At Wits End with EQ

Very high T levels, which you seem to have often mimic that of low T. Now excess T tends to break down to estrogen/estradiol another thing you’re taking.So let’s recap; whether you know it or not your stress level is very high (not good for erections) and you’re overdoing it a bit on what you’re taking. Remember as we get older not only does the body not produce as much T but it also doesn’t need as much. When it comes to blood levels you never want to be on the high or low end. The body likes moderation.The body is very smart. Now guys give a body that’s in the beginning stages of winding down and doesn’t need as much T more T and what do you think it does with it? Many things and some are not too good.
We guys think and incorrectly that we boost up our T levels and we’ll be 21 again; not happening!
At my age which is much older than you and without the aid of any drugs I still get a great erection, more than enough for my lady and I bet I could give a few 25 year olds a run for their money. I have low stress, exercise and eat good and one thing I do realize is that not every night will I be superman and that doesn’t bother me because other nights I am. It’s called being human and getting older which is something no matter what anyone tells you you’re not going to escape. Toby Keith wrote a great song; “As good as I once was”. Listen to it.
Now what would I do if I was you? I’d stop taking the drugs, all of them. I’d call work and tell them I have covid which would get me a few days off. I’d get in my car and drive someplace where no one knew where I was and fish or walk or just be alone, no cellphone! A few days later when I came back to all the crap; work, wife, girls etc I’d bet I’d be able to screw a tree. Hope it helps!

Eat right, exercise and unless you have a medical /hormonal issue you’ll be fine.Remember there are a class of doctors who think they can restore youth. Oh have have studies and stuff to convince you that what they’re selling, and they are selling, will make you young again. We are part of nature and if you notice nature likes things in moderation and balance. everything extreme in nature never last long does it? Hurricanes, earthquakes even volcanoes, some that erupt for years yet it’s a millisecond to nature don’t last do they?
Be 41 and be a good 41; Eat right, exercise and de stress. Studies have proven that stress is 6 times more likely to kill you compared to smoking and drinking.You have a job, a marriage that’s ending, kids to take care of and a body that like all of ours is getting older. You could sell your stress and make a few bucks. Knowing what I know and being involved in health for more than 40 years well I just may know what I’m talking abut besides the fact that I lived it. Go listen to that song and if you need to talk well you know where I am.

Maybe it’s the girl.

You were with the same girl for a long time. You probably have to rediscover what turns you on and probably have to work through a lot of other shit as well.