21yo, ED and desperation

No, I’m not desperate because I want to fap or watch porn. I dont even feel the urge to do It since I started nofap. I’m desperate because I dont know if I have a PIED or some bullshit physical issue.

I still dont have any morning woods. And I can’t mantain an erection while standing up. They fade away quickly without stimulation too. I used to masturbate sitting on my toilet for about 7 years once a day, maybe 5,6 times a week. Almost never did it standing up. So conditioning may be a cause, even tho I’m not sure about this.

I did a blood test and my testosterone is about 560 which are good levels. Sugar, volesterol are all good. So there is only three possibilities : pied,venous leak or unbalanced pelvic floor.

This is so fucked up guys. I can’t understand why in the fucking fuck a 21 yo guy can have such problems. Makes no sense.

The first uro said that venous leak and pelvic floor issue makes no Sense at my age, but I’ve heard a shit ton of cases of guys like me having such issues. I’ll schedule another visit to another uro and order some doppler. Also, I’m absolutely taking pills If he proposes to. I’ve Met the girl of my live and I’d rather die than loosing her.

Anyone with such problems could fix It somehow?

So how much porn did you watch and when did you stop?

I used to watch in 10 minutes sessions, almost everyday and only once a day(for orgasm). I stoped 28 days ago give or take.

“I’m just mad about Saffron..

This may be worth a shot.
Good luck bro,
SVP

So do you think maybe stress might have something to do with it in addition to too much porn?

Maybe… I had a huuuuge size anxiety thing a month Ago(I’m 5.1in NBP and 4.15 girth), and it stressed me a lot. But… I had those issues even before this anxiety, I just noticed that they are not supposed to be ok recently. If my problem were all psychological, I would still have morning woods.

I dont know what’s wrong Bro… I’m praying(and I’m not even religious) for a miracle. I dont want to figure that I have a venous leak or unbalanced pelvic floor. I Hope I can att least get something trought Cialis or viagra

Young healthy guy, no injury nah no venous leak. You’re a bit worried and letting your mind go nuts. Stay off porn and have fun with the girl.

So your diagnosis is porn?

Stress, porn, performance anxiety; it’s not a diagnosis but rather an opinion. A diagnosis takes much more to conclude that a few symptoms told over the internet.

I think the porn is responsible for the the not getting erect while standing up issue. But, not having morning woods makes no Sense for me, I’m sleeping, and I sleep like a rock, why the fuck I can’t have one?

I’m going to a clinic this week it all the services for helping male with Ed : urologist, physio, endocrino and work on this.

I’m pissed, man. I have this girl and time is ticking until she wants sex. And if I fail, time will be ticking until she stops being supportive and gets frustraded.

I would absolutely try Viagra or cialis, even if it’s dangerous on my age. But I’m scared . There are tons of guys with similar issue that dont get shit from pills. I know you have to be arroused to use them. I can tell you I feel very arroused when with her, but still…

I’m pissed, man. I have this girl and time is ticking until she wants sex. And if I fail, time will be ticking until she stops being supportive and gets frustraded.

Now I don’t see any stress here at all. Wise choice to go to the doctor.

All this ‘time ticking’ shit is what’s causing your problem.

Try thinking of it this way:

You’re a virgin and have no experience(nothing wrong with thay),

Your lucky to have a beautiful girlfriend whose body you get to explore. ( Alolt of lonely and poorly connected guys don’t)

Alot of guys don’t get fully hard their first couple of times. Its just reality… stress / not being in the moment = no erection. It happened to me.

In my experience if I even think about something else during sex, my boner will fade.

Imagine this… There is a beautiful meal in front of you and your eating it…but there is someone yelling very stressful, ‘relevent and important’ stuff at you… You taste and enjoy the meal! You will start to blame your taste buds and sorry if they are sensing correctly. And you will inhibit your ability to do the nice thing.

You r not going to kick in the door thisnfirst time with a king dick and give here the best sex of her life. It just won’t happen. Give yourself an inch to fail man. If you don’t get it up just tell her your nervous. Hell tell her your nervous before hand. Every guy deals with this their first time. Somehow you are just caught in a loop worrying about this too much and this: the thing that you are doing… Worrying about your boner, trying to get one, being to stressed and occupied with something being wrong with you, then worrying again…this will really destroy you. Exit that silly loop please by exploring your girls body.. women are beautiful creatures my dude…there will be forces at work when you are kissing every inch of her that you and your bullshit have nothing to do with.

Kave, what I’m trying to tell is that I feel that something is not right. This weekend I met with her, and while sitted at the sofa, she hold my hand and I got an erection (a 60% one). But… Later we made out for about 30min kissing, and I started to grab her boobs, and sucking them. Result : no erection. Just a little blood on my dick and that’s it. And I was VERY arroused, me breathing was intense. This is very strange for me. I could hear her moans, her heavy breathing, and was driving me Crazy but my Dick didnt responded.

This is dont happen only with her. When I’m alone it happens too. I can’t stay erected while standing, even with the sickest porn ever. And when I do, it’s a soft, short erection.

My size anxiety is gone. Sometimes I even forget my dick is small/thin, because I known I am good in everything else. But this erection issue is starting to really get me anxious.

Just my two pence, I didn’t start getting ED symptoms until I started nofap (I also started PE around similiar times so it’s hard to pinpoint) A few guys over at Reddit have revelaed a similar experience since experimenting with nofap.

Even though this contradicts to the usual increase in EQ and libido there’s plenty of people that talk about ‘flatlines’ that follows the big peak you get for about two weeks from abstaining from porn and masturbation. I think maybe there could be an element of “use it or lose it” to the sudden drop… These days I don’t watch porn at all but still knock one out every once and a while, but I still notice the drop in libido and ease of erections if I don’t cum for a couple of weeks…

He is convinced something is wrong so let him see a doctor. Now if the doctor tells him he is fine and he still thinks something is wrong then we’ll know where the problem is.