Any Tips For Desensitizing The Penis?

I have found some snippets of information on the forums but I want this thread to be dedicated solely for tips from guys who have successfully done it or have read information on this topic elsewhere.

I typed penis sensitivity and all I could find is threads dedicated to increasing it.

I paid a prostitute a few weeks ago and couldn’t fuck rough more than minute and a half without a need to pull out and that is even with with all the deep breathing and removing tension wherever I felt it on the body.

Only conclusion I could make is that my penis, especially underside beneath the glans and frenulum are too sensitive for my liking.

All in all I did last 10 minutes or so but I had too pull out a few times and two times I stopped ejaculation using my PC muscle while orgasming hard.

It was fun that she thought I came but I didn’t 😄

Third time I couldn’t stop it and surrendered to it.

Nice session but too much hassle to prolong it.

I need help and I am sure many others do too.

Edit: I do edge for hours but it doesn’t do the trick for me.

Methods I have tried in the past:

- Reverse kegels so it stops you from cumming, meaning from time to time do reverse kegels while she is riding you.

- Lidocaine (50 to 100mg) with DMSO at 70%(EG: 10ml DMSO 70% = 7ml DMSO, 3 ml Distilled water) Let it absorb and it will numb your glans only

- Hyaluronic acid injected around the glans base (Coronal ridge) It will numb it for some months until it gets dissolved and broken down by your body.

- Other method injecting lidocaine at the base(dorsal side) so it blocks the dorsal nevers.

- Fluoxetine 30mg(Tried 10mg but did nothing to me) & DAPOXETIENE 120mg (I have tried 60mg but literally does nothing to me)

PED’s = Trenbolone if you are also willing to enhance your physique and your cock.

The best all around = Trenbolone, hands down. You wont be able to cum for 1 hour or more and I am talking about real life experience. Once I am on cycle, my partner simply knows that I am not going to cum and I am a mere dildo. I will make her cum but she wont be able to make me cum, no matter how hard she tries.

“ANORGASMIA”, “Tren dick”,”Cant cum on tren”

Thanks for reply.

All injections are a big no for me, I don’t want to jump on a steroid cycle for it’s small benefits and all the risks plus I hate needles.

Topic anesthetics are definitely in play, plus they are real cheap.

Reverse kegels are one of the reasons and techniques I used to last those 10 minutes (short I know but I used to be 1 min man 😄) so I know it works somewhat.

Anesthetics are definitely going to work just like amphetamines ano opioids are but I am mostly interested in non chemical solutions if there is such a thing(I am sure there is just I haven’t discovered it yet)

Just in case someone is interested in this still, I got great results in prolonging sex time with mind trick which is really simple.

Do not allow yourself to get excited mentally, your body is going to react to a naked woman anyway, just dont make things worse by repeating in your head exciting thoughts.

Another trick I found and it works is to tense butt cheeks, instead of using abs too much in orded to thrust.

As for desensitizing part, very little info can be found, and even then those are anecdotes.

I got some success by listening to the guy who said that contact between dry fabric and glans-frenulum area did the trick for him.

I was rubbing that part of the D for countless dozens of minutes in a span of 4 days.

It came to a point where my shaft was more sensitive than glans.

Unfortunately I decided to heat my D before a clamping session, I failed to last ten minutes which was my goal because almost all sensitivity was back after just 10 minutes of really hot water and I was squeezing it as if sensitivity was the same as before heat.

I basically never used heat before or after doing PE sessions and this unfortunate ejaculation and return of sensitivity will make me never use heat again.

I got demoralised because I haven’t ejaculated in 15 days, while doing a lot of PE and edging sessions and then out of desperation ejaculated 5 freaking more times, I would not call that sperm entirely wasted because I managed to stop ejaculation three times in a row with long kegel holds, focused more on the area near the anus and prostate.

However, after this ordeal my erections where shit and my energy was that of a corpse, so now after 5 days I will be continuing on desensitizing/edging/PE and other work.

Just an advice, microcosmic orbit is a must after prolonged sustained erection.
It takes all that pressure that has accumulated in that region and wants to burst out and gives it to the entire body.
I noticed that there is none sperm during urination when I do this Chinese exercise.

Nit that it is always there after edging/PE but never happens after M O

Edging for long periods will over time decrease sensitivity, but it may take years.

For an alternate way to overcome premature ejaculation try vitamin B6 (or it’s more bioavailable metabolite P-5-P) an hour or two before sex. I take 25mg P-5-P. I’ve also used Pine bark extract, however, when I took both together I had to stop when the wife had enough because I could not cum without getting too rough (we are in our 60s so that also doubtless has an effect on me lasting longer and her not as long).

Good luck!

I think the best option is to Edge One Day ON and one Day OFF

Edging with Fleshlight gives the best benefits, consider it a workout :

Slow level and Faster Level, When you start edging go for extreme slow.

Try the Pomodoro Technique: 5 mins of Edging / 5 mins resting..try it for 4times than take a longer rest.

If you increase the timing, You’ll be good at it, and over years you’ll become an expert.

I also use Porn Audios (Audios ONY ) to train my mind to fuck for a long time.

These are my tips, my dream is to become a successful Pornstar someday, I hope I provided you with some help.

interesting..will try this

Same here, I feel like I have lifelong PE. 42 and dealing with not being able to hold ejaculation in during penetration for more than a minute. I know my frenulum is the most sensitive and I’ve used Stud100 and Promescent before. They’ve helped maybe double my time but I’ve never ever been able to fuck the way I want for more than 2 minutes before ejaculating and losing erection. I think it is mostly mental because even with a numb dick and wearing a thick penis sleeve, I would ejaculate from having sex.

I’ve been curious about the injections of hyaluronic acid as long as it wears off over time and doesn’t do lasting damage. I wouldn’t want to do anything to damage the nerves where I might not be able to get an erection again. I rather be a 1 minutes man and be able to get hard erections than have a limp dick and leaky cum from PE.

For me, I am desperate for a solution that will allow me to last with a full erection for at least 5 minutes of good pounding! I edge a few times a week but I can’t last that long lubed up or even using a fleshlight. 2-3 strokes with a fleshlight and I’m at PONR. Reverse kegels make me more aroused and feel like my asshole is going to push out hemorrhoids. I get involuntary kegels all the time. Paxil on demand did nothing. As it was said, I can do all the deep breathing and whole body muscle relaxation, but the penis still is just too sensitive to a tight warm grip of a pussy or my lubed hand or a fleshlight and it’s not just the mind. I don’t use porn for edging at all either. This is such a curse.

Thanks for the input, I am currently reading multi orgasmic and and taoist secrets of love books.

I recommend them to all.

One of the exercises given in taoist secrets of love is holding half erect penis at the base and flapping it right and left in order to hit thighs, I do this two times a day for 15-30 minutes.

It is given specifically in order to desensitize head and frenulum, I do it until it starts to hurt.

It does work, however I have just started a week ago, will definitely continue.

As a quick fix because I haven’t mastered taoist technology yet I use amphetamines, just a tiny bit and I can go for hours if I couple it with big draw or deer exercise, both work.

Even on amphetamines I can’t go more than 15 minutes until I have to draw energy from genital are to the crown of the head, and then on exhale I send that energy to 2 inches below the navel.

After this 10 second exercise I am half erect and as if I have just started having sex or masturbating, without amphetamines I have to draw energy every 5 minutes at first and later every 2 minutes.

I have with just two weeks of taoist exercises written in those books made myself last 30 minutes instead of 10 when not on drugs.

I do not ejaculate even during sex, I just see that I can’t go on without spilling the seed, so I just stop and call it a day.

You might want to Google big draw and or deer exercise, or you can send me the private message and I will send you text files of those life changing books.

Reading is fine and good but you actually have to do practices given.

This big draw or cool draw. I’ve heard about this. I’ve heard that you can draw the energy from your groin up your spine into your brain and then down through your mouth with your tongue on the roof and back to the core and groin. And this would dissipate that sexual energy stuck in the groin which causes PE. I have no idea how to do it. I’ve been at an arousal of 7 or 9 or 9.5. I’ve tried to take deep nasal breaths and then do a hard kegel and force a chill through my body. I haven’t been able to take that energy and move it anywhere. I desperately would love to learn how to move energy around to make sex last longer.

Do it to yourself 10-15 minutes before sex. It’s not a perfect solution, because you will lose some energy and you won’t be as hard. But it works.

I think about having to pay child support for 18 years… :-) Kidding. I had a vasectomy. I think by controlling one’s pace -with some experience- one can delay orgasms nearly at will.

Looking back at myself from a couple years ago, I was completely mental. I don’t know how I got by without having to pay for child support. Trying to control your pace and arousal feeling so good sliding in-and-out of her and basically edging yourself from the beginning, while having completely unprotected sex is crazy. What’s more the total time of sex session often went above 4 hours, thus basically banging whole night. Now take that craziness and stretch it in the timespan of a month and you have one hell of a variation of russian roulette.

I have found new info on this from another mantak book and also mastered right amount of slapping my member on the thighs.

I usually put my thighs 20-25 cm apart(best done sitting with legs in this angle /) at the level where my dick head is going to hit them.
Then I slap those right thigh 30 or so times using right hand and then left thigh 30 times using left hand(in this way your fingers do not obstruct dicks trajectory).

I do this for about thirty minutes, or until both my glans and thighs are really red.

When underside starts to hurt I hit the upper side against the palm of my head to let underside prepare for more punishment.

If 3-4 hours later even a tiny slap burns then I know I did a great job.

After this check if it doesn’t burn I hit it gor another few minutes vigorously.

Second thing I found for desensitizing in one of the books is to uncover the glans(if skin is not removed) and put plain dry wipe over the whole flaccid penis and tie it with with other pieces of the same paper taking great care that glans and frenulum are in contact with dry fabric.

This is only after physical punishment as a bonus, I then sit and read taoist sexual and enegy techniques for few hours taking notes while I rub paper which is overlayed over glans and frenulum for added effect of increased contact.

This paper stuff is really a game changer, only after few days of this I can masturbate almost 2 times longer and with added vigor before having to preform big draw.

Desensitizing is very important but learning to draw energy and tension out of genital area is far more so, cuz if you do really good job desensitizing still enough tension is going to accumulate in 10-15 minutes to make you cum and if you don’t know how to draw you will do so.

I only desensitize to be able to fuck for half an hour with 2 or so draws instead of 5 or more.

Any tips of your own are welcome, so far methods I give here work.

If you want yo learn drawing energy out message me and i will send books and/or shortened versions with only exercise steps.

I’ve recently regained focus on this issue. I think I have premature ejaculation condition because I can’t last more than a minute masturbating the way I want. Thus, I decided to experiment with penis desensitization. I found a subreddit called “human dildo” focused just on that, but there is very limited information and mostly they recommend getting circumsized. I don’t want to jump on the circumsizion wagon as it doesn’t make financial or any other sense, so I’m going to try the urban myths of “death-grip masturbation” by inducing it and glans friction by mastubating inside a wool sock. I overdid my first time as usual and I’m going to skip a day or two until my wounds heal. I will report the results soon enough.