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Originally Posted by JinnGB
I’ve recently regained focus on this issue. I think I have premature ejaculation condition because I can’t last more than a minute masturbating the way I want. Thus, I decided to experiment with penis desensitization. I found a subreddit called “human dildo” focused just on that, but there is very limited information and mostly they recommend getting circumsized. I don’t want to jump on the circumsizion wagon as it doesn’t make financial or any other sense, so I’m going to try the urban myths of “death-grip masturbation” by inducing it and glans friction by mastubating inside a wool sock. I overdid my first time as usual and I’m going to skip a day or two until my wounds heal. I will report the results soon enough.

OMG, any news?

Basically I am where I want to be, total ejaculation control, ofc if not slamming like a maniac and clenching pelvic floor muscles, I can still force myself to cum under a minute by fucking like an idiot not caring about breath or arousal control.
I can control if I get aroused or not also, self mastery.

Originally Posted by jocacar
OMG, any news?

Basically I am where I want to be, total ejaculation control, ofc if not slamming like a maniac and clenching pelvic floor muscles, I can still force myself to cum under a minute by fucking like an idiot not caring about breath or arousal control.
I can control if I get aroused or not also, self mastery.


Well it makes sense to watch for these things, but I don’t think I can actually apply them. I can go for a minute or two if I take it slow, be mindful about my breathing and pelvic floor contraction and have a lighter grip, but when you get it on with a girl she wouldn’t want you to go slowly until you reach PONR 5 minutes later. She would want to get fucked passionately and have as many orgasms as she can take and then and only then you can do whatever you want. That’s at least how I see it and I want to be the one who will give her, whoever she is a great time. Updating on my progress though - it’s very tough. I still reach PONR after 10 seconds but I simulate how it will probably go - tight grip and moderate to fast strokes, all the way from the tip of the glans until the deepest of the fat-pad. It’s getting easier to slide in-and-out of the wool sock, so I consider buying some kind of sandpaper to rise the stakes.

Starting stats (as of September 2018): 13.5cm / 5.3" BPEL ||| 11.5cm / 4.5" MSEG

Current stats (as of November 2022): 17cm / 6.7" BPEL ||| 13.5cm / 5.3" MSEG

JinnGB's progression

Originally Posted by JinnGB
Well it makes sense to watch for these things, but I don’t think I can actually apply them. I can go for a minute or two if I take it slow, be mindful about my breathing and pelvic floor contraction and have a lighter grip, but when you get it on with a girl she wouldn’t want you to go slowly until you reach PONR 5 minutes later. She would want to get fucked passionately and have as many orgasms as she can take and then and only then you can do whatever you want. That’s at least how I see it and I want to be the one who will give her, whoever she is a great time. Updating on my progress though - it’s very tough. I still reach PONR after 10 seconds but I simulate how it will probably go - tight grip and moderate to fast strokes, all the way from the tip of the glans until the deepest of the fat-pad. It’s getting easier to slide in-and-out of the wool sock, so I consider buying some kind of sandpaper to rise the stakes.

Well with 20.8 cm BPEL and 14.3 middle girth (3-3.3 deciliters depending on site where I calculate volume) they don’t want me sliding like a crazed animal.

As for tricks that help in delaying or avoiding ejaculation there are a few:
1. Longer exhale and very deep breaths(slows down the heartbeats and with slow heartbeat you can’t cum)

2. Focusing your attention on your whole body instead of just the genitals(“where mind goes chi flows”, and too much energy in genitals equals ejaculation)

3.No amazement at the beauty of the moment and of partners body(too much of excitement and amazement makes your heart race= ejaculation, don’t be amazed at all stay focused on your WHOLE body in order to last)

4.When breathing in you should draw energy from genitals up to the head(genitals will be a part of body you feel the most as they are stimulated, take that attention that body is sending there and simply move it up with your will, you are the master of this body and it will listen)

5. Alternate shallow/deep thrusts and angles when going deep(too much of the repetitive movements overstimulate you and it takes mind power to decide next alternative angle or depth which takes some energy out of genitals to the head by itself)

6. Relax and don’t worry about performance as it spikes heartbeat= ejaculation

7 keep slapping that mofo or desensitize it in other ways(tying a dry fabric to exposed glans and wear it for hours after already punishing your dick with slapping because it is a sensitive bitch)

And many many more tips and I am tired, try this much it will definitely help.

Originally Posted by jocacar
Well with 20.8 cm BPEL and 14.3 middle girth (3-3.3 deciliters depending on site where I calculate volume) they don’t want me sliding like a crazed animal.

As for tricks that help in delaying or avoiding ejaculation there are a few:
1. Longer exhale and very deep breaths(slows down the heartbeats and with slow heartbeat you can’t cum)

2. Focusing your attention on your whole body instead of just the genitals(“where mind goes chi flows”, and too much energy in genitals equals ejaculation)

3.No amazement at the beauty of the moment and of partners body(too much of excitement and amazement makes your heart race= ejaculation, don’t be amazed at all stay focused on your WHOLE body in order to last)

4.When breathing in you should draw energy from genitals up to the head(genitals will be a part of body you feel the most as they are stimulated, take that attention that body is sending there and simply move it up with your will, you are the master of this body and it will listen)

5. Alternate shallow/deep thrusts and angles when going deep(too much of the repetitive movements overstimulate you and it takes mind power to decide next alternative angle or depth which takes some energy out of genitals to the head by itself)

6. Relax and don’t worry about performance as it spikes heartbeat= ejaculation

7 keep slapping that mofo or desensitize it in other ways(tying a dry fabric to exposed glans and wear it for hours after already punishing your dick with slapping because it is a sensitive bitch)

And many many more tips and I am tired, try this much it will definitely help.

Thanks Jocacar! I have definitely tried the techniques you suggested, but they don’t seem to work with me. For the time being I’m going to continue experimenting with sandpaper and will update soon enough.

Starting stats (as of September 2018): 13.5cm / 5.3" BPEL ||| 11.5cm / 4.5" MSEG

Current stats (as of November 2022): 17cm / 6.7" BPEL ||| 13.5cm / 5.3" MSEG

JinnGB's progression

Originally Posted by JinnGB
Well it makes sense to watch for these things, but I don’t think I can actually apply them. I can go for a minute or two if I take it slow, be mindful about my breathing and pelvic floor contraction and have a lighter grip, but when you get it on with a girl she wouldn’t want you to go slowly until you reach PONR 5 minutes later. She would want to get fucked passionately and have as many orgasms as she can take and then and only then you can do whatever you want. That’s at least how I see it and I want to be the one who will give her, whoever she is a great time. Updating on my progress though - it’s very tough. I still reach PONR after 10 seconds but I simulate how it will probably go - tight grip and moderate to fast strokes, all the way from the tip of the glans until the deepest of the fat-pad. It’s getting easier to slide in-and-out of the wool sock, so I consider buying some kind of sandpaper to rise the stakes.

No that’s not the case all the time with what women want or need to have orgasms. I can put myself in my wife not all the way but close, and just stay in there and barely move, we are holding each other laying on our sides facing each other, and I move just a half an inch in and out, sometimes maybe even less. And its soft, gentle, delicate, and from almost nothing at all, she erupts into a massive orgasm. And, I can thrust in and out over and over my whole length pounding her for minutes on end and she has orgasms while I’m doing that. All kinds of things make women have orgasms during PIV sex. If she wants you really bad, she wants you, your cock is just the vehicle that brings you into her so can experience you fully. For sure there is a general rhythm to sex and a “steady pace” kind of thing that you get into based on the length of your cock, the length of your stroke, and what she likes and how she wants your stroke to be. But, she can get off from many different kinds of thrusting and soft and hard sensations inside her.

Tight grip is not exactly what vagina feels like. It is soft and feels more like a Fleshlight, although fleshlight isn’t always exactly the best, but the way the sleeve applies pressure to your erection while its inside the sleeve, that’s pretty close to the pressure your penis feels in a vagina. Its tight, but this whole “tightness” thing is kind of a misnomer because erection size has a lot to do with. If a guy has massive girth, and he doesn’t get her ready, she’ll say “he was so big we could barely do it!” and he’ll say “she was too tight for me to get into.” All because she wasn’t really turned on enough to accept his size. A man with a thin girth gets his girl very ready for sex and then he says “she’s too loose I could barely feel it” and she says “I was so ready for him and then he felt pretty small when inside me.” All because she was turned on yet he has a smaller penis than the first guy.

Both scenarios point out that vagina is only as tight as it is depending on if she’s turned on and actually ready for penetration, and/or how much girth the erection has.

Try to be more gentle on your cock when you work on it. Touch it softly, be gentle. Try to see if soft gentle touching makes you cum in 10 seconds. And don’t stroke so fast, just go slower and see. Try to imagine you are making love with a woman on a bed of rose petals and silk sheets and she’s going to ride you very very slowly and everything is soft and nice, smooth and silky. Sex could be just like that; I’ve had sex like that before. Also, fucking each other as hard as possible and sweating and lube and pussy juice all over the place, too! Sometimes sex starts slow and soft and gets hard and fast. Or it gets hard and fast right away and then slows down to a crawl for along time. Variety! My wife will give me a very soft gentle handjob then start pumping me as hard as she can, her hand moves so fast I can’t really see it anymore, then she slows down and takes like 5 seconds from base to tip of my cock. So much variety and options between men and women coupled for sex…

Lastly please don’t use sandpaper on your penis!! It won’t help, it will just hurt you and take away your ability to actually feel pleasure. She will want you to feel pleasure, its not always about her, women get very excited and lusty trying to make their man cum, or watch him cum, or help him, etc.. If you hurt your dick and make yourself feel less pleasure she might not really like that. There are women who really get off hard on guys that cum super fast. Related to that, I once read a woman say “I think its extremely hot and I get very horny knowing that my guy busts his nut in seconds from me; that I’m so hot and my pussy is so good that he can’t last at all” she took to feeling special and womanly over the fact he had premature ejaculation issues and she loved it, a lot. Once you cum can you get hard and do it again soon or do you have to wait?

Hope anything I’ve added to this thread helps!!

Starting length, Spring 2003: bpel 6 3/8", bpfsl ~6 1/2", flaccid ~3-4" (never measured flaccid stretched or hanging flaccid; starting girth was probably ~5"-5 1/4")

Summer 2004: bpel 7 7/8", bpfsl 8 1/8", flaccid ~4", erect girth 5.3"

Spring 2018: bpel 7 1/4", bpfsl 7 5/8", erect girth 5 1/8"; Spring 2020: bpel 7 3/4", bpfsl 8", erect girth 5 3/8". Current - August 2023: bpel 7 3/4", bpfsl 8", erect girth mid shaft 5 1/4" (5 1/2" at base)

I thought about using sandpaper, too, but I thhink rubbing some piece of clothe or sponge might do the trick at a slow pace. The mind control technique has not worked for me at all.

These acts will help

- Create an initial death gripe syndrome.

- Consult a real sex expert doctor to prescribe and teach you how do really adjust your neurotransmitters, this completely solve my problem.

Originally Posted by jocacar
Just in case someone is interested in this still, I got great results in prolonging sex time with mind trick which is really simple.

Do not allow yourself to get excited mentally, your body is going to react to a naked woman anyway, just dont make things worse by repeating in your head exciting thoughts.

Another trick I found and it works is to tense butt cheeks, instead of using abs too much in orded to thrust.

As for desensitizing part, very little info can be found, and even then those are anecdotes.

I got some success by listening to the guy who said that contact between dry fabric and glans-frenulum area did the trick for him.

I was rubbing that part of the D for countless dozens of minutes in a span of 4 days.

It came to a point where my shaft was more sensitive than glans.

Unfortunately I decided to heat my D before a clamping session, I failed to last ten minutes which was my goal because almost all sensitivity was back after just 10 minutes of really hot water and I was squeezing it as if sensitivity was the same as before heat.

I basically never used heat before or after doing PE sessions and this unfortunate ejaculation and return of sensitivity will make me never use heat again.

I got demoralised because I haven’t ejaculated in 15 days, while doing a lot of PE and edging sessions and then out of desperation ejaculated 5 freaking more times, I would not call that sperm entirely wasted because I managed to stop ejaculation three times in a row with long kegel holds, focused more on the area near the anus and prostate.

However, after this ordeal my erections where shit and my energy was that of a corpse, so now after 5 days I will be continuing on desensitizing/edging/PE and other work.

Just an advice, microcosmic orbit is a must after prolonged sustained erection.
It takes all that pressure that has accumulated in that region and wants to burst out and gives it to the entire body.
I noticed that there is none sperm during urination when I do this Chinese exercise.

Nit that it is always there after edging/PE but never happens after M O

Tantra

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