Style?

Almost every single piece of information about seduction and picking up/attracting women say that style is very important. It is what gets the girls to notice you. Which leads me to my problem.

What the hell is style? I have no fashion sense at all. I’m sure or at least hoping that I’m not the only guy with this problem. Also a cool hair cut is said to be needed and once again I got no idea what that is.

My wardrobe is almost entirely T-shirt and jeans and I haven’t bought clothes in about 6 months.

I know there are guys here who need help on this issue just like me and there are guys who can give help.

Just don’t walk around in a Winger T-shirt like Stewert did on beavis and Butthead. You are about average sized, so there is no way you cannot find cool clothes at a fair price or better.

Hair stytle is what ever works for you. I used to have a ceaser cut with my little evil latino drug dealer beard way before Gladiator came out. I then went to a deconstructed look of different lengths like Brad Pitt had in the first half of Fight Club. I also dye my hair real black to get the gray out now on occasion.

I usually run a real thing beard and mustache look for the drug dealer chic look. I would die waiting for the patches in my beard to fill to get a solid beard, so I use what I got.

The problem TT is that I don’t know what cool is. I can walk in a store and walk out 5 minutes later in disgust because I have no idea what to buy.

I still haven’t figured out what hair style works for me. Below is a picture of me. Even though it’s kind of hard to tell, my hair style is basically short enough so it sticks up with gel. I hadn’t even thought about facial hair.

BTW what’s with the drug dealer look?

>>I would die waiting for the patches in my beard to fill to get a solid beard, so I use what I got.<<

TT,

You referred to Beavis & Butthead: Have you seen the episode where they glue the hair they cut off their heads to their faces? THAT is the way to a killer beard.

Maxtro, do you have a pic of you wearing one of your outfits where we can see you in full view? (shoes, socks, everything)

Maxtro,

I’d say your hair is too long on top, if you’re going to be spiking it like that.

Nah, he could get away with spiking his hair like that if his bangs were longer so that his hair had a uniform look to it.

Aren’t the “bangs” the front of the top, the only part that looks long in that photo?? I don’t know much about hair.

Various looks.

Just go and get an issue of GQ, Maxim, what the fuck ever. Look through it for ideas.

Get yourself on Queer Eye for the Straight Guy for a makeover.

Barring that, ask the coolest woman of your own age whom you know to go clothes shopping with you, including her choice of a hair stylist. She will be very flattered and amused at the challenge and give you keen advice. As for the hair, let it grow out some before you get that done. That will give the hair person more to work with in terms of options.

In general, take time always to groom yourself. Clean finger/toe nails, trimmed and filed are critical to women. Get your teeth cleaned as often as you are supposed to, then smile a lot. Nothing turns people on like a smile.

Pay attention always to eye contact. Try not to avert your eyes when with a woman. Every woman wants to feel that she is the very center of your attention.

Read People Magazine. It is surely a terrible rag of a publication but it will show you how famous men your age are dressing/grooming. But don’t be seduced into changing yourself totally into somebody else’s idea of what style is. You are Maxtro. Maxtro rules.

Re: the photo

Jesus, Maxtro. Smile! You look like you just came in from burying your precious doggie.

Para,

Hmmm, I was assuming that the hair that looks long was not the bangs. Maybe I m wrong, it is hard to tell from that angle. The reason I was guessing this is because you can see shorter hair hanging down over the hairline just covering the upper section of his forehead.

TT,

That panama pic is how I like to keep my beard when I grow it. I wouldn’t call that a drug dealers look though, it’s more of a “you can’t run games on me” look.

Avocet’s advice is perfect. Listen up, Maxtro. My only quibble would be that I think some guys take the “don’t avert your eyes” thing too far. If you literally keep your eyes fixed on hers for ten minutes without the natural breaks that occur with turns in conversation, passing objects, etc., you’re likely to creep her out, in my opinion.

The second pic is the closest I have to a full body shot. BTW my grandma took the pic while I was looking at somebody else :rolleyes: it’s also taken back in the middle of last May. I wear basic white socks but here are my shoes.

Right now my hair is too long to even spike so I just have it combed. It’s probably time I get another hair cut.

Just buy a magazine and try and copy the styles? Usually the stuff in those magazines are really expensive and I don’t even know if that would even suit me.

I’ve always wanted to go shopping with a girl and have her help pick clothes for me, but I don’t know any girls, at all.

I always keep my nails clean and trimmed, I’ve got to work on smiling and frankly I think mine sucks, at least when I try to smile it sucks. I love making eye contact with girls and its something I strive to do.

So I should notice what famous guys my age are wearing? And try to somewhat copy them?

No problem, I think I over customize it into NarcoChiC! I have the Linen suits, the silk shirts, and the snake skin boots.