Originally Posted by train spot
I took 25-50mg sildenafil daily for 5-6 days in a row, no side effects to report, cialis as well, 10-20mg for 5-6 days in a row, no side effects to report.
I once took 200mg of sildenafil, the side effects where feelable that time, I only took it because I already had a previous ED episode with this girl, now it’s gone thankfully.
I only need 10mg of tadalafil/25mg of sildenafil for them to work well, but I guess I have serious ED issues. I mean, sheeeeesh, I’m 29, pumpedmember is 45, I haven’t seen morning/night wood in AGES, probably since puberty, I only wake up with A LITTLE hard-on when I constantly and succesfully do PE, girth and endurance work to be precise.
I mean, listen, I want to make myself clear with this: I’m 29y.o. and pumpedmember’s (who is 45y.o.) last post regarding his use of these ED drugs and his erections and sex life(brief introduction) make me feel insecure af.
Porn doesn’t seem to be the problem. Actually, I get rock hard and hornier than ever in periods when I do actually watch porn and masturbate watching it. I then can edge for longer periods of time without watching porn at all, but without that first glimpse, I probably wouldn’t feel so horny.
I was also in jail for 6 years in 2 consecutive sentences, I only spent 3 months outside in-between them. There was no porn there, rarely would I put my hands on a porn page from a magazine or something similar, but that was very rare. I wasn’t seeing morning wood even then, with no porn whatsoever. As soon as I got out though, started watching porn, my hard-ons were coming out of nowhere, even when walking on the street, I would feel horny from the previous porn watching and I could imagine myself performing porn things with girls on the street.
I like the feedback on this thread, maybe you guys can make me understand EQ better, because I really seem to have a hard time improving it…
Awwwww man I’m sorry I don’t want you or anyone to feel insecure given me and my story! I have intense morning wood, it wakes me up in the middle of the night sometimes, but I’ve always had it no matter my age or lifestyle that year (although when I was heavy into porn and had ED issues, I had less morning wood than probably anytime in my whole life). You CAN get hard though, that doesn’t sound like you have a problem there. It just sounds like what you are doing and watching when you get hard is part of the problem, but again, just maybe.
Porn might be the problem. If you can’t really get hard, don’t stay that hard for that long, and don’t feel horny enough to get hard unless you have seen or are watching porn, then porn helps you get hard and without it you have a hard time getting hard. Is that how you feel? That’s how I was earlier this year. I couldn’t stay hard for 3 seconds unless I had a screen on. I would stand at the TV in the bedroom, watch porn, get hard and I mean extremely hard, and then walk literally 7 steps into the bathroom to my pump at the sink and be jerking it all the way there and by the time I grabbed the pump, in about 5 seconds of time, I was maybe 50% hard, sometimes less. I would be rock hard watching porn, leave the room to cum somewhere else, and be holding a wet noodle. I’d go back to the screen and in seconds BAM totally hard again. There it was, the problem identified: porn! Since I’ve been off porn, my boner doesn’t go down even when I stop touching it, sometimes it stays rock solid a full 20 or 40 seconds when its completely ignored, and most of my adult life I haven’t been like that. I actually work out less now than I have in years, maybe 20 years, and my diet is not as good as I want it to be. My sleep isn’t even as good anymore. But I’m harder now and feel better about my cock and erections than I maybe ever have in at least 10 years.
I am sure that being in jail did not help with getting morning wood, or being in the mood for anything sexual. I’m sure the setting, your diet there, your exposure to sunlight or the outside world, all kinds of factors played a negative role in your normal bodily cycles (but I may be completely and totally wrong on this I don’t know your jail setting and am just thinking out loud here). I too was right there, about to see my doc for a script of erection aid, but I found the cause of my ED and it ended without meds. It sounds to me like you are fine physically and you get hard, just under certain conditions. It will take an unknown amount of time, but if you don’t watch porn when you are making yourself get hard, and keep trying to do it, you may find that you will have better EQ. It could be worth trying, especially under conditions you can control and the feeling of freedom (at least the feeling of not being in jail). I will say this: the first time I masturbated without porn or anything on, I was scared man. Really, really scared. I felt like “what if I can’t get hard on my own right now? What if I can’t get hard on my own, ever again, and need porn to get hard for the rest of my life?!?!?” I thought this while touching myself, yet, I got a wave of self determination, positive feeling, good energy and hope: “I can get hard, I used to do this all the time without porn, what the hell!? Let’s go!” And I got hard and was stroking it and then I lost sense of time. We’re ALWAYS aware of time when watching porn: how long is this scene, when is the cumshot, how long is the next scene I want to watch, how long will I last and can I make it to the next scene??? All alone in a quiet room, I felt like I was touching my hard on for like maybe 5 minutes. I looked at the time. Just 1 minute had passed. OMG. Then I feared I’d lose wood before I could cum. Man what a nightmare this all is to recount!!! I fucked a fleshlight right away and pumped out a good feeling orgasm. I jerked off for just 3 minutes. Normally with porn I was jerking off my boner for no less than 30 minutes and usually 45-60 minutes nonstop. It literally took me 2 months to work up to pleasuring myself without porn on for 10 minutes. Now I can masturbate for about 20 minutes if I really want to go at it, but I’m not sitting and not watching anything, its just all attention on me, my cock, my body, and the feelings.
Porno makes it all so easy. So so easy. And with that ease comes the need to rely on it. And in that reliance dwells the triggers for ED. That’s how it worked for me. Can’t lie about it. It was as plain as that; it is as plain and easy as that.
Sometimes health creates the need for ED medicines. But when brain makes ED, we need to help our brain. Since you have had issues for a while now, have you considered getting your testosterone checked? Who knows what your levels are, maybe something is going on that can provide you peace of mind. Or you start whittling down the perceived possible causes of your issues and if it still stays the same after you’ve addressed each issue look at what remains and think about fixing things you hadn’t thought of before. Dude I certainly miss porn, all the extremely hot women, the hips, the hair, beautiful eyes, squirting pussies, huge clits, I’ll never ever not think that stuff is hot and attractive to me. But I can’t look at it anymore. Sex with my wife is as important to her as it is to me now in our stage in our lives and I’d do anything to keep going for her and my needs wants and wishes.
Stay on here and look at the other threads on ED and porn and related topics, you’ll find a lot of info and personal stories that might help you figure this all out! Again, I hope I don’t make you feel insecure, I’m sorry if I am.