Erection Problems Lately!!

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What the hell is wrong with my dick? I am only 21 and for some reason lately I have had erection problems. I have no idea why. I mean this girl I am seeing is GORGEOUS and her ass is absolutely to die for. She’s into anal sex too! And twice last night we tried to have it and my dick was 50% erect. I had to sit there and try and try and try to get it hard. It was so embarassing and she was completely just insulted. It killed the mood completely!! :(

What’s the problem? I have been pumping lately. I guess I am going to stop that. I just can’t figure out what the problem is.

WBH, do not worry! Most likely it is the performance demon that holds you back. Just relax, slow down. Wait with the anal stuff, no rush until the time feels right, if it ever does for you. When I met my wife, the most beautiful woman I ever have seen, I experienced the same reaction you describe. It was over ten years ago, and I was fitting a condom to my gear when I suddenly got that failure with the hydraulics for the first time in my life. My biggest worries was how she would react to it, I mean the level of erection may be understood as a measure of attraction and so forth. I should not say this but we threw away the condom: when my little soldier felt the presence of her juices, it miraculously awakened. It is a very sensitive situation when trying to make it work with a new woman.

I think we have a serious case of PE syndrome going on. Guys are thinking about their cocks so much and whether or not they are going to measure up to some kind of imagined standard, it is affecting their performance in the sack.

When on a date, try to leave the PE behind and do what you used to do, namely focus on the girl and how sexy she is. Get into some serious foreplay and only think about her, not your PE swollen cock!

This “I can’t get it up” syndrome is starting to spread like wildfire, so keep your focus between her legs, not yours.

gprent,

You’re right. I’ve been suffering for a long time. I even have two “magic” numbers that until I’m at I will not be happy. Of course it is folly to suggest that there is a size where everything will click into place and I’ll be done with PE, this is not the case, but until I’m 7” NBPEL x 5” EGMS I will not be happy enough to even have normal erections on a regular basis.

I would be more worried that it was physical except that I’ve been very careful with PE, and also that I can really feel this mental block going on. It’s like 85% of my brain time is spent thinking about sizing up, the other 15% gets to think about pleasure etc and doesn’t do so well.

I saw an advert for a hypnotherapist and psychotherapist and even considered seeing how much a session would cost. I would really like to hear what I’d say under hypnosis when asked the question “why do you feel so bad about your size?”.

As it stands I’m perfectly happy with the length. At a max of 8” BPEL at the moment, I feel pretty long. It’s the girth that gets me. 4.5” was bad, 4.75” is better but not there yet. The base is 5”, sometimes a little over and that feels right. That’s what I need to get to, as if my brain has sifted through thousands of statistics and decided that these two numbers combine to create a penis that’s worthy.

I think WBH’s problem is more performance related, but my problem and his both stem from the excessive focus on the penis. Maybe it’s time for a break from the forum WBH? I did that once and it really helped to make me focus on other things. Plus when you get back their’s loads to read.

Good luck!

From my experience, sometimes the woman or situation can be too much! You can’t actually believe what is happening! Sometimes my dick will get twice as hard for an ugly girl than for the most beautiful girl in the world!

Sorry to hear of your problem my friend. I do have a question or two about this? How much have you be seeing her lately? Are you inseparable? Where are you having sex at physically (location)? The reason I ask is if you are doing this and afraid of subconsciously getting caught it could play havoc with both heads and you not realize. If you are constantly with her, you may feel pressure to “measure up” and that is when bad things happen. There are plenty of other good ideas as to why in this thread also, I am just shitting out ideas right now.

Dude, what are you doing PE wise? Particularly anything new or hardcore to give yourself erectile disfunction? Has it been clamping?

Clamping I don’t think gives me a problem at all. At least from what I can tell so far? I think it’s more pumping and all of that. :shrug:

WBH,

If you’re pumping every day, that may be too much for you right now. Take a week off and see how it goes. All of our dicks needs a rest from PE every now and then just to regroup and come back with a vengeance.

Peforeal