Cant Cum Problem

So no cold meds or anti-depressents?

Nope… Sometimes it happens. You just get blocked.

No particular reason to worry IMO.

He subconciously liked too much this girl to allow himself to finish the act. He just couldn’t get enough. It’s not stress. If he was stressed he would have erection issues to begin with. The mind plays some odd tricks sometimes. It can happen.

Foreskin intact? yes/no

Some antidepressants, such as SSRIs, can cause anorgasmia. Oddly, so can PDE5 inhibitor meds fpr ED, like Viagra, etc., in some men. Possibly some blood pressure meds like HCTZ could have such an effect, but more likely ED with those.

I have had a similar problem for years now. I finger my wife and she cums and then I get her warmed for number 2. I penetrate and can fuck her until she can’t take it any more and I don’t shoot. It’s kind of like edging. Close but no banana juice. When there is no sound in the house and we’re alone I seem to get more excited during the event and go at her like a wild man! Then we both hit the roof and I fill her up! I swear it is just my mind because of too much crap in it. Even though I’m not aware of it, I think somewhere in there my mind is holding back because when it happens I have come close to blacking out on the way back down. 100% healthy and in shape. Don’t beat yourself up or it could get worse. Try to get your mind to be free of ALL thoughts when fucking and go at it like your life depends on it! (I know masturbating burns a lot less calories but you don’t get the joy and warmth of making a woman sloppy and happy because you messed her up.) Good luck!

Very good advice.

Is there any cream that increases sensitivity of an erection?

I sometimes wear a glans ring (the ring that fits in the groove with a small ball near the frenulum) during sex. The wife seems to enjoy the extra sensation and it makes it easier for me to cum because of the extra sensation. I suspect if you wear it all the time during sex it might lead to lower sensitivity. That’s why I wear it intermittently. I never wear it outside of sex for the same reason.

Austfred

Dude really, you rocked her world, don’t worry about it. When I was younger I trained myself to hold back until the chick was wasted. (Makes for very willing repeat customers). One of the drawbacks is the possibility of no wad until I take a break. (They usually think it is their fault, just reassure them it isn’t) They appreciate the break also. Tell them I need a few minutes to take a leak and rehydrate, then its easy to finish all over the body part of my choice.

I wouldn’t worry about it. It seems like two isolated incidents. However, worrying may create a problem where there is none.

Similar to some of the other posters, when I resist the urge to ejaculate, after 10 to 20 minutes I pass a threshold that makes it harder to do so the longer I continue. After a while I have to try to come, instead of just letting it happen. If I was going for an hour or more, sometimes both me and my lady would be so spent that I decided to forego coming that time. But usually, if I try hard enough I’ll do it.

I’ve never considered this a problem. Just the way the body works. However, for casual encounters outside a relationship setting, I can see where this might cause you some anxiety. But don’t worry about it.