I was introduce to tantra when I was 14…(I was seduced by a 26 y/o woman who spent 11 months teaching me more than any 14/15 y/o should know). Tantra is a spiritual practice that dates back over 5,000 years. In the United States, Tantra blossomed, as a part of the sexual revolution of the 60’s and 70’s.Tantric lovemaking opens the partners to one another on every level; sexually, intimately and spiritually. Tantra encourages us to enjoy the journey, the destination may surprise you! The focus in Tantric lovemaking is on opening to deeper and deeper sensations of pleasure and connection. If we rush to a goal of orgasm there’s a good chance we’ve missed some VERY exciting side-roads along the way. The excitement would be referred to as “waves” of pleasure, ratherm than “twinges”. These waves are like smoldering embers, the more air (breath) you give them, the hotter they become! My wife and I have been practicing tantra for years.
This past summer I became certified in Tantric massage. There is a lot of information online about tantra. I encourage you to pursue this knowledge!