Ejaculate or not to ejaculate?

I have resorted to using my email program Tsuga.

Well, at least you find yourself funny. That’s step one, I guess.

The ‘million dollar point’ refers to the place just in front of your anus under your scrotal sack, where the inner portion of the penis attaches to the BC muscle. If you press this point it blocks the ejaculate from traveling up and out of the penis, and your body therefore saves some energy replacing the substance of the ejaculate.

It is not bad for you to do this, but it is not really a good technique to become multi-orgasmic or even to last longer in the sack. If you were do it slightly before you ejaculate it will work better toward helping you last longer in the sack. You want to do it long enough before ‘the point of no return.’

The Multi-Orgasmic Man is a book I’ve been recommending (almost as if I wrote it - though, I assure you my real name is not ‘Mantak’…or ‘Doug’), and it has some techniques which can give you ejaculatory control, prolong your lovemaking, and ultimately allow you to decide whether you ejaculate when you come. It has really worked for me.

What you are doing theone11 is similar to certain techniques the allow you to delay ejaculating. It’s not bad, but if it feels bad to you I can see why you wouldn’t want to do it. The book I’m talking about challenges men to tune in to their experience of sex in very different way. A subtle level of sensation and response. The fringe benefit of doing this kind of thing is that, in time, you retrain your body and are ultimately in control of when you orgasm - and when you ejaculate. They are two different things. Most men come and ejaculate at the same time and then sex is over until the refractory period is done. With young guys that period can be very short. So most guys are happy with coming and ejaculating at the same time. But what if you could control it? Totally. Have orgasms without shooting your load and continue to have sex? I’m here to tell you it takes you to a whole new level. And the woman (or women) in your life will be very pleased. Trust me.

This other reference work that Tsuga is talking about seems to be along similar lines, but with a few differences. The primary one being the ‘key sound’. I’m definitely going to pick it up.

I would guess, Tsuga, that the sound is linked to how you breathe - and it is probably a way of naturally altering your breathing pattern so that you don’t build up to the point of no return. I know you don’t care how it works, more that it works. I’m very interested, though.

The human body is a fascinating thing.

Good post Mantak.

I had medication-induced retrograde ejaculation for awhile - about 1 out of 3 times I’d shoot backward even without employing multi-orgasmic techniques. For me it is definitely a somewhat uncomfortable experience (sort of like my intestines are doing a flip-flop) and results in a less satisfying orgasm.

The orgasm, though, from preventing ejaculation altogether, either forward or backward, is a good one and well worth learning how to do.

Ok, I need some help here.

Can someone tell me how you add that recessed box with text in it that says “quote” just above it from another persons post in yours? I have never been able to figure it out.

Press the “Quote” button on the bottom right of the post you want to quote.

Duh, how could I have not seen that. Thanks mbuc

Amen to that Mr. Happy!! especially the part about the woman in your life being very pleased. I find that to be an understatement, at least for my woman. There was a recent thread about how much sex you end up getting after being married. I think the majority was two to three times a week. In my marriage it was one to two times a week until I started working on being multi orgasmic then it shot up to pretty much seven days a week, and I’m talking about after 15 years of marriage, a business and two kids. Although I considered myself a tuned in lover it was still a version of lick, pump, squirt, snore. Not a recipe for a turned on woman. I cant promise anyone you’ll get sex seven days a week by not ejaculated and becoming multi orgasmic but I would say the quality will definitely be better and I bet the quantity would go up too.

I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again Add multi orgasmic skills with a bigger wanker and you have the ultimate combination. She’ll keep on coming back for more and more.

Message recieved, will leave humor to the pros, out.

I’d love it Mr. Happy if you got the audio CD on the key sound. It appears we are on similar paths here. I have a number of Mantak Chia’s books as well as some others and have been practicing the Taoist aproach to orgasm/ejaculation control for a number of years. It would be great to have someone to compare notes with on both these methods.

Has anyone found a decent link where I can read up more about these methods, other than that tape?