1 minute man

How can I control my ejaculations. I’ve tried doing Keagles, I hope I have been doing them right. Flexing the muscle that stops me from peeing or make my member bounce up and down. I ve been doing Jelq’s squezes, and holds. Most of the time when I do the Jelq’s etc, I’m mostly hard. It is hard for me not to get aroused always touching my member.

Any advice, techniques, supplements, herbs that would help.

Appreciate your input and time,

tyrdbnavg

Masturbate a lot.

Go slow.

Think of baseball statistics and old fat women.

Wear a tight condom or three.

Try a desensitizing cream such as Endure.

dont try to be too hard while u jelq…its not good and wont do anything. if you do get erected while jelqing, just wait a few and let it subside, then continue. and yes you are doing the keggles correctly, just keep at it. this sort of thing wont take a few days. gl

Too hard? easily aroused? No problem my friend. I have the solution!!!
This old thread originally posted by Anna contains pictures that will work wonders for your hardness problem. Just try jelqing next time while looking at this:

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eh i wouldnt masterbate a lot….that just gets u used to your hand motion. if u want to control your ejaculations heres what i found you can do besides keggles. this gets you more familiar with yourself. masterbate until you will ejaculate and try to hold it. in otherwards begin to masterbate but do not ejaculate(come close to). and sorry for the double post

Yeah, illist22 gives good advice, mastrubate to the edge of orgasm, but don´t cross it. Keep doing that, always stopping before you ejaculate. Train your endurance that way.

And not just your endurance, but really learn your own responses. That way, if after a little bit of humping and pumping you are about to blow your load, you will KNOW how close you are and can simply switch over to cunnilingus. Oddly enough, most women don’t complaine when you do this, even if you do it over and over.

Sad to say (but great news for you) many surveys/studies find that the majority of men are good for <1 minute. So simply by working on improving this you have just become a better lover than the “majority”. Work on the edging/spanking. Work on learning your own responses, and on reading your partners responses. Experiment on how your breathing affects your arousal cycle.

Man, if that doesn’t keep a guy from blowing his load, I don’t know what would ………

Not true. Does wonders for girth (and mayby even some for lenght, they did for me) if jelqs are done hard enough, “uli-like”.

Maybe try a combination of kegels and reverse kegels.

Try this:
100 kegels (hold for 1s, then release)
20 20 second kegels
1 kegel held until exhaustion

Then:
50 reverse kegels holding for 5s
15 reverse kegels holding for 10s
1 reverse kegel until exhaustion

You can also try the step up and step down approach. This is where when going into a 10s RK or 20s kegel you increase the pressure in which your using your muscle. Then slowly decrease when your exercise is done. Maybe add 10s for both, 5s increase, hold for 20s, release slowly for 5s (This would be for a kegel).

This may help. I am kind of experimenting with this now as I have a similar problem.

~Q

I appreciate all of your responces!

What is a reverse keagle? Is that when you try to pee harder? Not sure?

Yes that is it, like your trying to push all the urine out of your system.