Dammit, I miss my sex drive!

It’s not as high as it used to be!

When I was younger (currently 18), I would get boners by looking at great looking women with great body parts. Seriously though, I don’t get an erection as easy and I don’t get as aroused as I used to. I used to have lot’s of lucid dreams and my hot sexual fantasies would come to life and I would wake up extremely happy. Now, I’m not as horny as I used too. When I ejaculate, my load isn’t as big and I don’t get as hard due to loss of interest. When I look at a topless women, I find it troubling to lust and drool and so and so.

Is it becuase I masturbate too much? Is it because I can almost imagine any women topless with huge tits 24/7? Have I myself degraded women in my mind?

Thanks!

Do you look at a lot of porn as well?

From time to time, yes.

You don’t say how old you are or how much you masturbate.

If you are having trouble with libido consider that you could be having decreased levels of testosterone, depression, stress, etc.

Try decreasing masturbation to once or twice a week. Avoid using porn.

Yeah, I did mention my age in my first post (I said I was 18) and I’m going to halt masturbation. I don’t really get stressed out or depressed at all.

Anyways, I miss my old sex drive so I’ll stop.

If after a few weeks your drive doesn’t go back to normal, you need to tell your Dr that you need your T levels checked. Don’t let him talk you out of it. I have known young men personally who have gone for years, lost their wives, etc because the Dr dismissed the idea that their T might be low.

A supplement named yohimbe will have you hornier than a school boy in the girls locker room. Try it, be cautious of the sides effects however.

I don’t know much about the differences between yohimbe and yohimbine, but I think yohimbine is supposed to be better.

so do I…

OK first answer
Yohimbee is the bark of a tree yohimbine is concentrared
Always be carefull

I’m 23 and I also experience similar problems
Morning wood comes very seldom or not at all.
Some days I ejaculate only a few drops, but most of the times it’s a really huge load (lots of girls told me that)
I’m also having problems with keeping an erection, even when masturbating. I guess I’m gonna get my hormones checked and so should you… I’m having problems since 4 or 5 years. And you know what? Start seeing the problem now and maybe it can be removed by tomorrow.
Just like me you are very young and I guess this is a very depressing thing for you.
KOG answered me and told me he had similar problems wich went away when he started using a pump.
I’ve never used one before myself, but might try it.
I tried some pills but most made me drowsy, I fell asleep or got bellyake. Same might happen with yohimee-products or Pills like Viagra, ixense…etc because those were originally used to treat heart illness, others to empty out your stomach (coll huh?). I’m gonna try a few more, just don’t expect too much and remember a pill will only give effect when you take it. As soon as it is ‘used up’ all the nice effects go away until you take the next pill. (BTW don’t overdo it)

I guess you should also read a lot of threads here, since this problem can be solved

Look around for Kegel-exercises, this will improove the load of cum and the hardness of erections, plus you can push yourself into a multiorgasm, wich is a really nice effect. (I might not get hard erections but I shoot big loads and can cum 3 times ejaculating within 10 minutes. kinda like a 10 min orgasm.)

Look at my routine it’s nice and easy and includes everything you need.

First measurements

I use a lot of kegel excercises here since hardness of erections is my main problem.
To find out single excercises look at the Manual Guide that ‘soon2b9’ posted:

A Quickstart Guide to Manual Exercises

This includes many excercises and I guess everything you need can be found there.
Advanced excercises can be added later.
I’m at it since 6 weeks and still using normal jelqs normal squeezes and stretches.
as soon as you see results and that will be your morning wood in about 2 weeks or yout load of cum you can decide what you want to train and on wich part you want to focus…

Well hope I could help you.

Porn should never be a problem, trust me.
You also might wanna think about sexuality. A lot of men turn gay or bi at our age. Didn’t happen to me, but does to a lot of others (my dad for example)
See ya

Nox2 will really strengthen your drive, increase you flaccid hang and give you a woody. Imperator, when you reach age fifty you’ll wish you had the sex drive you had at 18. It’s all relative. But Luv is probably right, less masturbation and definitely less porn.

BG

Porn shouldn’t be a problem, it just shouldn’t be needed….

guys, in tao there is a saying that translates as “the wisdom of the penis”

the only girl in my life I really never should have even talked to…well I couldn’t get it up with her the first time. MY DICK KNEW! seriously, if your penis is not responding it is more likely a mental thing than a physical problem with Testosterone or hormones, especially if you’re in your early 20s.

you may just be so conditioned to masturbating or porn or whatever it is that it doesn’t stimulate you at all anymore. or you may have issues with your wife, girlfriend or just women in general at the moment.

just my two cents, since everyone seems convinced you need a doctor…I think the solution is a bit more complex than needing an injection of some sort.

bean

You seem to have a few misconceptions.
I think everyone agrees that at his age the most likely answer is psychological. However, If things are not returning to normal after a few weeks of avoiding masturbatioin and porn its a good idea to look into the possibilty that low testosterone could be the problem. Nowadays this is usually treated by a transdermal patch although some doctors us intramuscular injections. Low T can be a cause of both erectile dysfucntion and low libido (both of which he mentioned). If porn and masturbation avoidance and T levels are normal - it may be that Imperator needs more in depth psychological work than simply de stressing and “de porning”.

True luvdadus
I read somewhere that you are a doctor and I guess you know what you’re talking about.
My mother is a doctor too but I can’t talk about things.
I’m having pronlems with or without porn since years.

I remember one day sitting in the train on the way home I got really horny for no reason at all.
Walking home from the trainstation I made a stop in the park. It was at night and noone was there so I flipped out my penis and it felt wonderful. It had the size and hardness as if I used a cockring, veins were popping out like hell and it wouldn’t go away for half an hour. I felt really good and just let it be as it was.

Too bad that was the only time in the last 4 years or more that I had an erection of that kind.
This happened last summer. Too bad no girls were around.

I’m pretty much open for everything, I don’t have any problems, stress yes a real lot.
It might be that the stress in my life causes my ED. But tell me…

…If I’m really happy if I have a perfect day why doesn’t my penis work on those days?
Is it just that I think about it so much?

WAIT A MINUTE:
Scientists can clone humans but they can’t fix a penis or enlarge it? OK no further questions.