Comments About Your Penis

Thanks man! ;)
I think it was the summer of 2002… I was 37.
I’m finally getting a significant amount of grey hairs around my temple area but despite that people still think I’m early 30’s. :)

Congrats to you and your wife!
You both seem to have a wonderful and satisfying sex life!

Wow, what a read. I sympathize with these stories completely and they make me very sad to see. I could relate a lot of stories, but I’d like to make a few points about my experience instead.
One, all (perceived) negative comments about my dick have been my own fault. When I’ve asked girls what they think of it SOMETIMES they give me answers I don’t want to hear. But it’s never been without prompting them. The sad truth is that almost ALL experienced girls have had a donkey dick at some time (those guys really ruin it for the rest). But sadly, for all the generous comments they give me, I can only hear the one comment about having had a larger ex boyfriend. I have NEVER had a girlfriend say that their larger boyfriends were better in bed. In fact, the only girl that ever said she had a better lover than me (she said we tied) said he actually had the SMALLEST dick of anyone. HA HA! So the joke is on us guys I guess.

Two, I give my girlfriends a lot of coaching about what REALLY turns a guy on. I ALWAYS say that the biggest turn on is ENTHUSIASM - ability is not required. Nothing is more of a turn on than watching your girl go crazy for you to fuck her (even if she doesn’t beg for your “huge” cock). It’s funny because I think we want to hear them beg for our “huge” cock, but really just begging for sex is enough of an ego boost. Sadly, being insecure about my dick, sometimes I don’t apply this same rule to myself. I’m sure that nothing is sadder to my girlfriend than when I complain that I wish I was as big as the porn stars. God, what a loser.. And wishing I had a big dick is worse than NOT HAVING A BIG DICK.. Honest.
Now think about this. Your girlfriend asks if you like her b cup breasts.. You say they are nice, perky, tanned, and sensitive. But she says they aren’t big enough are the? What do you say to that? -“Well, they aren’t big but I love them anyway”.. Ha ha.. See, I’ve just rejected her. All the nice things in the world can’t make up for what she’s really thinking which is: “see, he’s had so many other women with bigger breasts!” Since 90% of the stories here are from average to large guys, I’m guessing the insults they received were actually just a little honesty. I mean, can you honestly tell a girl with a B cup that her breasts are large, even if you love them? A dick is different but don’t forget, dicks have lot’s of qualities besides size and girth (hardness, warmth, stamina). A woman can love your cock for other reasons than size.
That of course is the point in the end, and someone here said on this thread, Passion and CONFIDENCE are everything. If you use your tool like it’s a fucking MAGIC WAND.. Then they will happily kneel down, bend over, or take it hard for you.. That’s a promise.

Third, it is really terrible to hear these rejection stories. I have these flashbacks often of similar problems.. But like I said, I can trace them all back to something I said first to provoke them. What is strangely missing here is painful stories from undersized men. I would really like to hear their side.

And lastly, not fourth but as a side note, ANAL sex is true heaven for me as for many others.. My size of 7” BPEL x 5.3” is plenty for that.. More might look better but it won’t help anything. And this I have learned from experience. This topic seems to be left out a lot in stories of sexual encounters here. Any of you guys telling stories of rejection here ever been told it’s too big to put back there? Now that would suck.

That is a good post, asbigas.

Thanks MrAvg.

As a follow up to my last post. Writing that post (my first on this site) inspired me to lay it on the line with my girlfriend. I told her all my fears and all the comments she’s said that have made me wonder if she enjoyed other men more. Honestly, she just laughed at me. In each case, I had completely misunderstood her intentions. We spent hours talking and exploring past episodes and I can honestly say, it was one of the most positive ego boosting experiences of my sexual life. There is no room for doubt anymore how I “stack up” in her eyes!

I might suggest to others having similar anxieties about their lovers desires and penis size to just confront them and get it all out on the table. If your bad feelings are wrong, you will be relieved, and if they were right then you will finally know for sure - plain and simple.

I concur, old chum.
505’s will never go out of style. You can wear them to the construction site, or you can wear them with a polo shirt. I do, however, think it is a bad idea to tuck-in shirts with jeans. Usually, I only tuck-in dress shirts, all other shirts hang out.

Comments….hmmm…before PE….not many…no comments of “gee that’s a big one or that’s small…”…just- nothing. And this after being a cunning linguist.

Since PE and gaining that half+ inch in length I get the “woof!” if I go too deep doggie style whilst coming. I must say though that there’s a noticeable difference between sex with a steady vs the one-two-three night stand where there’s a bit more foreplay/tenting involved. The same woman, when fully tented, i.e., when aided by additional foreplay, not to say any, ahem, illegal pharmacuticals such as delta-9-tetra-etc-bol has been known to request a full as in sideways to the very hilt bury it in me baby screw my lovin’ brains out porking. ‘Course it could’ve just been the fact that we were buck forking nekkid on the desert floor of Big Bend National Park at sundown at New Years Eve this past January so if you were driving to Study Butte from the Basin around 5:45pm on the 31st and heard the coyotes that weren’t them.

But generally, I’ve found that once you get past 8” BPEL you must be careful as to angle, timing and rhythm.

I had a 7” (NBP) x 5” penis for most of my post-puberty life (it is now 7.5 NBP x 5.2). Before I gained half an inch, I primarily received no comments, but about 20% of the time, have been told I had a big one. This was always a turn on to me, and sadly, now that I am even bigger, I am in a monogamous relationship, so those ego-feeding comments are not possible.

Interestingly, in my experience where I am told I have a “large” or “nice-sized” or “bigger than average” penis, it almost invariably is brought to my attention that the person giving the compliment HAS had bigger — sometimes “too big” — and I am merely “one” of the bigger ones. But guess what? I am so twisted sexually that THIS is a turn on too, and frequently I ask for more details about how big their biggest was, and how did it feel different, and as many other things as I can get away with without (I hope!) coming off as creepy.

On a related note, here is a specific story I want to tell.

I am on good terms with my ex-girlfriend (which isn’t always kosher to my current girlfiriend, needless to say). My ex always said I had a big cock. But she always admitted she would like to try even larger, too. At the time we broke up (around age 25, I am 35 now) she had had sex with 7 men. One of the seven she thought was more endowed than myself, but it was her first and 1.she might have been mis-remembering, and 2.didn’t know it was big at the time, so didn’t fully appreciate it. Anyway, a couple years ago we were talking frankly about sex, and she told me that she had fucked over 30 men by then, and that undeniably I DID have a large cock, but she felt that 2 or 3 she had had were bigger than me, and that my width was only slightly above average. (This might be a perception thing for her: I know I was longer than average, but pretty sure I was merely average in width.) Of course when she mentioned the horse-cocks, I quizzed her unmercifully about them, and she was only too happy to talk about it! (What a woman! And she liked it in the ass, too! Those were the days, boy…)

Anyway, I could go on but this is getting long-winded. Suffice it to say I have been told by a few women I am bigger than average, a couple times been called huge, but mostly had no comment. Somehow I know, though, if I were playing the field now I would get many more comlpiments. In addition to being bigger, my penis is veinier and gets harder than anytime since I was in highschool. I am bigger AND more virile, and — curse of curses — totally monogamous. If only I knew about this PE stuff at 18!!!

Sorry for the biggie-sized post….

Cdr.Blop

I had the tiny dick indicated via a finger jester when I was 17. Don’t think I will ever get over that one.

I have messed around with 4 girls. The first girl exact words were “watch how you use that thing you could hurt somebody”. She was directly that comment to the next girl that I was with. The second girl said before we messed around that she wanted to see lil’ Willie. After she grabbed and held it she wrote in a letter that lil Willie wasn’t so little after all.

The third girl always told me to slow down doing sex because it hurt so much. She would honestly be scared to fuck because she didn’t want to go through the pain. And the last and recent girl I’m with always tells me that my dick is perfect. She has had longer, thicker, and smaller but says mines is almost as perfect as you can get. I asked her what could make it absolutly perfect and she said if it was a tad bit thicker and slightly longer.

I thought to myself good because I’m currently 7.25” nbp X 5.3” EG and I want to be 8 X 6, so this will probably work out perfect for me.

My mental abuse didn’t really come from the women I’ve been with. At 18, I haven’t had sex with many girls, but the two I’ve been with said I was huge. But I didn’t feel it due to my mental abuse.

"Friends” of mine always teased me about me having a small cock. They claimed, and I really wouldn’t doubt since they had self confidence out the ass as well as testimonies that I’ve gotten from a good amount of girls that they’ve been with, that they were between 8.5 and 9.5 inches each. And just that alone damaged me. They made me feel inferior to them and that I was small and couldn’t please a girl. I haven’t seen any other penises other than my own since I was too embarrassed to be seen in a locker room. I tried to stay away from these “friends” as much as possible, and the two girls I was with had no positive affect on me. All negative from these so called “friends.”

Being 8” x 5.25” now and not talking to those “friends” anymore, I think I’m doing better with my self confidence!

EDIT:I also remember a downfall is that I have a weak erection, it’s only solid when I haven’t jerked off for 3 days which is rare and hard to do, and that is to porno. When I’m with a girl I can’t get completely hard no matter what. It may be because they were both pretty loose.

I thought I should update this, since I’ve now had a few new partners since I achieved 8x6.

None of them made any comments upon seeing my dick.

All, however, seemed very pleased during intercourse.

Only 2 girls have ever really seen mine, so that doesn’t give me much to work with. One of them though I dated for a long time when I was younger. We were each others firsts and what not and it was around age 16 and I was 7” NBPEL so we thought that might be decent . Recently we hooked up again and she just said “yup, it’s big”.

My first wife ( we were both 18) seriously fucked me up. I was 5.5 X 4.5 bpel and after she cheated on me ( with my best man who was really HUNG) she yelled ” Yeah he fucked me like a REAL man!” Suffice it to say I was totally fucked after that! Fortunately I met my current wife of 12 years ( 15 altogether) and I couldn’t be happier. Through conversations I have found out I’m the smallest she has ever had ( out of 4 other men) yet she married me ( she is quite pretty too). I have never really had complaints besides the ex but her comments haunted me for years, even to the point of ” not being able to rise to the occasion” on several occasions. I have found out after several tries at PE that if your doing it for her you wont stay the course but rather you have to do it for yourself. I’m finally putting my demons to rest and am lucky enough to have a great woman by my side that supports PE if it makes me feel better. At one point my current wife and I were talking about our last name and I told her she had had enough of me ( being my dick) in her to be a ( last name inserted here) and she replied ” I haven’t had THAT much!” I laughed my ass off! Its wonderful what a secure relationship can do for your insecurities. 15 years ago if she said that I would have been doubting myself and putting a bunch of stupid shit in my head, but now I can see it for the humor that it is….Damn I love this woman! I hope you all are as lucky as I am one day!

My ex and current girlfriend have made the mistake of yelling “harder” then gasping and whimpering, “slow down”

I got married at 20 and was only with 5 girls before that.They all seemed to enjoy it and wanted to hook up again, but I don’t recall any overt “big dick” comments.I was around 6” bpel and maybe a little over 5” eg then..

At 25, while separated from my wife, I fucked a stripper who was into muscles and used to be all over me at the gym we trained at.She was a few years older than I was and had been around.She told me I had a nice cock and knew how to use it well.She also said I was “about an inch” longer than her boyfriend..

My ex always said my cock was big, but after watching porn I felt I needed more size and found Hubbard’s board.I did PE, mostly jelqing, for a little over a year and added length and girth up to 7.5-7.75 bpel and 5.75-6.0 eg.My flaccid has always been good, usually 5.25 nbpl and 4.75-5.0 fg..

Anyway, I ended up divorced a few years ago after reconciling for years. Since then, I have rarely not gotten a “big dick” comment from a new lover.I hooked up with a married woman with three kids from work in 2000 who actually backed away from my cock when she saw it for the first time.She told me she was “scared because it’s much bigger than my husband’s!”.She told me another time that she heard about some contortionist guy who could blow himself and she thought that I was the only guy she knew who might be able to do that (right!).I fucked her again after I restarted PE in December and she commented that it felt “even bigger than before”..

My current GF actually stuttered when she saw it for the first time.She said, “Oh my god, it’s huge!! But then I knew it would be because you’re so big everywhere else!” Made me feel like a king!! She went on to say how it’s not only long, but really wide, too.The thickness seems to get most women’s attention as I always hit the sides and have to go slowly going in.My ex, toward the end when we were fighting, said I liked to fuck women hard just to hurt them with my big dick.Damn! They also all now say they feel it in their stomach or that it’s hitting the back and hurting them.I still don’t feel big though.It’s weird, but it keeps me motivated for PE.