Bad that i hadnt ejaculated until 17?

Hey guys,

So the story is I never masterbated as a kid or teen. Masterbating never felt pleasurable to me, so I never did it. I did watch porn of course, and I would trickle pre-cum with excitement but I never busted off. I never knew what climaxing felt like so I didn’t think I was missing out on anything. Then one day when i had turned 17 I decided to buy a fleshlight, and I used it the day it came in the mail. Within seconds I was experiencing pleasure like never before. It only took a minute or two and then I ejaculated for the first time in my life.

So does this affect any aspect of my sex life in any way? Never ejaculating until the age of 17, and then suddenly using a fleshlight to blow off almost immediately?

Thanks for your input!

I would say so. I think it’s in our nature to masturbate to last longer. Women don’t have to worry about how long they last so they dont have to masturbate. Then there are those born with the bility to last long which are very few men. But I say start edging and get your staying power up.

Ive started pumping though, and that involves having an erection for like 30 minutes, then some jelqing afterwards. Wouldn’t that help?

Hi MountAndDew, and welcome. I wouldn’t imagine there would be any problems of not consciously ejaculating until age 17. You had wet dreams right? That should have served to release any pent up pressure from all that edging.

Anyway, one would think you would have great eyesight if nothing else! Yet you somehow missed the Spell Check button at the bottom of the Post Reply section. :) You might want to check out the Forum Guidelines when you get a chance.

No harm done not to have consciously ejaculated until age 17.

However, now that you know what it’s all about and how it feels, do it regularly. There are a number of studies which say that young men (late teens, into 20s) who ejaculate frequently encounter fewer prostate problems as they age into their 50’s-70’s than men who do not have frequent ejaculations.

What edging? I said I DID NOT edge as a teen.

And I don’t understand your second paragraph either.

I’d like to add that maybe it’s a really good thing you didn’t masturbate (unlike a lot of us that trained ourselves to blow our load in a minute or less during our younger years)… If you’re instantly reaching ejaculation though, it makes me wonder about that theory. Make sure you edge when you use that Fleshlight so you can train yourself to last longer and longer!!

Edging does not mean ejaculating. Many men edge and then do not end the session with ejaculation.

I was referencing the spelling errors in your original post. I wasn’t trying to be a smart ass; really just looking for a nice way to mention that we try to all adhere to the Forum Guidelines when posting.

I didn’t ejaculate until I was 18. I never got into porn until maybe about 16, and it was infrequent. Maybe for a week straight every few months or so, then I had stopped completely. My first ejaculation was when I lost my virginity in august and I only lasted about a minute. I’ll be 19 this time next month.

Wait I’m confused- you never knew what climaxing felt like? Surely you must have had wet dreams? I’m pretty sure I had wet dreams before I started masturbating. topshotta- you as well? Nothing what so ever or you just didn’t masturbate?

I know I was having wet dreams before I figured it out manually… I can only imagine a very sheltered life keeping that from happening.

I thought edging = masterbating?

Nope. I suggest you use the search tool as there are numerous threads on edging. Here is a link to one of the better ones:
How I cured my SEVERE premature ejaculation

Also, you should start using the Spell Check button. Masturbating is spelled with a "u" and not an "e".

MountAndDew - you’ll be fine. Use that fleshlight to train yourself how to last longer. Personally, I need to pound away for at least 45 minutes to cum from sexual intercourse and my fleshlight makes me pop within 5 minutes. Just set a goal to last 1 minute longer every week and you’ll develop stamina.

I have to hand it to you man. How you abstained from jerking off until you were 17 is beyond me. :up: on the username as well :)

I’ve actually fully read through that article a couple days ago. I caught that edging helps, but I didn’t notice anything on technique. Thanks for that spell tip though, since its such a commonly used word.