To be fair, I know it saves many lives and embarassment through preventing the spread of STDs, but I think the whole “safe sex” argument has gona a bit far now. No one can dispute the fact that condoms reduce the pleasure for the guys, and probably for the ladies too, since the penis is far more textured than a smooth condom. Anyway I feel the safe sex activists have gone too far in that now people in STD free monogomous relationships refuse tohave sex without a condom because they don’t want children. Fair enough, but too far in my view if she is on the pill.
I remember having many conversations about this sort of thing with my recently ex-gf. Despite her denying it, the message I got out of it was that until she wanted children we would rarely have unprotected sex, even though we were both clean and faithful. I just found that a little unfair considering she was on the pill and condoms do nothing for me sensation-wise. I mean, I know its good to be safe, but a 99% effective condom and a 99% effective pill don’t necessarily make 100% anyway. I think its a real shame that nowadays people are missing out on the better side of sex. No wonder a lot of people (both sexes) come on forums such as these saying “I’ve just had sex, and it really isn’t worth all the hype!” I used to say that myself, but the two times in two and a half years that I did have unprotected sex with my ex showed me otherwise.
I guess the only way this trend can be reversed (aside from finding cures and vaccines for every STD - but I’m purely talking about faithful relationships without STDs anyway) is for the scientists to hurry up with the male pill! I for one can’t wait for it! :D
Anyway, I seem to be back on form for going completely astray from the topic at hand! :p
Just out of interest, since a lot of people here seem to have a lot of knowledge or links concerning such things, does anyone know of any male pill tests going on in the UK that I could join? :)
Start: 22 Mar 04: 6.5" BPEL x 4.6" EG & 6" head. As at: 1 Jan 05: 7.5" BPEL x 4.8-4.9" EG & 6.3" head.
Re-re-start!: 6 Feb 17: 6.9" BPEL x 4.9" EG & 5.5" head. As of: 23 Feb 17: 7.0" BPEL x 5.0" EG & 6.0" head.
Ideal: ASAP: 8+" BPEL x 5.5+" EG & 6.5+" head But will continue if the going is good!!