CDS (Cul-De-Sac) Question

I have done a thorough search of Thunder’s Place, and I have read almost every CDS thread. However, I am still confused about one item. When finding the CDS, many people referred to “Going past the cervix” & “Passing through the back wall of the vagina.” The part of these statements that confuses me, is the part about “passing through” & “going past”? Am I attempting to pass through a “portal” (near the cervix) or am I going around the cervix (above or below depending on position)?

Any help would be greatly appreciated. I have hit my girlfriend’s cervix in the past, and she will wince; now, I am going to try to go deep and give her the “ultimate pleasure.” For reference, I am exactly 8” BPEL. Once again, thanks for any help.

This diagram should make you understand

http://www.sexu altips.net/sexu … y_questions.htm

You don’t go in any portal, you go beyond the cervix.

What may not be clear from the pic is that the cervix sort of protrudes as a sort of cylinder rather than a straight hanging flange, permitting you access under, over, side to side.

At 8” BPEL you may already be hitting the CDS and not simply the cervix- I’m running a bit behind you and I’m bottoming out with smaller built ladies in certain positions.

If your lady is amenable to manual penetration [and if she isn’t, you may be doing ti wrong ;) ] then while frigging her rigging you may want to take the opportunity to feel around as you think of what the diagrams look like. Don’t make it the objective of the frigging, simply let your fingers take a walk around the neighborhood

In fact, you may find that if you ease into it properly she has the capacity to accept far more of your manual penetration than you ever imagined.
And enjoys it.

But that’s a story for a different thread

Thanks for the tips guys. Andro, my gf is somewhat strange as she isn’t into manual penetration. When ever I rub around the hole and slide a finger slowly in, she flinches. When I ask her what happened, she says that it hurt. I am confused because she can take my 5 1/4 - 5 3/8 MSEG. Mind you, she usually is ‘sore’ a couple hours after I fuck her. I wonder if she had a bad experience with manual penetration? In the past, I have stimulated her G-spot with my fingers, and she loved it. Now whenever I attempt, I get brushed away because it hurts.

My other problem is that I do not have an upward or downward curve, so I don’t know which position would be best (I have a curve to the left). My idea is that I should get into missionary and put her legs up. With this position, I should thrust downward until I get into the CDS, and once in, I should perform short-deep strokes (In deep, but strokes of only 1” as to not fall from CDS).

Missionary position with her legs on your shoulders. That does the trick for me best. The arc her vagina produces makes the length of the area shorter.

My fingers can’t reach the CDS so I have never fingered a girl that deep.

Also doggy style is a great position when she is on her knees and lies with her head on a pillow.

I have no curve either and yet I bottom my girl with no problem. My stats are similar to yours by the way.

Thanks Cat. I am hoping to hit 9 x 6 by next June, that should make some things much easier.

At 8 inches in length I am satisfied. I’m trying to get to 6.5” in girth. Length wise I think that a 9” can be a problem because I like to go all the way in and pound like a mad man. With a 8” when fully erect my girl is sore for days after sex.

Yeah, in the last two years, my fatpad has doubled while my weight/fat has not increased a lot. I have gained about 10 pounds, and my fatpad has jumped from .5” to 1”. Needless to say, my 9” would be a 8” NBPEL. My fear with girth getting that big is that I would not be able to receive a blowjob. I hear that a little over 6” is max for most girls’ mouths.

You will when you have all four fingers inside her- you gain ~ 2” to the thumb web.

Shit will freak you both out the first time you do it.

You won’t think twice by the third go-round.

Remember those dark paths I mentioned to Hapster elsewhere?

Direct me to that so I can refresh my memory.