waxing?

Have any of you gotten waxed? Any area in particular. I am flirting with the idea of getting my pubic area/ unit/ and balls waxed. However, I’m nervous as shit about some woman I don’t know seeing my dick. I don’t have an impressive flaccid, and I don’t want to get a hard on and be embarrassed. Any thoughts or ideas that don’t involve me doing it myself?

Honestly I’d rather get hard in that situation. It might flatter her. Good luck, I’m sure the lovers in your life will appreciate the smoothness. Just make sure to ask about what lotions you can and cannot put on after the treatment. It wouldn’t be fun to be raw down there for a long while.

I waxed my chest once.. Will never ever do it again lol, it hurts like HELL!!

Yea, I hear you. Last thing I need is a new jelq style. Inflamed jelqing. However, I am a bit embarrassed about my size. I don’t consider myself large at all. Plus it would be the same person that waxes my girlfriend(not the insane, border line one I mentioned in previous posts).

I would not go to the same woman that my girlfriend or any family member uses. That is mixing business and pleasure. Not smart. If you are insecure about anything, then do not cross over bubbles on a Venn Diagram. Does that make sense to you?

Lastly, being insecure about your size. No reason for it ( you already know this, I’m being redundant ) Remember that women who perform these for people have probably also seen some really nasty snatches with horrible stinks and colors. I doubt your penis ( which is larger than mine ) is going to be on their radar as anything out of the norm or something they will remember in a negative way. Probably think positive about you the entire time and after.

If you get an erection ( like I most certainly would, just that type of guy with finding any woman touching my junk erotic, seriously a girl brushed my jeans at the petsmart while I was in line. Insta boner ) then she might mention it in passing to a friend like this, “So Susan today at work a guy came in for a wax. He got an erection and we both laughed about it together, he was sweet so it was no big deal. But it made me realize how horny I am recently” Bam end of story.

I got waxed a few times. Does it hurt? Yes. Does it hurt where you think? No. The balls, shaft and crack doesn’t really hurt. What REALLY hurts is the hair around your fat pad.

Is it worth it? Yes personally I find it better than shaving. No cuts, no stubs, no razor burns. If you got a aesthetician who is good at what she or he does, you can finish in 10-15 mins. I have a no nonsense lady, she’s chattering away the whole time asking me random questions. This keeps the guy from getting hard by keeping his mind off whats happening. No erection for me the first time, but subsequent times, I got a chub. The major downside is the pricing. Its at times more than double the price of a ladies brazillian. Don’t worry about what the aesthetician thinks. They are pros and seen worst.

As it happens I just got waxed today, back crack and sack. Not the first time. First things first. It doesn’t hurt that much and the pain is fleeting. Five seconds and your good. Usually less because she has moved on and so has you focus. Second it gets better if you get waxed often.

Here is how I summoned the courage. Not long ago I discovered Asian massage parlors (great massage and more natural feeling than regular spa) the one near my house has waxing service for ladies and gents (never have seen a lady there). After a couple of massages the owner asked me if I wanted to get my back waxed. I agreed and she did the waxing. It started as my back but by the time I was done she had done the full Monty. I had her leave some over my dick but the rest was gone. It stays gone for about three weeks and you have no get to get it done in about 4-6 weeks. I always get hard and sometimes she helps to relieve the pressure. The chase. It doesn’t hurt much. The girl doing it handles a cock more than you do so you don’t need to worry about her seeing your cock. And it’s way better than shaving. Little hint, take a 1/4 of a Viagra, hard is better for waxing. That’s what she says. ;)

Should I tell my girlfriend what my concerns are about getting waxed?

Update: I told her everything except for the penis issue. Let’s see how this goes.

If you really want to but anxiety is holding you back, you could always talk to your doctor and get a prescription for Xanax. Better yet, get one of those no no’s and tell us how well it works.

I thought about the no no lol. Might order it today. I might want to wax anyway. Being that I’m nervous about it. Face fear or accept humiliation.

I’ve been getting waxed every three to four weeks for the past 3 years.

This sounds crazy, but my wife has never said anything. Before I had it done the first time I talked to her best friend, who is basically like my long lost sister. She said that if she found out that her boyfriend or husband was getting waxed there, that she would laugh about it but will obviously be enjoying the end result. In other words: I wanted to find out if she thought my wife would be pissed at me because, obviously it’s a woman doing the procedure. She didn’t think my wife would be mad because she trusts me and knows I’m not stupid enough to fool around.

To be honest, it’s never been an arousing or sexual experience for me. The hot wax does not turn me on at all, so that’s never been a problem. It’s more akin going to get a haircut than having feeling someone handle your genitals.

I get waxed about an inch above the shaft and down all the way to the crack. Be sure to keep the hair above your shaft trimmed, but not shaven, so it doesn’t hurt as much. I have my aesthetician start with the hair above the shaft to get the real pain out of the way.

My aesthetician doesn’t really “handle” me at all. She will adjust my scrotum or move my shaft from one side to the other, and that’s it. Results are smooth after every visit.

I was nervous the first time, but the atmosphere was comfortable, almost clinical but with decor. She made small talk and would warn me before each removal.

If I was judged for my size, I don’t care. She see dicks every day and probably doesn’t even think about it too much, unless it’s the size of a Rolo or King Kong Haha. I’m not there for the aesthetician’s approval or adoration. I’m there for me to feel sexier for myself and present my wife with a smooth package.

Be sure to take two or three Advil about half an hour before the procedure. Then a couple of more about six hours later. Helps with swelling.

Go home and take the coldest shower you can stand to close your pores. Make sure you’re completely dry and then apply Tend Skin (or Skin Tend, I can’t remember) with cotton balls on the waxed area to help with redness and possibly ingrown hairs. If you’re not fully dry it’ll burn like a motherfucker. After that, you may moisturizer as you see fit. Avoid going to the gym for 24 hours afterward.

Have fun :)

I’ve had several Brazilian’s in the past as well as my legs. I cycle so I like to get the legs done in the summer. The legs are relatively painless. As far as the Brazilian, It was pretty awkward the first time I did it. I have had it done 4 or 5 times ( I cannot remember exactly) all done by women. I never sought out a particular gender, but felt more comfortable with a woman for some reason. I am gay so getting aroused was never a concern of mine. She did handle my member and balls, to get them in the position she wanted and got me to hold them once she got everything where she wanted. The worst and most painful area is right down the middle of the pubic area. I have heard this referred this as the “landing strip”. The whole process did hurt at times, but not overly. I stopped getting waxed mainly because I got tired of driving an hour to where my waxer is and the cost does add up. I shave usually now or keep trimmed. I shave my legs after getting the first wax of the season since it is easier when the hair is thinned out. Hope this helps.

It,s a bit like going to the dentist, really. The major part of the pain is in the anticipation.But once you get into a regular routine, it still hurts, but only momentarily.

The results, however, are well worth the fleeting moments of discomfort. Forget all that stuff about looking like a young boy - there is so much more dick to be seen and admired and lusted after without the hair disguise. The look and feel of a smooth dick are something else.

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It, s a bit like going to the dentist, really. The major part of the pain is in the anticipation. But once you get into a regular routine, it still hurts, but only momentarily.

The results, however, are well worth the fleeting moments of discomfort. Forget all that stuff about looking like a young boy - there is so much more dick to be seen and admired and lusted after without the hair disguise. The look and feel of a smooth dick are something else.
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That is the best way to word it. I look back at old photos when I had hair (down there) and I can’t believe it. Looks messy and gross. I love the clean, smooth look!