge followed by about 5 minutes of milking through the butthole, then ejaculation. This was still quite painful, but alleviated my symptoms. I did this almost every day for about a month and eventually my prostate stopped swelling up again the next day. Even though I was still having urinary symptoms of prostatitis, urgency, burning pee, burning ejaculation, etc. Things were improved. I monitored my prostate for swelling and soreness, and kept taking the pills until all the symptoms were gone.
What is the moral of the story? Looking around the web, it is easy to see prostatitis related to a number of things such as nofap, edging, bicycles, etc.
You don’t want prostatitis. So Edge all you want, but make sure you ejaculate every 2nd or 3rd day, because the road to prostate perdition is lined with intense seminal pressure.