Ejaculation and shooting

I’ve been less than thrilled with my ability to shoot during ejaculation and can’t remember a time in my life when I was really a shooter. So I’ve read all the tips — kegeling to strengthen the PC muscle, abstaining from orgasm for a few days, drinking liquids to make my cum less thick, and so and so on. But when I came, it still tended to either ooze out or pop out in one gooey blob. In other words, no shooting and none of the distinct squirts associated with the orgasms we’re familiar with from porn.

Well, I’ve recently made what I think may be an important discovery. I realized that I never really “let go” when I’m about to cum. Instead, I think I’ve trained myself to kegel, probably as a side effect of squeezing my PC muscle during sex to prevent cumming before I want to. As a result, I feel the spasms after the initial nutt, but my PC muscle is strong enough to either prevent more cum from escaping or it just oozes/drips out. I’ve tested this theory the last few times I came and sure enough, the orgasm was more explosive when I really concentrated on just letting go. I still had an urge to kegel but was moderately successful in not squeezing. It felt weird (for me) and the result was far from what I would consider actually “shooting,” but it was a vast improvement over the force I normally exhibit. Anyone else have a similar experience with this and/or have any tips to share about how I can build on this “discovery?”

Have you tried cumming after say a 1 hour girth workout? When I do this, I get many many squirts that shoot really far. I think it is due to maybe the swelling of the chambers putting more pressure on the urethra.

Interesting. I’ll have to give it a shot (no pun intended, lol).

Sex (penetrative or masturbatory) is often best when it is made “brainless.” Think less about the process and think more on the sensations happening during the process.

Anyway, how important is it to be a long-distance shooter? Seems to me that the intensity and especially the duration of an orgasm is a lot more critical than the trajectory of the fluids.

All good points. Seems like my brain has been much too involved at times. So I’m reprogramming myself to “turn it off.”

Bri, you are definitely on to something. When I think about it, the times when I really shot over her head were when I was in total LOVE with the person I was having sex with and I was just so totally excited to be in the room with such a lovely creature! Letting go and just accepting the bliss that comes with making love to someone is harder than you think.

Brian,

Join the feelings you have (alone or with your gf ) when you working with your stick. Not often thinking about shooting and many cum. Important is a healthful nutrition too.

Bye

Philadelph, I’ve experienced the same thing when doing long girth workouts and specially edging… Also, if you’ve ever noticed male porn starts, they’ll press the area just behind/under their sack and when they blow they’ll release and press, release and press with each contraction.

This happened to me yesterday.

I finished my routine at around 9pm. Around 11 I decided to do some edging, unfortunately I got a little too excited to hold back and boy oh boy did I spurt. I was surprised.